AION

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  1. Here are the full notes. In my opinion it is the best program he released because it is so structured and based on social principles that he coined. --- ### **Program Overview** The **Hot Seat at Home Mastermind** is a 12-week immersive course designed by Owen Cook (RSD Tyler) to transform social and dating skills through **inner game mastery**, **practical exercises**, and **advanced psychological frameworks**. The program emphasizes **self-amusement**, **non-neediness**, and **sociocentric consciousness** over scripted routines, focusing on authenticity and emotional resonance. Below is a structured breakdown of the curriculum, principles, and key takeaways. --- ### **Core Philosophy** 1. **Cause vs. Effect**: - Be the **"white ball"** (cause) directing energy, not the "colored ball" (effect) reacting to external forces. - Rooted in **Stoic principles** : Control your mindset, not outcomes. - *“Wisdom is knowing the difference between what you can control (intent) and what you cannot (her response).”* 2. **Inner Game Foundations**: - **Self-entertainment**: Prioritize your joy over seeking validation. - **Entitlement**: Act from self-worth, not desperation. - **Freedom of outcome**: Detach from results while pursuing intent. --- ### **Weekly Breakdown** #### **Week 1: Core Principles & Transformational Mindset** - **Objective**: Shift from reactive (effect) to proactive (cause) mindset. - **Key Concepts**: - **Sequencing**: Principles → Practice → Integration. - **Upward spiral**: Small actions compound into confidence. - **LOC (Level of Consciousness)**: Operate from (neutrality) to avoid neediness. - **Exercise**: Journaling to identify “effect” behaviors (e.g., seeking approval). #### **Week 2: Mission 1 – Certainty & Emotion** - **Objective**: Speak with **authoritativeness** (leadership) and **emotion** (transcendence). - **Key Concepts**: - Women respond to **emotional spikes**, not logic. - *“A boring handsome guy loses to an average exciting one.”* - **Exercise**: Approach 5–10 groups daily, improvising stories on unfamiliar topics with conviction. #### **Week 3: Mission 2 – Free Association** - **Objective**: Break linear thinking to create **emotional trance**. - **Key Concepts**: - **Informal > Formal**: Sex and attraction thrive in chaos, not order. - **Law of state transference**: Your energy dictates hers. - **Exercise**: Talk for 1–2 minutes without logical connections (e.g., “pineapple, astronauts, disco”). #### **Week 4: Mission 3 – Polite Collaboration** - **Objective**: Master **subcommunication** through neutrality and friendliness. - **Key Concepts**: - **Collaborative frame**: Assume everyone is a friend; avoid arrogance/submission. - *“Friendliness is dominance when paired with intent.”* - **Exercise**: Approach 10–12 women daily with questions like, “What’s your story?” while staying relaxed. #### **Week 5: Mission 4 – Storytelling Without Compliance** - **Objective**: Lead interactions by **giving value** (stories) vs. seeking compliance. - **Key Concepts**: - **Freebies**: Offer anecdotes without expecting investment (e.g., “I saw a kid flip me off today!”). - Avoid “interview mode” (asking too many questions). - **Exercise**: Spend 4 days telling stories, 3 days asking questions. #### **Week 6: Mission 5 – Sexual Energy & Calibration** - **Objective**: Normalize sexuality through **subcommunication**. - **Key Concepts**: - **Triangle gazing**: Shift eye contact between eyes and lips. - **Assume familiarity**: Mentally rehearse intimacy to project confidence. - **Exercise**: Approach older women to practice flirty banter (e.g., “You’re trouble, aren’t you?”). #### **Week 7: Advanced Principles – The 5 Pillars** 1. **Freedom of Outcome**: Authenticity over neediness. 2. **Clarity of Intent**: Pursue inspiration, not validation. 3. **Entitlement**: Command space without apology. 4. **Self-Amusement**: Prioritize your joy (LOC 540+). 5. **Sociocentric Frame**: Merge with the group; avoid ego-driven agendas. #### **Weeks 8–12: Integration & Mastery** - **Missions 6–10**: Focus on persistence, identity refinement, and logistics (e.g., isolating women, seeding pulls). - **Key Themes**: - **Decision fatigue**: Act without overthinking. - **Persona fatigue**: Drop “game” and embrace authenticity. - **Vulnerability**: Share freely without filters (e.g., “I’m nervous, but I had to meet you”). --- ### **Critical Infield Techniques** 1. **Bambi Eyes**: Look for dilated pupils and soft focus to gauge attraction. 2. **Kino Escalation**: Touch upper back early; if resisted, joke (“I’m shy, promise I won’t bite!”). 3. **Free Association in Bed**: Use playful, illogical chatter to disarm logic (e.g., “If you were a pizza topping…”). 4. **Collaborative Frame**: Reframe rejection as feedback (e.g., “You’re saving me from my future ex-wife!”). --- ### **Transformational Takeaways** 1. **Energy > Content**: Women mirror your vibe, not your words. 2. **Non-Linear Attraction**: Silly/absurd interactions often outperform “logical” game. 3. **Power vs. Force**: Letting go (sociocentric) creates magnetism; forcing (egocentric) repels. 4. **Abbundance Mindset**: Approach all women (not just “10s”) to build momentum. --- ### **Bonus Material Highlights** - **Webinars**: Emphasize **win-win energy** and **vulnerability** as aphrodisiacs. - **Infield Breakdowns**: - **San Francisco Rampage**: Use humor to normalize sexuality (e.g., “Are you Italian or trouble?”). - **LA Silent Sets**: Lead with presence, not words. - **Momentum**: Treat each interaction as a “micro-win,” regardless of outcome. --- ### **Conclusion** The **Hot Seat at Home** program is less about “pickup” and more about **personal alchemy**—transmuting fear into freedom, ego into empathy, and neediness into magnetism. By mastering **cause-driven intent**, **free association**, and **sociocentric flow**, students learn to navigate social dynamics with the ease of a “river” (Owen’s metaphor for effortless influence). The ultimate goal? To **“be the party”** rather than chase it—a lesson applicable far beyond dating. **Key Quote**: *“Your metric of success isn’t lays or numbers—it’s how much fun you had becoming unapologetically yourself.”*
  2. I thought these were the full notes. I have 5 other documents with the 5 principles/pillars explained in more detail. When I have time I will upload them too.
