Candle

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  1. I want a group of members from the same country. So that I could talk to them relevant stuff. Or if grouping is not possible, can we have separate sections for prominent countries? Group of Chinese people. Group of Indian people. Group of American people......etc. Is there any way we could connect similar people in a group?
  2. Being lonely Being single Having no friends Losing a loved one Seeing someone in grief Seeing dark sides of the world Your friend ghosting you Your friend betrayed you Fear of being judged by others Fear of missing out (fomo) Nostalgia Expectations not fulfilled Disillusionment Confusion Rumination Brain chemistry not good. Feeling bored or exhausted Failure Mistreatment by someone Bullying or confinement. Headache Headache due to seeing toxic influencers online. Headache due to seeing people like Trump, Elon, Tate, etc. Headache due to seeing toxic masculinity. Micro suffering while using negative words "hate", "toxicity", "anger", etc. in our posts. Embarassment Shame Anger Trauma Someone you admire lets you down Trying to control what you can't control. Seeing bs. Seeing bitter truths of the universe. Rapes and rape news/stories Brutality Force, someone did sth against will. Being violated. Being used. Destruction of evidence by powerful/rich people. Injustice. Victim shaming. Will add many others later.
  3. God, show me the path to becoming an exceptional personality. Superbly smart, advanced and a sharp minded leader. I'm feeling lost in the midst of the ocean. Guide me.
  4. When I ended the conversations, my villain side or sadistic side was arising a little. I felt like writing something vulgar/hurtful. But I didn't. I wrote sweet things to her. And it hurts losing a good friend. Yes, I had crush a little bit....but I just wanted a normal online friendship.
  5. Lemme tell you my story real quick. I had crush on a random youtuber (<800 subscribers). When I found out she had a boyfriend, I don't know why the fuck I was feeling not well, even if it was obvious that she must have a bf, and it was impossible for me to be with her (she was in a far away country). I used to talk to her via email. I had crush bcz of her looks and her sweet, friendly words. She was a good human. Initially she was responsive, but when she stopped responding, I over reacted a lot. Then she responded very little and very less. I asked her what went wrong or if she was not interested in chats, she told nothing. Finally, I ended all conversations. I wrote only normal, friendly messages. Nothing romantic or cheap. Then after some days I saw a photo of her on Instagram, that was not very beautiful (she looked like a "woman" and not a "young woman"), then all feelings vanished. And I said why the fuck I had crush on this person? All my emails were full of shit. In love you do silly and stupid things. You become a clown. You lose your self respect and feel ashamed afterwards. I laugh when others behave ridiculously, but when I did it myself..... You love not the person but an image of yours. One sided love is totally pointless and a wastage of time.
  6. I have heard about necromancers. Maybe 1 in a billion might be a true necromancer? How would you ever know? Clarification : I haven't lost a close one. I want some good persons back to life, cz that would be cool.
  7. Is necromancy true? Is it possible to bring a dead person back to life? Is it possible in the realm of supernatural powers? I'm asking this question to advanced spiritual seekers or mystics. @Leo Gura I desperately want a dead person back to life.
  8. What are the pros and cons of cussing if you are a big youtuber or a public figure? We feel like cussing when angry or when we need to emphasize sth. But some people don't like it. Our image is degraded a little bit when we cuss. Sometimes it feels ugly to hear cuss words from an influencer....when we pay a little attention to it. Once your image is degraded, it's irreversible. When we look good, wear good formal attire, cursing would appear as an imperfection in our personality. And there'd be no difference between us and a boorish person. Let's say, we are criticizing a big company or a person, then we can't curse to decrease our position of respect, influence, professionalism, sincerity, etc.
  9. Can you suggest some good youtubers, that are rarely known.
  10. I praise you for your work.
  11. Am I allowed to write here the most horrible thing I can imagine? @Leo Gura
  12. Within 100 years, none of the 8 billion people alive today will be alive. Who killed who, who raped who, who torchured who, won't matter after 100 years. Because the oppressed and the oppressor both would have merged into the same source. 100 years later, there will be a completely new generation busy in their own bullshit..
  13. You yourself said these might be possible in your video "making sense of paranormal phenomena". I'm just asking about the truth. Not interested in games at all.
  14. So you feel the same when Leo cusses too much? Of course he cusses often.
  15. How do you feel when someone cusses? Your personal experience?
  16. My insights : Sometimes pain makes us more empathetic and compassionate. Either use pain to be more rough or use it to be more soft, polite and caring towards others. Mutual suffering creates stronger bonds of love. There is a thing called "compassion fatigue". Compassion fatigue is basically emotional and physical exhaustion that comes from caring for others, especially in situations where there's a lot of pain, suffering, or stress involved. It’s common among healthcare workers, therapists, caregivers, and even people who are always there for friends or family in tough times. Imagine showing love to others and feeling deep fulfilment.
  17. How often do you feel sad or insecure about your balding?