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If you bring out shit, people associate you with it. Now if that doesn't matter to you thats allright. But if you want to date her take it easy. Overall sounds like you tried to be rational and wanted her to behave like a man.

self-love ≠ Self-Love This guy talks about people with depression. Actualized.org is specifically not a place to heal your depression. It's stated in the User Guidelines. And I agree with him. If you are depressed it can be because you are too much concerned with your own life and don't care enough about others. Which again Self-Love fixes but there are other ways to do it.

Fuck what other say you should or shouldn't do. I'm confused as to why you stayed with her instead of going to see friends. If you really go deep into why you did. Was it because others said its immature, was it because she wanted it, was it because you wanted to feel harmony, that you didn't like the tension or was it the fear of loosing her. Was it because you felt you did something wrong, was it because you felt like she misunderstood you?

Imagine being a single girl in college and wanting to find a good partner. How do you think she wants be approached by that partner? How does she meet him?

Love is the reason for challanges in life.

I'd like to share a few unknown quotes which I think are very true. You can never feel other people rejecting you, you can only feel how you reject them and In your 20s you worry about what others will think about you In your 40s you stop caring what others think about you In your 60s you realize that they have never thought about you in the first place What works best for me is to accept and love other people for who they are. Making eye contact in a busy city with strangers can be tense. Many people are not good with tension and they might find it threatening. With that in mind, work on your tension skills, get out of your head and feel into your body. When people notice you are relaxed it allows them to relax as well. Don't forget to smile

The example you give is not gaslighting to my understanding. Gaslighting is when you drive in a car with your friend and then say you think the next turn is left but he says its right. Then later he tells you that you said right and he said left. (Example) Knowing about gaslighting is what keeps you out of victimhood. Because you can be aware when someone is doing it. A good move is then not to accuse them of doing it but to distance yourself from them as soon as possible. There is a ceviat that comes with perception. Just because you perceive an event happening in one way doesn't mean that someone else does so as well. You can not know in what way exactly yout friend saw the event happening. To him it may played out differently. Or he might remembers it differently. So give your friend some leeway but it should be quite clear when it's done on purpose. Of course you are gaslighting yourself because you are Consciousness.

Very doable. Just get out and have fun meeting new people. Do it however way fits best to your personality. Meeting people in Night Clubs or Bars is only one of many ways to do it.

Self-Love Enlightenment experience And also just growing out of your previous attachment styles. Letting go of the need to be with a partner. Or letting go of the need to be separated from your partner. Around 59 minute mark.

Im ready for this because I listened to this all the time when I drove to university years ago

Men and women are very different when it comes to attraction. So your girlfriend most likely was saying the truth. And yes, what you are experiencing is very normal. But these are just desires. You can control them. Just like you can control your desire to hurt someone who you don't like, or steal money that you see somewhere. You make a choice. Having lots of sex with different people can give you pleasure. Building an intimate and long relationship with one partner can give you pleasure. Although ultimate Pleasure comes from realising that you don't need anything And not falling for the voice that tells you that you might miss out on something.

I feel you. Getting your Life Purpose to work can be tough. But it also seems you are exactly where you want to be. What is your LP? In general, if there is someone out there who could make it a profitable business and you are currently not able to do it, it means you do not see reality clearly enough. So saying you already see it all very clearly might be the number one thing holding you back. All that aside, congratulations for your hard commitment to your LP. Not anyone can do that.

What do you mean with the energy is too dense? You could become self employed. Don't need to follow the masses. Start your own business and set your own terms on how you work. Of course this will require some upfront investment and comes with a lot of risks.

Replacing negative thoughts with positive ones can take some time. In meditation you learn how to observe the mind, becoming conscious of your thoughts. Step by step try to implement it in your day. Be gentle with yourself. This is about increasing your awareness. You are still quite young and comparing yourself with others is the norm for most people even decades older than you. This is another stage you will go through in your journey. Don't resist it, just learn to be with it and let it go when the time has come.

Fear of commitment. Basically has to do with how you think about relationships. How do you view the relationship your parents have/had?

If money is not an issue I would hire a coach who can teach it to me 1 on 1. If you can find a good coach, this is the most sure thing. Another option is to make friends with people who are already where you want to be and just spend as much time as possible with them. But this is not rocket science. You don't need to study hard at all. It's more about embodiment, feeling, and becoming good with tension. Reading a bunch of articles or watching thousands of videos will have little effect overall. Thats why I recommend a coach or others you can spend time with.

When in doubt always come back to this. Yes, there are things that can be considered "lower consciousness". Activities, thoughts, whatever. And there will always be stuff to tweak and work on in day to day life. The best way to go about it is always with Love, acceptance and by letting go. ❤️

TikTok is short format, it can be helpful to gather attention. Basically it comes down to this: 100,000 people watch your tiktok From those around 1,000 will watch your longer format videos (e.g. on YouTube) And from those around one converts to an external source Etc. So if you want to rely on social media it can be beneficial to create both short and long format videos. But keep in mind that they have different use cases.

Open a bank account. Don't let that account go below 0 Spend less than you earn

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What have you done so far to communicate and work on these issues? Seems like there is a little too much pressure from her, planning a future and wanting too much attention. If that is a recurring pattern in your partners it's something to look out for.

Why shouldn't they? If you are someone who is good at cooking, how likely are you going to cook more in the future? When you are good at drawing, if you stick with it, you will become better. While it's not a given, it's still very natural.

@puporing great find! @integral You avoid those feelings by thinking differently about the whole situation. If a partner wants to pull away, that is okay. Allow them freedom. Don't be selfish. On the other hand before you reached these states of consciousness, once the emotion is there, accept it fully. Trying to avoid negative feelings is the most and fastest road to negative feelings. How To Deal With Strong Negative Emotions

Actualized.org is practically a podcast.

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