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You're right. It's all good man. I was just hoping to show her that good men do exist + she's hot AF.

Yeah man everything will be ok, I went out tonight and already felt much better.

Well guys, she ended up breaking up with me. At first I thought she meant she just wanted to take a break but now that I've had time to reflect I can see that it's over. Said something like she didn't think she was deserving enough of me, which broke my heart. That's about it. Thanks for all the words of wisdom guys.

Hey guys, Looking for some guidance here as my girlfriend who I've been dating for a week now and who I've been seeing for a month has been freaking out (she's also on her period,) because she thinks one day I'm just going to decide I don't like her anymore and will ghost her. For some background, she has OCD and anxiety, and her last boyfriend was an abusive POS, for example, when they broke up he told her to commit self-deletion then blocked her on everything. BTW, she is getting professional help for all of this as we speak. I've never been in a relationship before, just had casual sex partners, so this is all new to me and I'm not sure how to handle it, she called me today and said let's talk about it tonight, because although she's over him, some of the things he did have really fucked her up and she wishes she warned me about it beforehand. I just want to head into this conversation as best as I can because I do really care for her and I think tonight is either going to make us much stronger as a couple or it's going to be over. Either option is okay for me but I would prefer the former. Any advice is appreciated. Peace, Owen.

Happy birthday!

How would we study the cults? Just line it up with the lessons from Actualized.org’s videos on cults?

Haha

Urinal rules like leaving a spot open in between you and the other guy.

Part 3 of Actualized.org's music playlist on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1KX7yXmbXxP2ERBXQTA9Lc?si=3f223ec41bc843aa

The symptoms? I was using chronically and couldn't hold a relationship for longer than 3 months, friends were dropping like flies, I live with my parents and they don't want drugs in the house and just had a general apathy towards socializing in general because all I wanted to do was to maintain my addiction. I chose to go to rehab and there was quite some devilish events leading up to this moment involving lying and stealing. I just had enough and asked my parents for help and they agreed.

Thank you King Crimson 1000%

@Inliytened1 Thanks for the advice. I definitely noticed myself being hyper judgmental while in there and I couldn’t tell if it was because of the past year of meditation I did or what. @Carl-Richard Yeah you’re right. I’ve made it 6 months last year then thought I could get away with just doing it once. Big mistake, huge. I caught up to what I would’ve used in that time and I did it FAST. @Jordan of the Shire I had to google what humility meant. Lol. @Ulax Thanks boss. My LP right now has to do with stand up comedy, but I realized I’d never be able to actualize it unless I let go of the ganja.

I'm 21 and I spent 4 good weeks in rehab to finally kick weed addiction. Now I can happily say that I don't care if I ever smoke weed again in my life. I also got the chance to observe lower developed minds in person and psychology's current understanding of addiction (at least a sliver of it.) Which, yes, there was plenty of good information in there too, which is partly why I feel confident AF now. Here's what I observed: - They never tackle the root issue (being able to sit with the void, as Leo pointed out.) Thus, many of them have been in and out of rehab for years. The only ones I could see actually making improvements had the right attitude and were willing to drop ALL the drugs. Many would still rationalized their weed addiction or replace whatever they were using with drinking a fuck ton of caffeine. - A few of the therapists there were depressed and addicted themselves Not addicted to alcohol but to food, caffeine, the subtler things, then sit there and give us advice on how to stop being addicts. It's a really interesting dichotomy. - Psychedelics are still demonized This one wasn't as much as a surprise to me because even Deepak Chopra's right hand man (Roger Gabriel) who I talked with, dismissed them. - Many of the people in there were much older and are parents It just makes me really fucking sad to see this. - I'm blessed. Actualized.org has significantly shifted the trajectory of my life. I feel incredibly lucky to have stumbled upon this resource. That's about it. Thank you. Peace, Owen.

My last shrooms trip was so shocking I wet my bed. Really brings a whole new meaning to "feeling like a kid again."

Lol. I felt the same way. Every now and then everything clicks into place and I burst into tears of joy.