Dear Community,
I noticed an Issue. It's also nice to watch Leo's videos again because I see more or other thing which i didn't noticed first.
You know that it is sometimes hard to structure these cognitive problems and to write them down. Specially if these topics are strangely interconnected where the borders can hide.
I brainstormed on a piece of paper. To give you a glimmer, i will mention some marks.
Unrealistic decisions/plans (People pleaser | Ego < Other)
Self-Image (Old & rusty v New (present & realistic)
Self-Confidence (->) My Path [incl. value system >> temp. Handicaps considered healthy
I have real trouble to clean my mess and find my way back to my path. Well this is part of my path specially how i deal with these upcoming self-created problems.
I find myself in these situations where I find an agreement with somebody but i can't keep up to it because i rushed the decision. To please them and my old self-Image. Didn't considered my present Self-Image which includes my value system and my temp. handicaps.
Why i seek for "help" is not how to stop these situations from happening (I think I know what to do there but if You got some things You would highlight - You're welcome).
It's more that I drifted a bit away from my path, because of this situation. To find back, I have to clean up and take responsibility for the agreement i made and the consequences for not keeping up to it. The next step would be to get in contact with that person and there starts the trouble. I feel so bad and it don't helps that they got a good reason to be angry or at least get an justification for my not doing (in time) and not communicating (ignoring calls).
Justification. I can tell the truth but most don't understand or don't accept. Maybe it's nothing i would accept to; or more that it doesn't make it undone.
I'm often procrastinating If I didn't keep up to my self-created expectations.
Its really hard for my to find the right words... i hope u get a feeling.
How should i get in contact? what should I say?
I know that its just a problem because I don't really got the self-confidence by knowing that i'm on my path. But these situation happens, that i doubt myself and lose some self-confidence; it can't be in the way, just delaying and make things worse.
Please let me know if you need more information.
Thank You
Rick B.
