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Better have some money saved up ready to be dumped at the bottom

Once again, a question thats never been answered by him just offers itself on a silver platter here - who the fuck is he? LOL he's literaly just some random dude. Random ass dude. LOL

That's your anti human bias speaking again, LOL. Yeah we are not going to be best at doing all the bullshit tasks and jobs we've been forced to do all this time to survive, oh woe is us, what a tragedy. We get to just enjoy life instead

Ridicilous. Such a random thing to be disciplined about during a period of some random month. LOL

LOL just stop following bullshit religions. You can still pretend you are a muslim in front of your family or people who are rigid muslims, and plan your escape from that society if you have to

@zazen That's why Russia has been waging information warfare since the time Putin came to power, and even before that during the times of the Soviet Union. And it's been fairly effective so far - they contributed towards Trump getting the presidency both times weakening the unity of the west, and also radicalised many people towards far right

I don't think it's going to be a nervous system damage because in that case ot would also affect other parts of your body and you would be much worse off, erections would be the least of your problems. It could be vascular damage related perhaps since blood supply is the most important thing in this case, either way you should get certain specific areas scanned to find out, get doppler ultrasound or something. General practitioners and regular urologists are obviously going to be kinda shit especially in your country, yeah, you need to go to some private practicioner's clinic

I could care less about your personal attacks. You don't know anything about me anyway and you never will. And even if I had the so called "victim mentality", whatever that even means, that doesn't change anything about what I've said. My points still stands independent of who I am, whether I am a millionaire self actualized playboy or a brokie debbie downer, doesn't matter at all. All you can do is make empty vague meaningless assumptions and psychoanalysies anyway. Maybe you should stick to that

How about we start discussing problems China is facing for a second, from the decreasing birth rates and predictions of it's population getting halved by the year 2100, to the real estate crisis, to it's enviromental crisies, to it's internal economical crisies, and God know what kind of stuff we don't know about what's happenning in China. Their armies were never actually properly battle tested either

LOL it is actually your gender that is swimming in the Victimhood sea nowadays, constantly complaining about the collateral damage of the system you're partaking in and indirectly had a big role in creating, while being completely oblivious to all the ways in which you've always been benefiting from these systems. At our expense of course, due to our foolish nature

Lol. Just LOL at most of your advice, people. I am probably not even abiding by one fourth of the advice you people suggested to this guy, and yet my boners are as strong and frequent as ever. Porn also had zero effect on it, so I don't know why yall keeping this nofap superstition alive This guy has some sort of internal bodily damage and you're recommending him lifestyle changes and supplements, like come on. He should first and foremost get examined and scanned by a urologist specialist, seeing if and where he has the damage, then act accordingly (according to what the specialist advises him, that is)

@zazen What about the fact that Russia suffered huge manpower losses? Which weren't inflicted on the West. West still has a lot of professional fresh troops ready to be deployed even without US. It doesn't matter how much you outproduce someone when there's not a soul left capable of using the equipment you've produced

It makes sense to feel demotivated in a world without any meaning or purpose. As a result you're just going to do the bare minimum in life to get along and focus on the little joys and vices of life that you like. Honestly, it makes complete sense. Kinda goes against this whole self improvement schtick, but what are you self improving for really. Most of it is BS anyway if you break it down, excluding a few exceptions

Your gender is the true root cause of that shame You are also the root cause of "patriarchy" from the past that yall keep complaining about

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@Someone here You're just delusional, is the way I see it. Haven't thought it throught rigorously enough. What does even intimacy mean exactly and why would you need a marriage instead of regular relationship to fullfill this need? "Immature boy" lol you should take responsibility for yourself, thats true, but just make sure someone is not brainwashing you as to what that responsibility means, and what "mature" means, but it occurs to me that you have no problem with being manipulated, so go ahead. I won't gice you any more advice

Marriage is BS. Never get married. You know very well that you only want to get married in a delusional hope that it would give you some sort of added life purpose, guaranteed access to sex/intimacy, and so that you blend well with what is "normal" and culturally/socially encouraged. Big LOL to all of those reasons

