universe

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  1. How do you feel about yourself? Are you comfortable talking to women? I was so confused with the way you used the word club haha. So instead of clubs maybe try going out to clubs
  2. Accept & Let Go Integrating Emotions. The situation won't change, but you are. Going from grief, anger, sadness to courage, acceptance, completeness. Is there a lack of friendship or an abundance of friendship? Whatever you believe will become reality.
  3. Logistics were perfect / She had a business meeting planned She has a business meeting / Drinks alcohol Not sure what you told her but "I invite you for coffee/lets have a coffee" is pretty unambiguous. She might wanted to drink something to let loose. If you don't want that simply tell her "Not now, I've still got work to do/plans" or "Not now, we can have drinks later at my place/somewhere else".
  4. Accept everything that you fear. Spidy could touch you and feel icky? - Accept that possibility Spidy could crawl an you? - Accept that possibility Spidy could bite you and you will die? - Accept that possibility Spidy could climb into your mouth and you accidentally swallow it down? - Accept that possibility It's an emotional thing. When you have accepted all those - you will be well prepared on your next encounter. ❤️
  5. Moved to Video Requests For Leo. @Danioover9000 Please be a little more frugal with these emojis, they don't grow on trees here!
  6. The construction is the wonder. Doesn't matter who built it. It's old and outstanding. And of course the guy who wrote it down might had some bias. Without bias everything is a wonder.
  7. There are a hundred thousand people doing t-shirts, dropshipping, freelance and whatnot. There are not many people developing processors or consoles. So in a way you have it easier. Companies that need a lot of money upfront also typically scale far better than the ones that don't. Assemble a team of 3 highly skilled founders, make a plan and go look for investors.
  8. Learn to relax and be playful in these kind of situations. Kind of like, get our your head. You see in your head there are all these negative beliefs and thoughts, of what could go wrong and what other people think. That's not doing you any favours. But I wouldn't recommend dating in a small company like yours. There is always the possibility of it working out great in the beginning, you get together and then after a year or so you have a nasty break up. Then you would have to see each other at work every day...
  9. Stop being a devil. Stop comparing yourself with others. This is a downwards spiral. There will always be people who won the genetic lottery, have more power, more money, more sex. Focus on yourself because everything else is fruitless anyways. When you practice comparing yourself to others you will feel bad and lacking. When you practice gratefulness you will feel good and abundant. Your decision.
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  11. Do whatever feels and is right for you. Seems like you could work on your self / integrate right now. But whatever life situation you are in right now, it is not limiting your dating. The only thing that is stopping you from dating the woman you really like - is you.
  12. That's exactly it. You are fighting a losing battle.
  13. Hard to tell. Why do you think you did it? Could be that the tension was just very high and you wanted an escape. In that case, try to be more comfortable with tension. Or it could be that you felt like melting into her and a need for separation arose in you. In that case, release on your neediness.
  14. It's a pastime activity. Given the benefit of the doubt, they just have run out of things to say. I'd steer the conversation somewhere more enticing. Otherwise, if you want to keep being a good listener, just agree again and see if they backtrack from their backtrack.
  15. A. Having focus B. On one thing C. That they are passionate about
  16. An easy way to bring energy into a group is by being fun and relaxed. If you want to relax I'm afraid you will have to stop caring too much about what others think of you. If you want to relax I'm afraid you will have to trust the present moment. If you want to relax I'm afraid you will have to go into your body and out of your head. If you want to relax I'm afraid you will have to be less afraid of things.
  17. It's important that you "get over" this kind of relationship. If it's bad for you. Here is how its done. What not to do: -Giving him too much space in your head, thinking about him, judging him. -Running away from him, being afraid of him. To get over this, you got to forgive your brother. Go through all the judgements you make against him and see where you yourself do the same. Then forgive yourself. Release all your feelings of hate, resentment and so on you have about him. Then when you're done you will feel kind of at ease with the situation. Even though the situation didn't change. You just grew out of it. You can still distance yourself from him but it won't feel forced. It will feel natural.
  18. Welcome to the dating world! Sounds like solid learnings you got there.
  19. Love is pretty hard to accept for some. It can put a lot of pressure on them. There is also the possibiliy that you attract women with commitment phobia, because you also have it.
  20. No, enjoy your food. ❤️
  21. I find it's best to do some small and simple exercise during your work (10-15 minutes every 2h for example). You can also switch and go jogging in the morning and then have your yoga session after work.
  22. Men in general don't understand what women do in the dating sphere, as much as women don't understand what men do. Don't take dating advice from the opposite gender.
  23. @Tyler Robinson The guy in the video did exactly the opposite of what you should do in social interactions. When you want to have a good time you assume everyone likes you. From what he said you could quickly see that he thought the others where a threat. And he needed to justify and explain to them. If you want to make a better impression always assume whatever the other person is asking is in good faith and they already like you.
  24. Laugh about it. No reason to focus on the negative. It's human to do it but you'll get much more out of life when you can focus on the positive.
  25. I think it's ok to indulge in some ice cream and pizza. These are not even that unhealthy. Body builders eat ice cream because it has comparatively low calories, pizza you can eat without cheese and with lots of veggies and it becomes healthier (if you don't have celiac of course). Yesterday I had vegan ice cream without sugar, just dates and it was amazing! What you should avoid is salmon, that stuff is poison. So with all in life it's counterintuitive but you will figure it out. Listen to your body. Of course it depends on what your goals are, what your vision is.