Elliott
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You don't like going anywhere that girls do, except for pickup? Are you doing pickup for sex, or marriage-dating?
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Is there happiness?
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Shield yourself from stimuli? Why would you do that, why would you hide from sadness? "Shield" is hiding, the inverse is not seeking sadness but facing it.
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Some people can tell your behavior is synthetic. Even if your 'extroverted' behavior is not from practice or learning, the extra energy is synthetic, either from PUA or the mass psychosis of the culture, or masking. If you have a hippy town near you, if you want to see what I'm trying to illustrate, next time you're there just sit next to the people at the bar and see what happens. It's not just hippy people that do this but that's where you find the highest concentration making it easily visible. How would your behavior change from a hippy brewery to a typical college bar and why. You don't need to do anything special to be able to enter someone's life that you're already around, you're already in their life, they're already in yours, just live recognizing that and not hiding yourself. Did you need PUA to talk to your mom when you lived with her, you never made random comments to her? Some people do need help with social anxiety, I'm not trying to overlook that This phenomena always reminds me of Europeans making fun of americans for having bleach white teeth, some say it freaks them out, it's sort of the same thing.
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If I could turn the page In time then I'd rearrange Just a day or two Close my, close my, close my eyes But I couldn't find a way So I'll settle for one day To believe in you Tell me, tell me, tell me lies Tell me lies Tell me sweet little lies (Tell me lies, tell me, tell me lies) Oh, no, no, you can't disguise (You can't disguise, no, you can't disguise) Tell me lies Tell me sweet little lies Although I'm not making plans I hope that you understand There's a reason why Close your, close your, close your eyes No more broken hearts We're better off apart Let's give it a try Tell me, tell me, tell me lies Tell me lies Tell me sweet little lies (Tell me lies, tell me, tell me lies) Oh, no, no, you can't disguise (You can't disguise, no, you can't disguise) Tell me lies Tell me sweet little lies If I could turn the page In time then I'd rearrange Just a day or two Close my, close my, close my eyes But I couldn't find a way So I'll settle for one day To believe in you Tell me, tell me, tell me lies Tell me lies Tell me sweet little lies (Tell me lies, tell me, tell me lies) Oh, no, no, you can't disguise (You can't disguise, no, you can't disguise) Tell me lies Tell me sweet little lies (Tell me lies, tell me, tell me lies) Oh, no, no, you can't disguise (You can't disguise, no, you can't disguise) Tell me lies Tell me sweet little lies (Tell me, tell me lies) Source: LyricFind Song Details • Artist: Fleetwood Mac • Album: Tango in the Night (1987) • Writers: Christine McVie and Eddy Quintela Mendonca • Lead Vocals: Christine McVie
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I suspect tears of joy are the harmful ones, reliving repressed emotions. Crying is a physical defense reaction to something perceived as wrong. I cry occasionally, usually just a little. I think more than most people, it can be about anything that bothers me.
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I make friends with women all the time through normal social activities, sports activities, volunteering activities, political stuff, friends, just naturally at music shows, everywhere, I don't try to pick them up, I just like to engage with interesting people, and interesting people often engage with me first and I reciprocate.
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You try to focus on self amusement, but why are you in front of her, why are you out that night. Self amusement alone is trying even if no one else is there. I'm not saying it won't work to pick up women, it obviously does. Sure it works, and could work well for you. That's not what I meant. Some women see right through it and dismiss you for it, it's surface level and you'd be better off just being your own original self if you want that type of woman, the only type I myself would be interested in, but most of you it doesn't matter to, I was just saying some people just see through it and dismiss you for it. People that 'want' to fit in, don't fit in very well in some crowds, anything more than just being there outside of your head is just not going to be kosher, you don't have to do anything or be anything, the trying is annoying, surface level. Every person in the world is an interesting person if you just let yourself be yourself, boring is cool AF even, boring is interesting, boring is nice to be around, the little things about you that you will never notice are interesting and pleasant to be around, like a unique patch of flowers in a garden. These flowers are "weeds", people pick them and spray them. Some people enjoy them, and love them even, just being with them, no jokes or stories, no questions. You ever been to a pet adoption shelter, do you think the boring ones never get adopted?(most just lay there and do nothing). You think a woman isn't going to love her lazy cat or dog? You already emit a presence naturally, if you get rid of all this bullshit it will undoubtedly be a pleasant one. You don't need to do anything. You're here existing in this crazy society, on this rock flying through the sky for the same blip of time as everyone else alive right now, that, that alone, makes you interesting AF. Enjoy the music show, tell the stranger next to you what you're seeing reminds you of or what intrigues you about it, even if it's a 70 year old deaf man.
