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@NewKidOnTheBlock Many men are struggling with the dating part of their life. Its a serious matter.

@Leo Gura Thank you, Leo. So if I watch the videos and apply it, I can be successful with women and find a gf? What about looks? How important is that?

Hi, so I am male, 28 years old (soon 29), living in a town in germany. I have zero sexual experience, never had a gf and Im a virgin. My plan is to settle down in a few years, get a wife, have children, working a job, buying a house. What are the exact action steps? Thanks.

You can live the normie life and do spirituality at the same time. Of course there won‘t be much time left for spirituality, if you‘re busy with the normal life. One has to choose, what he/she wants to sacrifice.

@Leo Gura When life is simple and all the big questions are answered by religion you create a high chance for happiness. Plus family (wife, children, siblings etc.) give you support. Why shouldn‘t you be happy, if you can let yourself fall?

Three years ago Leo posted something about living the normie-life (see uploaded image attached) and this post stuck with me ever since. Leo was connecting a negative touch with it, but for me the normie-life brings simplicity, easiness and peace with it. You can let yourself fall without being confused or paralyzed by all the choices around you. In the end we all want to live a happy life, so why not stick to some fundamentals and to simplicity. Life will be good. Im gonna build myself a "normie life" because thats where happiness will be in the end I think. What do you think?

@Raze maybe she can sense the desperation and neediness, idk

@Raze The job doesnt care about your neediness and desperation. Humans do.

@eos_nyxia I always got disappointed. Nothing serious ever got developed out of the encounters. There are beautiful girls here, sure, but Im too inhibited to approach because the town is too small and Im afraid that it can affect my image somehow. Im also working in college, so approaching here also is not an option. Eventually people will think Im a creep. In a big city I think I wont give a shit about my image. Also you have much much more options. No one knows you there.

@something_else Yeah thats true, you are right. But I want to stay close to my home town eventually. There is a bigger city close to me (800 k people). But for dating I think I might move to Berlin (has about 3.7 million people livin in).

@Schizophonia There town right now, where I am in has about 60-70k people livin in. There is a bigger city close to me with about 800k people livin in. The other city I could move to has about 3.7 million people (Berlin, Germany). But its a bit further away.

Hi friends, Im planning to move to a much bigger city to succeed in dating and to get a girlfriend, marry, have children etc. But I somehow have the thought of it seeming desperate and maybe too needy, if you move only because of it. You leave everything behind, friends, family, job, comfort to meet new women, meanwhile all of my friends and relatives they have girlfriends here in my home town and soon getting married. Pressure will build up because you failed in your home town and now that you left everything behind you have to succeed in this other city. You dont go to the club, to the bar or to other social scenes to just have fun and let go, you go there with the intention to meet new women and this can be sensed I guess. Many dating coaches tell you that exactly this kind of approach will fail because then you are in a desperate and needy position instead of not caring how the night and the interaction will turn out. You are not carefree because of your agenda and pressure you have. You get what I mean? I hope there are some who are understanding my point. Thanks for the advice and help.

Hello my dear friends Here you can find my Tier 2/Tier 3 interpretation of Islam. I call it "Hippe-Sufism". Have fun reading it, it is 2-pages long. I appreciate your replies Religion.pdf

@LordFall Okay thanks for the advice. I tried finding a life purpose, but after all the years I gave up on that. Sure I somehow want to change things in the world, but I dont have an extreme urge to do that.

@Starlight321 Do you think a city with 800 k people is enough for practice?