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@r0ckyreed Clarity happens when you understand things very well, not just theoretically but ACTUALLY. For example, if I understand the consequences of a bad life partner and the rewards of a great partner very well, I'll be absolutely clear what qualities she must have, that are non-negotiable. Contemplate and understand your values. Be clear what you want and what you don't want. This is clarity. This can't be put into words precisely, so you'll have to understand it yourself. Another example, if I am addicted to one thing and my life became hell bcz of that, I wouldn't try other addictive substances ever. It's 100% clear to me. I can't initiate a new problem.

@Hojo @Vercingetorix @Malelekakis Jellyfish is imaginary. If we assume it's real, then it has a very primitive version of reality. It can't experience even the basic experiences which humans do every moment and take for granted. It has a serious lack of chemistry. It's chemistry is very, very primitive as compared to us humans.

@ExplorerMystic @Ishanga Listen to others but verify it yourself. So simple. Learn from everyone, follow no one.

I don't like : Overly feminist people. Too much of gender equality related content. Too many of shorts in which people are saving girls. Too many of sex and periods related talks using the excuse, "we are progressives", "we are liberals", "we are a cool generation ". Inserting "feminism" and "misogyny" into everything and every topic. Inserting feminist arguments in every topic.. I can see some members doing this on this forum too. Overthinking every "touch" and every "action" by a male done with a female. For example, when a male hugs a female don't make it an issue. Yes, her breasts press up against him while hugging. But no need to overthink every time. (Unless the intentions are actually wrong). Don't doubt someone's intentions every time. See both males and females as HUMANS. Not as "man" or "woman". Women are normal humans. Fight for real causes, when human rights are actually violated. Fight against ACTUAL misogyny. I'm also a feminist. But I'm sick of over feminism and chivalry (showing respect/care to females more than needed). Female sexuality is as NORMAL as male sexuality. Females take their breasts and vagina for granted. Like males do with their penis. Nothing special.

Grover was being too arrogant and rude with everyone then this happened. It was a good lesson. Never get insulted in public. Speak very limited. Don't brag. Don't cross limits. Don't get yourself into unnecessary mess or controversy. Don't do anything that invites trollers, that makes you turn off your comments section. Never lower your level. (Don't go to chhapri/cheap shows like Bigg Boss, if you are a CEO/entrepreneur). Maintain your position of respect.

@Ajay0 Whole India is messed up and fucked up. Root cause : illiterate or ignorant population. 140 crore population. (1.4 billion). The inertia they have (ham nahi sudharenge). Bihar and UP both are worst among all states. Delhi has incredible levels of pollution. People blame the Government, but it's just the reflection of the population. Every political party is shitty. It's not like Kamala vs Trump here. There is no Kamala here. Of course, Kejriwal is way better than hypocrite Modi. Look how much Modi markets himself (first time in Indian history, a Prime Minister has done so much marketing, created a celeb like image of himself). Meets all Bollywood actors and Gamers and gives prizes to big Youtubers. Bought all media sources. Spread too much "Hinduism" "Hinduism". Too much toxic hindu nationalism. 80% of the population votes based on religion. This is real data. So it's not the job of one revolutionary like Acharya Prashant. It's the job of the whole population. Or at least all like-minded people should be united. They are not united, that's why all the powers go to those who are united (corrupt and evil men). These are the root causes. That's it. We lack unity.

Do you know chess ♟️? How much? Have you played this ever? Chess makes us more intelligent in "this game" only. It improves focus/attention, which can be used in other fields too. It may boost self esteem (bcz of the belief that it makes people smarter). So ultimately beliefs are doing things, not chess. Chess is doing little.

I have understood that "forms" don't matter, the thing which is behind the form matters, and it can't be dead. Let's say, a person, who has a lot of empathy and admirable qualities, passes away. I don't have to grief too much. Bcz there are many others like them, who have the same empathy and qualities. Forms come and go. Things like love, compassion, etc. don't die. To taste a fruit 🍓, I can take any fruit. Doesn't matter if I take this one or that one. Only the thing that's common in all of them matters. Outside form doesn't matter. So I don't care about losing a loved one too much. I'll be sad, but also okay.

I'm surprised to see Leo Gura thinking that Sadhguru is genuine. I'm an Indian, ask me what's true. ✓ Why does he need to promote himself using so many cheap Bollywood actors? ✓ I've seen many hypocrisies and misinformation and misleading things in his videos. ✓ Wake up, Leo, he's not genuine. He is a con artist. I know how real gurus behave. Like J Krishnamurthy, Ramana Maharshi, etc.

https://youtube.com/@ananddwivedi369?feature=shared Anand Dwivedi has wonderful insights. In Hindi. 58k subscribers.