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Just being with acquaintences even, people that talk a lot, try to be funny or fun, people can see through that. Everyone else will be having a calm conversation or just watching the entertainment never needing to make the moment 'better' or make sure they're part of the conversation, just being with each other being enough. You can get a girl that way don't get me wrong, but you don't need to. it can turn the very best ones off...... depending on what you're looking for
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Elliott replied to Rafael Thundercat's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
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Then why doesn't it work on every woman? The single women that shoot you guys down see through it.
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Going out to do pick up is those things
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Trying to entertain or impress people, trying to be funny, trying to be liked; just sets the relationship up to be artificial. And a lot of mature people can see right through it anyway, a McRelationship.
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Elliott replied to Rafael Thundercat's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
What he calls a "symbolic" society, where psychopathy offers greater reward and less risk than it did in tribal society. Our impersonal society is not conducive for a centralized socialist structure with our society's current level of development. -
Elliott replied to Rafael Thundercat's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
The west wants the war to drag on forever, the longer it lasts the weaker Russia gets. The west wants Russia divided up. You think Europe cares about Ukrainians, they just bought a record amount of arctic gas from Russia, U.S. buying Iranian diesel through them. Who is Ukraine trying to impress with morality, some African country going to support them? Nations aren't supporting Ukraine out of morality. If Europeans cared about Ukraine, a lot more would be enlisting in the Ukrainian army. They don't give a fuck about Ukraine. If Russia invaded Canada, I'd enlist in Canadian army. -
Elliott replied to Rafael Thundercat's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Its passed the window of Ukrainians giving in, they hate Russians now and want to kill them even if it means losing their lives, Russians have tried to kill them for 5 years now. Russians are more like complete opposite of that with respect to this war. All Ukraine needs to do is support an overthrow of putin inside Russia. This is why Ukraine doesn't target russian civillians. -
Elliott replied to Rafael Thundercat's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
They're conscripted against their will, since 2022, Russians. "Russia has conscripted or mobilized over 1.2 million people" -
Elliott replied to Rafael Thundercat's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
That already occurred is occurring, started 4 years ago. Russia will revolt, it only takes some in the upper echelon of which are suffering greatly from this. -
Conservatives are physically attacking women out in public now Go buy a gun, wokies
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It'd be cool if non-english people would share their music too.....
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Elliott replied to Thought Art's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Any of you socialists willing to admit hypocrisy? -
Elliott replied to Rafael Thundercat's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
The only thing i disagree with him on is militarizing Europe. A europe that uses the u.s. military as defense would be a much better geopoliticsl strategy, lessening Russian resolve and making it more appealing to trade with from other countries that it has historically exploited, essentially the rest of the world. A European army would cause fear in Russia, nationalism, resolve. A European army could also wind up striking Russia. De-militarized leads to more stability, when, you don't need it (U.S. defense). The only reason Europe does need to militarize is because the u.s. is abandoning it. -
Elliott replied to Rafael Thundercat's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
After this video, you still support centralization via socialism? Did you watch the entire video? -
Elliott replied to AerisVahnEphelia's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I think OP doesn't understand what moral means, they're using it as 'goodness'. Moral means for the whole.
