universe

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  1. Men and women are very different when it comes to attraction. So your girlfriend most likely was saying the truth. And yes, what you are experiencing is very normal. But these are just desires. You can control them. Just like you can control your desire to hurt someone who you don't like, or steal money that you see somewhere. You make a choice. Having lots of sex with different people can give you pleasure. Building an intimate and long relationship with one partner can give you pleasure. Although ultimate Pleasure comes from realising that you don't need anything And not falling for the voice that tells you that you might miss out on something.
  2. I feel you. Getting your Life Purpose to work can be tough. But it also seems you are exactly where you want to be. What is your LP? In general, if there is someone out there who could make it a profitable business and you are currently not able to do it, it means you do not see reality clearly enough. So saying you already see it all very clearly might be the number one thing holding you back. All that aside, congratulations for your hard commitment to your LP. Not anyone can do that.
  3. What do you mean with the energy is too dense? You could become self employed. Don't need to follow the masses. Start your own business and set your own terms on how you work. Of course this will require some upfront investment and comes with a lot of risks.
  4. Replacing negative thoughts with positive ones can take some time. In meditation you learn how to observe the mind, becoming conscious of your thoughts. Step by step try to implement it in your day. Be gentle with yourself. This is about increasing your awareness. You are still quite young and comparing yourself with others is the norm for most people even decades older than you. This is another stage you will go through in your journey. Don't resist it, just learn to be with it and let it go when the time has come.
  5. If money is not an issue I would hire a coach who can teach it to me 1 on 1. If you can find a good coach, this is the most sure thing. Another option is to make friends with people who are already where you want to be and just spend as much time as possible with them. But this is not rocket science. You don't need to study hard at all. It's more about embodiment, feeling, and becoming good with tension. Reading a bunch of articles or watching thousands of videos will have little effect overall. Thats why I recommend a coach or others you can spend time with.
  6. When in doubt always come back to this. Yes, there are things that can be considered "lower consciousness". Activities, thoughts, whatever. And there will always be stuff to tweak and work on in day to day life. The best way to go about it is always with Love, acceptance and by letting go. ❤️
  7. TikTok is short format, it can be helpful to gather attention. Basically it comes down to this: 100,000 people watch your tiktok From those around 1,000 will watch your longer format videos (e.g. on YouTube) And from those around one converts to an external source Etc. So if you want to rely on social media it can be beneficial to create both short and long format videos. But keep in mind that they have different use cases.
  8. Open a bank account. Don't let that account go below 0 Spend less than you earn
  9. What have you done so far to communicate and work on these issues? Seems like there is a little too much pressure from her, planning a future and wanting too much attention. If that is a recurring pattern in your partners it's something to look out for.
  10. Why shouldn't they? If you are someone who is good at cooking, how likely are you going to cook more in the future? When you are good at drawing, if you stick with it, you will become better. While it's not a given, it's still very natural.
  11. @puporing great find! @integral You avoid those feelings by thinking differently about the whole situation. If a partner wants to pull away, that is okay. Allow them freedom. Don't be selfish. On the other hand before you reached these states of consciousness, once the emotion is there, accept it fully. Trying to avoid negative feelings is the most and fastest road to negative feelings. How To Deal With Strong Negative Emotions
  12. Actualized.org is practically a podcast.
  13. Dude guitar solo with bassline at 4:35
  14. There are other threads about this, from a different perspective. Basically, financially a strict copyright law is bad for YouTube. So thats why Google actively pushes against copyright laws. That is one of the reasons YouTube accepted the deal with Google back when they where bought out, because Google could protect YouTube from increasing copyright infringements. If they keep doing what they are doing, and it seems like they will, you won't have much to worry about.
  15. Boys and girls both make silly mistakes in dating. Its part of the process, no big deal. There are guys who sleep with women after 30 minutes of meeting them, even when she didn't have any education/perfect tits. I don't know the situation in Vegas tho. But I can imagine that there are a lot of women who have a specific goal when visiting the city, and its not to visit the cathedral or museum.
  16. I'd advice you welcome those feelings of humiliation and feeling like shit. Become at peace with your situation. Accept and let go. If you constantly repress feelings they tend to get stronger and people will push on them in order to trigger you. Then when you are at peace with it all these kind of converssations wouldn't trigger you at all. You could answer something like "Yes, I think you would be a perfect fit for my coaching program where I teach others how to not have to work a single day in their life again!" and then everytime you see them you pitch it to them again. Then at the end of the wedding ask for their phone number and be very persistent with reminding them of how shitty they feel, working every day. And what they could accomplish with your coaching, how their life could look like. With just a 4.000$ investment into your coaching. Until they block you on their phone
  17. How do you feel about yourself? Are you comfortable talking to women? I was so confused with the way you used the word club haha. So instead of clubs maybe try going out to clubs
  18. Accept & Let Go Integrating Emotions. The situation won't change, but you are. Going from grief, anger, sadness to courage, acceptance, completeness. Is there a lack of friendship or an abundance of friendship? Whatever you believe will become reality.
  19. Logistics were perfect / She had a business meeting planned She has a business meeting / Drinks alcohol Not sure what you told her but "I invite you for coffee/lets have a coffee" is pretty unambiguous. She might wanted to drink something to let loose. If you don't want that simply tell her "Not now, I've still got work to do/plans" or "Not now, we can have drinks later at my place/somewhere else".
  20. Accept everything that you fear. Spidy could touch you and feel icky? - Accept that possibility Spidy could crawl an you? - Accept that possibility Spidy could bite you and you will die? - Accept that possibility Spidy could climb into your mouth and you accidentally swallow it down? - Accept that possibility It's an emotional thing. When you have accepted all those - you will be well prepared on your next encounter. ❤️
  21. Moved to Video Requests For Leo. @Danioover9000 Please be a little more frugal with these emojis, they don't grow on trees here!
  22. The construction is the wonder. Doesn't matter who built it. It's old and outstanding. And of course the guy who wrote it down might had some bias. Without bias everything is a wonder.
  23. There are a hundred thousand people doing t-shirts, dropshipping, freelance and whatnot. There are not many people developing processors or consoles. So in a way you have it easier. Companies that need a lot of money upfront also typically scale far better than the ones that don't. Assemble a team of 3 highly skilled founders, make a plan and go look for investors.
  24. Learn to relax and be playful in these kind of situations. Kind of like, get our your head. You see in your head there are all these negative beliefs and thoughts, of what could go wrong and what other people think. That's not doing you any favours. But I wouldn't recommend dating in a small company like yours. There is always the possibility of it working out great in the beginning, you get together and then after a year or so you have a nasty break up. Then you would have to see each other at work every day...