You can use advanced filters to see how many are Hungarians. How many are males, how many are females, etc. At least 59 are from Hungary. Many people don't mention countries in their profile. So it's more than 59. Maybe you can take European Union together.

Of course. Who's saying the opposite? Vice versa is also true.

Why did you laugh? Which state you belong to? I'm from Bihar. It can have ANY topic. not only serious ones. Edit : I have hit posting limit maybe. I can't see any reply button. I m a newbie.

Let's say I post about the gandmarai of Ashneer Grover in Bigg Boss 18. Who cares? Only Indians. Or about Carryminati. This is an off topic group but Leo told me to create this in this personal dev sub-forum.

No one is identifying with a national identity. I'm not a patriotic person. I just want to discuss relevant stuff to people. I can't share Indian matters/news with Americans, they won't care about it, even if it's juicy. Which state you belong to? @Rishabh R

It's your illusion. YouTube only suggests the type of content you watch. I have tuned my feeds according to my interests, I don't see right wing stuff ever. Bcz algorithm knows very well I'll not tolerate for a second. Start seeing left wing content and blocking all bs creators. Then you'll see. It's not a hate movement or a conspiracy. Feminism started bcz it was needed. I am criticizing only the "excess" part and the "misuse" of it. Female rapes are more common than male rapes. Bcz women are seen as easier targets in settings where power dynamics are abused, such as in relationships, workplaces, or warzones. So women empowerment and feminism is a real need. In prisons, females are raped much more than males. (Especially in third world countries).

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Then why is Jesus not alive? Jesus was a human, not a God. And if he was a God, then it's a hypothesis. Then bible is fictional. Maybe people who are turned into ashes won't come back. But what about those who just died? Some advanced doctors can do this with a dead person within a limited time frame of a few minutes. The only way to know is to investigate necromancy yourself, bcz those who actually know the truth won't reveal their secrets ever. I'll investigate paranormal phenomena myself. I can believe in paranormal phenomena but I don't believe in character based Gods like Jesus or Rama. I don't believe in holy books.

This is an autonomous group only for Indians, Pakistanis, etc. If Leo has any problem, he'll tell me. Guidelines don't include all the possible nuances. I had requested Leo to create a group, he told me to create a thread and I'll treat it like a group. 📌 Follow the thread if you are an Indian.

Tell me her +ve and -ve points. List them. Seems like you are attached to her but also want to leave her. So if you want to leave her, lemme tell you that focus can ONLY be shifted, it can't be removed. You can't forget her, but you can get someone better than her or some better purpose, then you'll easily forget her. DON'T TRY to forget her. Make a clear cut decision whether you have to live with her or not. 100% yes or 100% no. See how depressed she is. How suicidal. See how she talks. It's not rocket science. Is she's a good person and genuinely needs help, help her. Show some empathy. You may try a relationships therapist. Everyone is selfish. Even when you say you love someone, you are actually selfish. But the point is how selfish someone is. There is a limit to selfishness. Everyone has the right to be selfish. Who wants a bad partner for themselves?

Imagine someone chopping your balls and your penis without anaesthesia, how hell of a pain it would be. This might be happening to war prisoners. It's not imaginary. Or if you are a female, imagine someone inserting iron rod into your vagina after raping, how painful? This actually happens everyday (at least in India). You can search Nirbhaya case. And you'll find how brutal physical pain can be. @Hojo Physical pain creates mental pain too (in case of humans, there is a psychological layer too). This mental pain remains forever. The examples I mentioned above make me empathetic to rape survivors and those who were torchured, be it male or female.

Merry Christmas to y'all.

I want a group of members from the same country. So that I could talk to them relevant stuff. Or if grouping is not possible, can we have separate sections for prominent countries? Group of Chinese people. Group of Indian people. Group of American people......etc. Is there any way we could connect similar people in a group?

I will create a thread for India. (And for China as well.) All India related stuff will go there. But why in the personal Dev sub forum? If it's off topic. Okay I'll do what you said. You should pin 📌 that thread. India has 1.43 billion population China 1.4 billion. World 8 billion. Population is one of the root causes of all human problems especially environmental, climate change etc. Billionaires like Elon Musk emphasize on creating more babies, so that they get more net worth. I'm surprised why intelligent people like Musk, have such a stupid mindset, they chase money (after already having 400 billion dollars) when they are approaching death.