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So what are you being right now, if not average? Average can be interpreted in many ways. (academically, spiritualy, etc.) Write things in detail. I have posting limits too.

Can you explain it in detail? I couldn't get it. What do u mean by "average" person?

A Survivor's Timeline of Recovery After Sexual Assault

Journey of a Mother's Grief: A Year-by-Year Timeline After Losing a Child

LIFE ADVICE Don't be moody, grumpy or irritable while talking to people, otherwise you will miss many important things. People will hesitate to tell you things. They won't share their feelings with you. They won't share their sweet things with you. They might even hesitate to tell you important things you wouldn’t want to miss. Because nobody wants to talk to a moody person. They want beauty, softness, politeness and people full of life.

Yes it can be true for many individuals. But my experience is different. And I wrote previous posts based on that. When I decided that I would cease living at 80, it was not exactly from a place of fear. (and 80 is just a number, it can be 90 too, depends.) I saw the reality that even the healthiest person becomes miserable beyond a certain point. This is the REALITY. It doesn't give a fuck how many +ve thoughts you have. And I don't want to die a slow, agonizing death. So why shouldn't I go for euthanasia and quick death? (Should live only if there remains a big purpose to fulfill...that is even bigger than the suffering.) It didn't come from a place of fear. It came from ambition and a desire for perfection/quality and weeding out trash. I just want to see myself strong and not a weakling. Whatever wisdom says, I will do that. Whether +ve thinking or living or dying. MY EXPERIENCE is that it cannot affect my dreams or potential AT ALL. If I know I have to live till 80, I will live on my full potential till 80. Full enthusiasm and EVERY THING which is worth doing and learning. 〰️〰️ Maybe at 100 when I won't be able to walk, I'll sit on my chair and write books (or read something good). But if there is constant suffering, it's my personal choice to die. 〰️〰️ So these were my experiences. I don't see any problem in this philosophy. Maybe it's not for others. @Hibahere @Evelyna @UnbornTao I don't want to talk about the future 60 years later; it's ridiculous someone is barely 22. And talking about 80. I look like an idiot while writing this. But I had to do this becz I started replying in this thread. ♥️

How come it's God realization? If it's just biology. @Hojo

I was just browsing through the forum and suddenly became nostalgic about a future event (that I'll feel nostalgic about this forum after 10-20 years), and the phrase 'anticipatory nostalgia' popped into my mind. When I Googled it, I discovered that it's a real concept. https://psyche.co/ideas/you-can-feel-nostalgia-for-things-that-you-havent-yet-lost I have experienced this a lot in my life.

Hi @Juns. I agree with this. AI is definitely very useful in Science, etc. It can solve complex problems which humans can't because a human brain has many limitations. AI can go beyond that. Our brains have speed and processing related so many limitations. 〰️〰️〰️ But AI cannot lead you to the ultimate truth. How can it go beyond reality? It has not even basic human biology. It's so primitive. It's not complex at all (in terms of biology). But there is a special case. AI can also possibly be spiritual (self-aware). But only if it reaches a great level of complexity like humans. Right now, AI (Robot) is not even close to a primitive animal. See this video for understanding this : Original video : https://youtu.be/tbxMRWxMe6A?si=KuCZHTLtjRkRxysb I strongly believe AI won't be conscious or spiritual for at least the next 100 years. (it can only pretend to be so...) It's badass in playing with information. But it cannot go beyond it. Even humans need a much better brain chemistry for reaching the ultimate truth. (That's why they use psychedelics.) Even we humans behave like Robots. (reading some books, watching videos, creating concepts/beliefs and projecting onto others...). No original thinking. Let alone AI.

I upvote this.👍🏼👍🏼 But understand this. I am not saying that marketing is useless. Marketing is as important as the product. (& packaging). I am only talking about this : Becz I was surprised that even this could generate profits !! It's such a tedious and decade-long process (to capture subconscious minds of millions...) •••• Coca cola is popular bcz it has done a strong marketing. Other generic brands failed. Why would I buy something I haven't even heard of? (This is the magic of marketing. ) I was wrong here a little bit. Actually, "value" matters alongwith "branding/trust". Just because an app (let's say Spotify) or watch is shown in a movie scene for few seconds (indirect promotion) doesn't mean I'll buy it. But it does increase my chances of buying it in future. (Leo said it well...1/300 chance) 〰️〰️ All my doubts are cleared now. 〰️〰️ Very well written ♥️ :

I wonder... Do people really prefer to buy things promoted in movies? Does promoting a product for a few seconds in a scene generate a LOT of profit? So much so that they can pay the movie makers as well as make a profit? 〰️〰️ Becz I don't get influenced by what they show in movies OR any actor promoting any product on any platform. I see only the value a particular product provides. And I decide based on that.