Its for losers

Right? As if it's our fault that anywhere you look there's a woman showing her tits, ass, feet etc. etc. All these capitalist vultures and women do is exploit our natural instincts endlessly, and then some people have the guts to preach to men to "take personal responsibility and desexualize our brain", or do nofap or shit like that. Well, how about yall stop being vultures and parasites first, hm? Then we can talk about personal responsibility

Lets keep in mind that "conscious people" are not really out there in this world producing anything tangible. We just sort of sit on our asses and philosophise

Well that's fine and all, but there's not a single soul that's actually rich on this forum. To become rich (to even have a chance, that is) you'd need to get completely immersed into what you're doing to get that wealth, leaving you with no space for anything else, so much so that it'd change you fundamentally. You'd also need to become a kiss ass to a certain group of people you are trying to extract money from and wear certain masks because of that (since it's always other people giving you the money, they don't fall out of the sky so you need to impress these people and provide them value) and get rid of anyone or anything standing in your way. People who care about spirituality would realistically never go throught this process. Even to just get and mantain a certain job, you need to change the way you behave and think just so that you can become a good little cog in a machine and have an income. Never mind trying to become rich

Pretty much an out of the blue kinda topic, but important nevertheless. I remember Jordan Peterson talking about this topic but he insinuated something much more extreme, and that is that people who engage in casual sex exhibit signs of psychopathy, using other people for their personal pleasure. And he said that even if you're normal, if keep doing that for long enough you'll eventually become at least sociopathic. Now, this does seem kinda exhaggarated a little bit, surely psychopaths are born and althought sociopaths are technically made, it takes a lot more than that to turn someone into a sociopath I'm pretty sure. Something much more severe. But as I keep thinking about it and reminiscing about the people I've known and observed in the past who exhibited this type of behaviour, I just can't shake off the feeling that there definitely was something to this. I don't think you can just keep sleeping with many people without it decreasing your empathy and emotionality somewhat. And I don't think that's necessarilly good for your life

Everyone always keeps bringing up the fuck ups of traditional monogamous relationships, divorce rates, lack of sex etc. and yeah that's a valid thing to acknowledge. But what about all the other relationships that actually do work as intended? That's not talked about. Not saying I'd ever get married, I'd be stupid to do so and I don't believe in the concept, but having one high quality women with whom you have connection and have sex with and have children with, is surely better than any casual sex you'd ever have with some random hoes/prostitutes etc. I know this topic isn't about that but since you brought up the typical potential downfall of a marriage, I wanted to mention this Obviously that's a shitty situation to be in, but I don't think it fits very well with this topic I'm talking the type of people who view having sex with random people as something normal, as if it was another Tuesday or something. Not people who seldom have it

@Sugarcoat In my opinion this "objectifying" explanation is just complete BS, its just a way for women to make sense of, and/or to shame male sexuality. Because from your point of view it seems like objectifying, from our point of view it is a natural instinct. So, this is just another feminist BS imo. Yall just dont get it for real The problems clearly are not the instincts themselves, like I said, but their bad "usage", or "application", these instincts make it seem as if men have no need for genuine connections but thats not true, its just hidden under the surface and we need it just as much, it's just a deeper higher need and therefore tends to be hidden and we realize it later that that's what we need It seems like from these classical feminist explanations women are always victims and men are always the bad ones, and I just don't buy it. Dodging accountability as ussual. Some women have perfectly intact self esteem and genuinely just like sex, or are trying to take revenge on their ex, or whatever. Doesn't matter anyway. In this post I wasn't really trying to make this topic gendered anyway, I was talking in general of people who are having casual sex, and that they tend to view things not very seriously in general, including many times feelings of other people

Yes, for sure I can relate to some of your sentiments on this topic. There's definitely something negative about this, despite nobody really discussing this nor caring about it, and despite this sort of light hearted, fun facade of casual hook ups. Which doesn't mean sex or sexual energy is bad, but clearly it should be consciously directed towards a certain purpose. For example, clearly on an instinctual level I am attracted to women physically, and my mind plays very minor role in this process, and that's fine. Its also fine to seek sex from a woman first, but it should lead somewhere. Towards a relationship creation, relationship strengthening, making children. One of these 3