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Yep, as others already said, distance is very important. Also be aware of your own thoughts and beliefs. When you grow up in a household full of negativity and victim thinking it's very likely that you have incoporated those as well. So be really alert of your mind. This "your mind" is the only thing you should really worry about, its the only enemy. In that regard, your mother can help you. When you notice she becomes negative, ask yourself where in your live have you been negative in the same way in the last days/weeks.

This. Sometimes doing the approaches and everything isnt cutting it. Thats when you have to dig deeper. You have to work through all the childhood trauma. Sedona Method is perfect for this. Start by releasing your neediness.

Stop with the victim mentality. You have to take 100% responsibility. I don't know how you made a situation in where you live rent free, get to use a car for free and have a good job as something negative. From what I see you owe exactly 0$, outside from expenses that you want to cover because you just want to. Somewhere inside you is a need to feel pressure or guilt. It is an emotional need. "I can't be happy and enjoy life because I feel guilty" Work on these emotions. And then work on your mindset surrounding A. Allowing and seeing yourself as a happy and healthy person. Self-worth, B. Money abundance. Also move out as quickly as possible. This situation you are in is not healthy. ❤️

The closest thing I would say is Love. Yes. You will be able to accept that after you accept that you yourself are completely made up. That comes with the territory when talking in the absolut sense. ❤️

@Emerald Of course you gotta do something in return. Its not about standing there and getting a car by looking good. You'd have to build a connection with someone. You don't have to approach men on the street but you gotta be as you say positioned. I don't know exactly how but I think it comes quite natural to most humans in general. Going out to events/partys, being on instagram, being on tinder. Some men are fine with being in the friendzone for years if they think they got a chance. It's a weakness from men who have little clue how to date. Of course ultimately that doesn't make you happy and is not a Life Purpose. So even tho it seems unfair at first there is really nothing to be jealous about. Wanting positive experience is a negative experience. Accepting negative experience is a positive experience - Mark Manson

As you grow older you begin to understand the mechanisms behind what makes you happy and what makes you unhappy. For me, every day it gets better and better. Feeling more like I can express my true Self and embodying my values. Connecting with my feelings, learning to relax my body but also enjoy the play between tension and relaxation. You are in heaven right now, you don't need to create it. It is a reception. Going inside. If you want to be happy you are at the right place. Leo has many videos on this topic. I suggest you to start with this one. There is also a good free course, called the "Science of Well-Being" by Yale University. You have to take 100% responsibility for your own happiness.

It's just absurd, how poeple hang on one single word to label all vegan meat as if it's the only alternative heard. This way good companies never get the props I feel they ever deserve.

It makes sense to have some dedicated time for building your Life Purpose and then some for dating. But you don't have to work 5 years on your LP straight before you can consider to start dating. You could burst 4 weeks into your LP and then have a slow week where you get some dates in. You don't have to go extreme, there is nuance here. Which depends on your situation and your personality. In general, when you build a strong foundation for your 30s. Dating will be a lot easier. So in that regard your friends are right I would say. But at the same time you can find a dream partner right now. No one is stopping you.

There are like a gazillion different vegan meat products. Made from soy, mushrooms, walnuts, oats, wheat gluten, jackfruit, rice, tofu and tempeh just to name a few. Which ones are we talking about here? Its the same with meat. Pork sausage is not the same as sardines.

One big factor is identification. "I am someone who doesn't drink alcohol" "I am someone who eats healthy" When you start to really ARE these things an BE this way, its over. Another thing is having goals and working on them. You simply don't have time for bad habits if you are working on building the life that you want. And a prerequisite for all of this is to take 100% responsibility. You are the one responsible for your life and your habits. You have a choice!

@FourCrossedWands It's the first and oldest cryptocurrency. It was designed to be a storage for value. The problem I see in many of the new ones is that they try to be everything. They kinda have to, in order to stand out.

You have to teach her. Start with telling her how men all want sex. Because girls are different in that regard, they sometimes don't get that men think with their penis 99% of the time. Work on her behaviour. When she is telling you about these situations and is not happy with the way she handled them. It's a clear sign she is willing to learn and change her behaviour. Many girls have helper syndrome. They have a problem with saying "no". Because they have a strong need for harmony. This is not healthy, not for her, not for you and not for the men who get their hopes up because she isn't clear in her communication. But with deep personal development she can Grow out of it.

Wrong, the awkwardness comes from within you. The words you say are really not important. You expect the conversation to go well and you have a need for that. Release that need and then focus your attention into your body. Feel and relax into it. Sometimes people are not yet warm to have a conversation, that's when it can be helpful to warm them up by carrying the conversation.

Damn. Procrastination is a choice. You choose to do it rather than working for example. Sometimes we don't even know we make that choice. That is when awareness can be helpful.

There are many methods out there, you just have to find one that resonates with you. I don't know how it is in Iraq. If it is a lot of memorising, there are apps that can help you with it (like Anki). You've got this!

Wait until you find out he is also anti-you Humans in general are pretty deceiving, they play this game which they don't even know they are playing. While dogs, lions or hedgehogs for example are way less deceiving. They don't make good tiramisu tho.

Learn about learning. Find others who have the grades you want and see how they did it. If you have to, pay people to teach you. Not the school subject but how to learn. Get books on learning. This will also be very useful for you later in life.

Yep, living in a room with 6 other people will likely have an effect on your masturbation. Other things which will have an effect is having other stuff to do. Keeping yourself busy so that you have no time to scroll on your browser.

No talking bad about others, no gossip. Even though I don't have a list, it's more of a vibe or feeling. Low conscious behaviour as a whole.

This is a very personal question, just like everyone defines their friendships different and does different activities. In general you spend time being in mutual empathic attention, which will produce comfort, pleasure and harmony and leads to attachment. You could spend time together in a cafe/restaurant, going for a walk, meeting friends, any other activity you both enjoy or just visit each other. Of course don't forget to yell at each other and be resentful and hurt, that will be the cherry on top

I don't know. The point isn't to get rid of an Emotion. They are just the messenger. An Emotion can be seen from many different angles. And your perspective can certainly change. But that doesn't just come from releasing itself usually. Rather from that point on when you are releasing and feeling a certain Emotion, things might reveal themselves to you. From these realisations then you will change yourself. Examples: What does the anxiety want to tell you? What lies behind jealousy? This is when you experience real Growth and you won't be stuck in a situation you previously had problems with. And you won't be triggered anymore.

When you deeply feel the emotion and welcome it, you can feel an emotional release almost immediately. But yes they can come back again and again. And in different forms as well. How long are you doing it per session?

If that is a question I invite you to have a chat over DMs. If not and I offended you I'm sorry. That was rude. I see how being open minded can lead to suffering and overthinking. Which in turn can be a cause of stress. I hope you had time to heal and that the positives still outweigh the negatives for you. That's the path that was laid out for you, and it made you who you are. I'm sure you experienced a lot of Growth from your experience. Love ❤️

Could you be open to the perspective that there is no suffering. And that victimhood robs you of all your power?

It works but many people do not have any control over their thoughts whatsoever. So how are you going to change your thoughts in order to attract something else? The situation you are in right now is precisely what your whole being wished to manifest. This is the first thing to accept and then you can start making slight modifications.