I was sure this thread would be unlocked. It's not a defeatist attitude, if you see the reality as it is, if you do your best and then accept what you can't change. It's a matter of personal choice when it comes to choosing life or death. (But also, this choice should me made using wisdom). You have to accept some day or the other that you are a slave to your body. You can't control everything. Do the best with your body. Be optimistic. Feed your subconscious with +ve affirmations. And then accept the rest. Well it's a just a pov. Perspectives may vary. @Evelyna thank you. 😊 Well written :

I knew this because I read this : She's talking only about old age. She's not pessimistic about her life. I m not debating anything. I agree with your posts. I am just adding the point that "if someone thinks that they won't live after their life becomes miserable 24x7, they are free to choose life or death". It's all about old age. Again I am not guaranteeing that life becomes miserable after 60/70. You can be very healthy at that age. I was just adding my POV. Don't misinterpret my posts. (Apologies if I misspoke something) At least I don't see her pessimistic about life.

No she won't sabotage herself with this philosophy. She can live her life fully before 60. And if she lives her life fully, she would have the desire to live more and this will make her live even 80 or 90 or maybe 100. There must be a strong desire (or purpose) to live, then our body may remain healthy even at 80 or 90. You can see the example of Ratan Tata. He recently died at 86. He lived on his full potential.

@Evelyna If someone has fulfilled all their dreams, experienced all the feelings they wanted to experience, reached the ultimate truth, they can die peacefully. Big life matters, long life isn't necessary. Especially, if there is constant suffering in old age. It's a personal choice to live or to die. We can make some ethical points about it (it's like euthanasia) Even I sometimes think like @Hibahere that I will maintain my health as long as possible and then I'll die at 70 or 80 (if there is a constant suffering in old age) Depends. @Hibahere many people think like this. I m also 22 and I have this notion. It's a personal choice. Don't overthink about something that'll happen 50 years later.

@Majed How? Don't see only returns. Returns are great . But there's also a thing called investment. What's the return on investment? If you spend 1000 hours learning MMA or business or science, it would be a better investment. Once again I am repeating, returns are great. Even I want to learn many languages. It develops our brain in many ways. Some cool and subtle insights we get, related to linguistics. But the cost is just too much. And how much content we have to consume in that language? How many people you are gonna talk to in that language? Just for few hours of movies and for talking to just few people, u are spending 800 hours , still you won't reach C2 level. Isn't it more of an entertainment? If u are open-minded to see this... Btw how much Italian do you know on CEFR scale? And how many hours u have spent in it so far? ________ And after all this shit I have written, it's your life your time your choice. I m nobody to tell you. I am just writing my POV.

Due to toxic and abusive family. A toxic sibling and a highly toxic & abusive man whom I call "father". 〰️〰️〰️〰️ I am anticipating a nasty situation which I'll really hate. It will happen after few hours and I want to kill myself before that. 〰️〰️〰️〰️ I'm suicidal due to day to day challenges. (shouting, criticising, controlling, rudeness, family toxicity, abuse, headache situations, hassles,.... when forced to do something I hate, controlled by family what to do, where to go...(No autonomy) My so-called family makes me a slave. Sometimes I want to run away but it's as dangerous as suicide. I often say to myself "if this keeps going, I can't live, I don't want to live". When I anticipate a nasty or headache situation, I start thinking that I should kill myself before that situation arises. Because there'll be 1000s of such situations in my lifetime. I had reached very close to killing myself in the past....a few times. When I am on the verge of killing myself, I feel something extremely wrong and drastic is gonna happen, it feels as if this whole reality is gonna collapse. So I hold myself back. (I am not afraid of consuming poison, I am just afraid of making a big mistake, I doubt myself.). 〰️〰️〰️ I have strong desires, commitments and ambitions in life which I don't wanna lose. But at the same time I have a strong desire to escape this suffering. I am desperate. 〰️〰️〰️ I am so angry that I want to murder my abusers but I can't do this because I would be imprisoned for life after that, which would be much worse than suicide. Their toxicity is intolerable. What I am gonna lose when I commit suicide? Will I come back in this human form after death? Is it wrong to commit suicide when your life sucks and it will be so for many many years...? 〰️〰️〰️〰️ Edit : If I choose to live, I will get both pain and pleasure in equal amounts in overall life. Or if I die, I will get nothing. It doesn't matter whether I live or die. So I am in extreme dilemma what should I choose. Sometimes pain overwhelms me , other times the pleasure and beauty of life overwhelm me.

Wow .👍🏼 Btw, in ur signature, it should be "Tolle" not "Tole".

👍🏼 @Ajay0 It helps. But not always. Our attention automatically goes to what's wrong. This moment 1 billion things are going perfectly in this Universe and in my body. But who cares. Focusing on positives is some mental relaxation. But I need to do real things (root level solution). I don't want happiness (sometimes I do). I just want to escape the dungeon.

I'll learn languages too. Like Spanish, German (in addition to my native languages) But not more than that. If it's worth your time then definitely go for it.

@TruthFreedom Excerpt from Eckhart Tolle's book "The Power of Now" :

You need to be at C2 level to fully connect with natives. It must be in your subconscious. I have been learning English since childhood (although not rigorously), still I have a long way to go in fluency. I oftentimes check my grammar on ChatGPT (before posting on this forum, for slight improvements). Tldr : It's very very nuanced.

@Majed U r currently studying Italian. So why do u want to add other languages to your plate, and that too a stage purple language? You won't be able to handle that. Language learning sucks. It's so nuanced. It takes 600+ hours to learn the easiest language in the world (Español). What CEFR level u r at in Italian? ....... Btw you could ask this on GPT. Quechua. Zulu (South Africa)