Genius100x

Goodbye.

Goodbye.

Both aggression (energy, speed) and peace (sadness, peace, stillness) are important. Both HEROISM and SURRENDER (seeing our limitation that we can't do everything) are important. Both anger and softness are important. 💬 Other such points : Both demotivation and motivation are important. Both pain and pleasure are important. Both depression and happiness are important. Both night and day are important. Both failure and success are important. Being both HERO and VILLAIN are important for me. Both BEGINNING and END are important. Both creation and destruction are important. Both sunrise and sunset are important. Both LIFE (sunrise, freshness & enthusiasm) and DEATH (sunset, emotions, peace) are important. 💬 We cannot know one without the other.

Everyone is trying to survive. Everyone is in a bubble fighting for their own survival needs. I am not talking only about food, water, etc. I am talking about other subtle needs as well. Notice this next time you are in a crowd. Look closely at the people around you. What every "insect" is doing ? I am not excluding myself.

Trump.

Google.

A beautiful and mature human being demonstrates an admirable quality: When someone inadvertently hurts them or causes a significant harm, they don't react harshly or scold the person, recognizing that they likely already feel embarrassed and guilty. Instead, they offer understanding and forgiveness. This is greatness. We have a tendency to react when someone hurts us. Being conscious even in difficult times is a great quality. After all, anyone can make a big mistake. They are already feeling bad, don't make them feel worse. Don't focus only on your problems and your sorrows.

@Xonas Pitfall You write like cartoons (not this post only, I have seen your other posts too). I like them. I guess you are from Orissa?

I know nothing compared to the vast ocean out there.

I will not give a fuck what anyone thinks about me. What image they create of me. (in real life, my image matters to some extent...but on social media and online forums...Not at all.) Because I am who I am. No one knows the real me. Everyone has a different image about a person. Everyone is in illusion. Me too. And the image they create doesn't change a thing about me. I have to stop being so self judgemental and fully accept myself. When I was going through my posts on my profile, I was doubting myself. Am I full of shit? What others might me thinking about me? Etc.

RANDOM THOUGHTS : My journals are only for myself. For collecting good things and revising them from time to time. Whatever we experience in our lives, changes us. Even the small conversations. Every video I watch, every talk I listen to and every article I read, changes me. And shapes my life. My journals are changing almost nobody in this world. And even if it changes someone, I don't care. I am focused only on self development and my vision. I want nothing else. Things that are close to my heart (which includes helping those who are in extreme suffering), I am focused only on them. ••••• I am anonymous here, and I don’t care about a bunch of random people. I care about those I want to care for (even if they are anonymous). ••••• I get triggered by stories of sexual assault. And I hate misogynists. I hate those who shame victims. They are not humans. And I don't have words. Only I know what I am feeling. I don't know what I will do after getting so much triggered. My blood starts boiling from time to time. I have cried a lot listening to stories of rape (& brutal murder too, in some cases) victims.

I will focus mostly on two subforums : Self actualization Journals ♥️ & Book Recommendations. ♥️ I am not interested in other ones. A Story : Recently I became disappointed with a mod giving me warning points and locking my thread for no valid reason. I lost all enthusiasm to post things, especially on social issues or philosophical matters. I am fed up with debating, arguing and replying to people with different points of view. Actually I used the word "retarded", I didn't call names to anyone. Just said "surprised to see so many retarded people in the world" , which is a reality. Everyone says so. Who was offended? The mod warned me "don't spread negativity ". And I was speaking against negativity in that post [The comments section below a YouTube video was full of victim shaming and narrow minded people....I was speaking against them] Wow. Everyone was against me. When I posted a thread requesting Leo to unlock that thread, everyone was saying that I am bullshitting. •••• ✓ Yes I know this is not a free speech zone. But this doesn't mean you should muzzle someone who is speaking against the dark side of the world. If you do this, this shows who you are. If you have to censor posts, go remove other negative ones. •••• I will stand alone. I don't need validation from anyone else. I am an independent thinker. Sometimes everyone stands with bullshit. Especially when it involves crimes against females or deep rooted social norms. •••• From now on, I will never follow any master or guru or anybody. No matter how great they are. Learn from everyone, follow no one. 🙏🏼

Why Logic & Debates are full of Shit? In 10 days of joining the forum, I had arguments with some of the members, and I am now really sick of arguments and debates. [Some members do very well in handling arguments and understanding other's POV, like Evelyna. I appreciate them. ] I saw the big picture and became conscious of what's really going on. People don't understand the big picture. They don't understand that everyone has different worldviews and different experiences. They are stuck in their own words/thoughts/bubble rather than looking at the other person's POV, the source from which words are coming. Why someone is saying something? There are many cases : Often there are many subtle ways a message can be interpreted. Often people don't interpret things in the same way the speaker intends them to. They CHANGE THEIR DIRECTION (MEANING) IN A SUBTLE WAY AND START DEBATING. Sometimes a message can be utterly illogical, in that case, you can debate. But then there is no point in debating that. Just leave it. Sometimes people won't accept their mistake even after realising they were wrong. In that case too, it's pointless debating with them. People have immaturity and lack of understanding. So the formula is : If someone has to argue nevertheless, then I am not talking to them. If I m considering their POV. They should also consider mine. It cannot be one-sided. There must be mutual understanding. Only then a debate can end. When they overlook any point of the other person, debate arises. Both sides must go beyond words and understand each other. See with a broader lens and get big picture understanding. •••• Sometimes a message is too subtle and complex to explain in words. We shouldn't waste our time in explaining such things. We know what we know, that's enough. No need to share to others. Also : No need to reply to every bullshit.

@Princess Arabia I get this. I agree. But u are overlooking something. I am NOT worried about MY relationships. It's NOT about MY problem. I started this thread for discussing a general problem of MANKIND. It's only about discussing how much trust and how much caution we should have. That's it. I haven't created mistrust in coming relationships. I MUST create a balance between trust and caution. Don't make assumptions. Don't Talk About What I Have Did To My Future Relationships. It's Not At All About Me. I Know Veey Well How To Manage My Stuff.

Your whole conversation from beginning till end was pointless. It has no logic and no relation to this topic. My post was clearly articulated. And I m correct. I can't debate further unnecessarily. I have posting limits.