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What have you done so far to communicate and work on these issues? Seems like there is a little too much pressure from her, planning a future and wanting too much attention. If that is a recurring pattern in your partners it's something to look out for.
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Why shouldn't they? If you are someone who is good at cooking, how likely are you going to cook more in the future? When you are good at drawing, if you stick with it, you will become better. While it's not a given, it's still very natural.
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@puporing great find! @integral You avoid those feelings by thinking differently about the whole situation. If a partner wants to pull away, that is okay. Allow them freedom. Don't be selfish. On the other hand before you reached these states of consciousness, once the emotion is there, accept it fully. Trying to avoid negative feelings is the most and fastest road to negative feelings. How To Deal With Strong Negative Emotions
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Actualized.org is practically a podcast.
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Dude guitar solo with bassline at 4:35
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There are other threads about this, from a different perspective. Basically, financially a strict copyright law is bad for YouTube. So thats why Google actively pushes against copyright laws. That is one of the reasons YouTube accepted the deal with Google back when they where bought out, because Google could protect YouTube from increasing copyright infringements. If they keep doing what they are doing, and it seems like they will, you won't have much to worry about.
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Boys and girls both make silly mistakes in dating. Its part of the process, no big deal. There are guys who sleep with women after 30 minutes of meeting them, even when she didn't have any education/perfect tits. I don't know the situation in Vegas tho. But I can imagine that there are a lot of women who have a specific goal when visiting the city, and its not to visit the cathedral or museum.
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I'd advice you welcome those feelings of humiliation and feeling like shit. Become at peace with your situation. Accept and let go. If you constantly repress feelings they tend to get stronger and people will push on them in order to trigger you. Then when you are at peace with it all these kind of converssations wouldn't trigger you at all. You could answer something like "Yes, I think you would be a perfect fit for my coaching program where I teach others how to not have to work a single day in their life again!" and then everytime you see them you pitch it to them again. Then at the end of the wedding ask for their phone number and be very persistent with reminding them of how shitty they feel, working every day. And what they could accomplish with your coaching, how their life could look like. With just a 4.000$ investment into your coaching. Until they block you on their phone
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How do you feel about yourself? Are you comfortable talking to women? I was so confused with the way you used the word club haha. So instead of clubs maybe try going out to clubs
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Accept & Let Go Integrating Emotions. The situation won't change, but you are. Going from grief, anger, sadness to courage, acceptance, completeness. Is there a lack of friendship or an abundance of friendship? Whatever you believe will become reality.
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Logistics were perfect / She had a business meeting planned She has a business meeting / Drinks alcohol Not sure what you told her but "I invite you for coffee/lets have a coffee" is pretty unambiguous. She might wanted to drink something to let loose. If you don't want that simply tell her "Not now, I've still got work to do/plans" or "Not now, we can have drinks later at my place/somewhere else".
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Accept everything that you fear. Spidy could touch you and feel icky? - Accept that possibility Spidy could crawl an you? - Accept that possibility Spidy could bite you and you will die? - Accept that possibility Spidy could climb into your mouth and you accidentally swallow it down? - Accept that possibility It's an emotional thing. When you have accepted all those - you will be well prepared on your next encounter. ❤️
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Moved to Video Requests For Leo. @Danioover9000 Please be a little more frugal with these emojis, they don't grow on trees here!
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The construction is the wonder. Doesn't matter who built it. It's old and outstanding. And of course the guy who wrote it down might had some bias. Without bias everything is a wonder.
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There are a hundred thousand people doing t-shirts, dropshipping, freelance and whatnot. There are not many people developing processors or consoles. So in a way you have it easier. Companies that need a lot of money upfront also typically scale far better than the ones that don't. Assemble a team of 3 highly skilled founders, make a plan and go look for investors.
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Learn to relax and be playful in these kind of situations. Kind of like, get our your head. You see in your head there are all these negative beliefs and thoughts, of what could go wrong and what other people think. That's not doing you any favours. But I wouldn't recommend dating in a small company like yours. There is always the possibility of it working out great in the beginning, you get together and then after a year or so you have a nasty break up. Then you would have to see each other at work every day...
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Stop being a devil. Stop comparing yourself with others. This is a downwards spiral. There will always be people who won the genetic lottery, have more power, more money, more sex. Focus on yourself because everything else is fruitless anyways. When you practice comparing yourself to others you will feel bad and lacking. When you practice gratefulness you will feel good and abundant. Your decision.
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Do whatever feels and is right for you. Seems like you could work on your self / integrate right now. But whatever life situation you are in right now, it is not limiting your dating. The only thing that is stopping you from dating the woman you really like - is you.
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That's exactly it. You are fighting a losing battle.
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Hard to tell. Why do you think you did it? Could be that the tension was just very high and you wanted an escape. In that case, try to be more comfortable with tension. Or it could be that you felt like melting into her and a need for separation arose in you. In that case, release on your neediness.
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It's a pastime activity. Given the benefit of the doubt, they just have run out of things to say. I'd steer the conversation somewhere more enticing. Otherwise, if you want to keep being a good listener, just agree again and see if they backtrack from their backtrack.
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A. Having focus B. On one thing C. That they are passionate about
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An easy way to bring energy into a group is by being fun and relaxed. If you want to relax I'm afraid you will have to stop caring too much about what others think of you. If you want to relax I'm afraid you will have to trust the present moment. If you want to relax I'm afraid you will have to go into your body and out of your head. If you want to relax I'm afraid you will have to be less afraid of things.
