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No, try Self-deconstruction and Self-Love instead. Regarding Tate, look up the AGFLAP-CAP Emotional Chart. By getting angry at him for making fun of you, you might climb up a few ladders. But it's still far from optimal. Find out ways to climb higher once you are done with this stage.

Please use the old thread instead of making a new one.

For yourself and for others. Having a life purpose is like a cheat code in life. It will make everything much easier and more enjoyable.

It's stopping mid answer all the time now. Such a tease!

This is not an anomaly. People want everything high quality. Partner, House, Car, Friendships, Ice cream, Life, PC etc. Then they'll make bad decisions and end up with something else entirely.

It's precisely this. It's like playing a game on hard when you never played a game in your life. Not very entertaining at first. But once you start to understand what is going on and what the game wants you to do you can have fun with it. Even when you switch to another game you will still know the basics about gaming and you will figure stuff out quite quickly. First step is figuring out why socializing is draining for you and not for others. If Joe Shmoe can do it, then why can't you?

What happened that day? Its kinda important to know. Overall, yes you honored your emotions and its a dick move to not answer. But girls will be girls, if you become too reactive they'll loose interest.

Please add more context to your question. You can PM me the text and I'll add it to your post. Until then: Closed.

Do you want more social interactions during the week?

@johnlocke18 They only laugh when they see someone is trying to impress them. Because that would be funny. On the other hand when you are worried about people laughing about you that doesn't sound like a fun time. A girl that laughs at other people on the dancefloor is not my cup of tea anyways...

Yep and when the server is slow there is just more time to double click.

@integral @Yarco Thank you for sharing! This feels like discovering the Internet for the first time back when I was a kid. Endless possibilities and pure madness haha love it!

It's up to you. Having most of your values matched will make things easier of course.

Jesus, let them have those girls and find yourself one who cares for others enough to not let her boyfriend bully them. You have an increased need for safety, which will likely manifest in yourself freezing and being blocked. You do not need to life with this, you can change it. Release your need for safety. Done ✅

Growth as always comes from within and has nothing to do with the external. You go out and get rejected hard but you continue to do your thing. When before you went home and resigned -> Growth. You used to think about ways to impress her or what to say and now these thoughts don’t even come to mind. -> Growth You thought that you needed women in your life in order to feel complete and now realize you are perfectly happy and complete on your own. -> Growth

Haha. You are Nahm, you are God. You cannot have it both: The illusion and the Truth, pick wisely. Of course, a donation is to help the receiver, not the donor.

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Every gender has it's perks and challanges. This forum is about personal development. While this post was directed at men feeling treated unfairly by society, I see the overall theme of it can be universally applied to every gender that exists or will exist.

Locked. This is not the right place for a privat chat. If you think a moderator has violated the User Guidelines in a PM you can report that PM as well.

Some things that come to mind. -That this worldview leads to hate/anger -How to be relaxed in situations that feel physically tense to you -How people will sense your feelings -Acceptance -Setting boundaries -Expressing your feelings -How to lead -That they are you -Love ❤️

Of course you don't need 5k approaches. Otherwise women all over the world would be starving for guys. It really depends on where you start. A typical student around your age has it much easier than a 40y.o. virgin who spend his entire life playing video games in his parents basement. If you don't enjoy night clubs or it doesn't fit in your schedule fuck it. Stay up early, get your work done and then join some social activities on your campus. Do one approach a day and make sure to spend your time earned by not partying with socializing with other students. Preferably guys who are good with women and women.

Of course they can go everywhere. You can also try to climb a wall with a broken shoulder. But the focus should be on healing. If you are depressed and can't get out of bed then it's hard to have a healthy relationship or build a business. Not saying that you can't or that it is not possible but my first instict would be to focus on healing first and then face the other challanges. But maybe for someone a challange is just what they needed to get out of depression. Everyone is different and to my (albeit limited) understanding of depression it can take on various forms as well.

I don't understand how shaming women and calling them impure is helping anyone. And I am questioning the purity of the person who has these kind of intentions

So you ditch your friends and try to keep the conversation flowing because you fear losing her and because you want to feel harmony again. Does that sound correct?

You unconsciously desired to be the way you are now. So relish it, give yourself a pat on the back for not having any good habits, no girlfriend and no energy. Congratulations you got what you wanted! How does that feel? ❤️