Candle

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  1. Can you add screenshot of your YouTube subscriptions list? Or you can simply suggest some good youtubers, that are rarely known.
  2. I praise you for your work and for writing short answers like this. Long answers are overwhelming. But sometimes in mails, comments etc. very short messages cause me micro-suffering, bcz I expect people to explain more.
  3. Am I allowed to write here the most horrible thing I can imagine? @Leo Gura
  4. Within 100 years, none of the 8 billion people alive today will be alive. Who killed who, who raped who, who torchured who, won't matter after 100 years. Because the oppressed and the oppressor both would have merged into the same source. 100 years later, there will be a completely new generation busy in their own bullshit..
  5. You yourself said these might be possible in your video "making sense of paranormal phenomena". I'm just asking about the truth. Not interested in games at all.
  6. Is necromancy true? Is it possible to bring a dead person back to life? Is it possible in the realm of supernatural powers? I'm asking this question to advanced spiritual seekers or mystics. @Leo Gura I desperately want a dead person back to life.
  7. Being lonely Being single Having no friends Losing a loved one Seeing someone in grief Seeing dark sides of the world Your friend ghosting you Your friend betrayed you Fear of being judged by others Fear of missing out (fomo) Nostalgia Expectations not fulfilled Disillusionment Confusion Rumination Brain chemistry not good. Feeling bored or exhausted Failure Mistreatment by someone Bullying or confinement. Headache Headache due to seeing toxic influencers online. Headache due to seeing people like Trump, Elon, Tate, etc. Headache due to seeing toxic masculinity. Micro suffering while using negative words "hate", "toxicity", "anger", etc. in our posts. Embarassment Shame Anger Trauma Someone you admire lets you down Trying to control what you can't control. Seeing bs. Seeing bitter truths of the universe. Rapes and rape news/stories Brutality Force, someone did sth against will. Being violated. Being used. Destruction of evidence by powerful/rich people. Injustice. Victim shaming. Will add many others later.
  8. An insight : You write differently when you post without any music in background compared to when you post while listening to music. The type of music you are listening affects what you write.
  9. I'm tired of seeing -ve things in the world, -ve or impolite tones of people on social media, apathetic or indifferent people, etc. So I'd love it if someone talks about light, funny or relaxing things with me. I wish I could hug some sweet soul on the forum. My situation is this : Each time a notification pops up, I've a very slight fear of seeing something -ve or rude or unpleasant someone might have written to me... And feel relieved if it's a good message.
  10. So you feel the same when Leo cusses too much? Of course he cusses often.
  11. How do you feel when someone cusses? Your personal experience?
  12. My insights : Sometimes pain makes us more empathetic and compassionate. Either use pain to be more rough or use it to be more soft, polite and caring towards others. Mutual suffering creates stronger bonds of love. There is a thing called "compassion fatigue". Compassion fatigue is basically emotional and physical exhaustion that comes from caring for others, especially in situations where there's a lot of pain, suffering, or stress involved. It’s common among healthcare workers, therapists, caregivers, and even people who are always there for friends or family in tough times. Imagine showing love to others and feeling deep fulfilment.
  13. What are the pros and cons of cussing if you are a big youtuber or a public figure? We feel like cussing when angry or when we need to emphasize sth. But some people don't like it. Our image is degraded a little bit when we cuss. Sometimes it feels ugly to hear cuss words from an influencer....when we pay a little attention to it. Once your image is degraded, it's irreversible. When we look good, wear good formal attire, cursing would appear as an imperfection in our personality. And there'd be no difference between us and a boorish person. Let's say, we are criticizing a big company or a person, then we can't curse to decrease our position of respect, influence, professionalism, sincerity, etc.
  14. How often do you feel sad or insecure about your balding?