  3. Good stuff. Length of the video: infinity
  4. What in the alien consciousness is this
  5. To love is to hold on.. But equally... to love is to let go.. At the end all the grief will go and you will be left with the fond memories and gratitude. Something you can ask God help for.
  6. How one can do nonstop meditation? You have to drink and eat
  7. Doing no meditation is like not going to the shower for a while. In the same way your body is getting dirty, your mind’s eye gets dirty too. This is why I always meditate in the morning. For my own hygiene and to be presentable.
  8. @theleelajoker can’t one do a retreat at home? Why pay for it?
  9. Somebody you look up to Or try to borrow something from.. Share your pick in this thread No butt hurt or judging. Just sharing. I like this guy. Amazing vibe:
  10. You are making it a big deal. Just ask what they are doing this weekend and you will know if they want to fuck with you or not. It is all about feelings, chemistry and sub communication, and not about thinking.
  11. They are as much you as you is you so thus non-duality.Solipsism is true but it is about what kind of spin you give it. I don't agree with the spin Leo is giving. It can be interpreted in weird ways by feeble minds.
  12. People say humans have inherent value but on what is this based? I always believed one needed to develop to be of value.
  13. I haven’t been to Luxembourg but it is a very small country for my taste. Switzerland would be more to my taste. I’m in IT and the salaries are high there but I’m not in Switzerland. A lot of Italians and Mediterranean people in Switzerland with whom I have more chemistry than for example Germans who can be a tad “different”; closed off people and hard to make friends with.
  14. The grass is always greener on the other side. US has a lot of problems in its own way. A lot of homeless and addicted people. At the end it is what you value. If you value money and development, and you have a degree, it would make sense for you to go. For me the best is a country that is very developed in tech and economy and still has heart centered people.
  15. And apparently he is now in Vegas meeting the good folks
  16. This is psychology 101.. how bigger the person, how bigger the shadow (unconsciousness). That is why it is important to idolize the right people which requires a keen eye. One can always learn from everybody but worshiping idols is something else. People aren't Gods and they are prone to monkey business. I always smirk when people talk down on big names like Elon Musk and such. If you would had 10% of the power and money he has you would go ape shit and turn into a monster. With great power comes what?
  17. I had one guy friend who was very desperate. And I went out with him once or twice and he made a total ass out of himself, getting into fights with girls and dragging me into it and then pushing me to leave the venue. Being jealous when I caught fish. Once he even tried to kiss a street hooker and I was like wtfff. How one can be that desperate. He even got rejected by the street hooker. It was a true dumpster fire. These guys are their worst enemy but they have the incapacity to see it and when people point it out they get angry or try to drag you into their misery. I had couple of guy friends like these and I quickly learned by people avoid these people. I had some sympathy for them because it reminded me in my olden days but they just try to exploit your sympathy and so no willingness to change. And it is true, changing is very difficult if you don't know what one is doing. And it is the easiest thing if you know what you are doing in terms of patterns.
  18. It is not actually a fair reaction test because the cue time is always the same so you can time it.
  19. Psychedelics is not the holy grail that will heal you. Insight doesn’t change you. It is just another coping mechanism. Although psychedelics can help you to let go of your own patterns. Too much use of it will create more chaos and accelerate your suicide. Psychedelics should be used as a tool but with a lot of moderation. Your real healing is the hero’s journey and finding meaning on that path which will be your holy grail going forward; aka being your own mini god of your own life being in creation aka not spiritually bypassing.
  20. You believing you need to rape a girl to get some is something that is embodied by SD red. Girls can smell that and it is repulse for them if you live in a western country as somebody from a middle eastern background. They are very tapped into their emotions and they can feel you are just looking for a willing hole. Nobody wants to be a hole that said yes. Your best option is to make friends and learn how to see the opposite sex as equals and not just as holes who say no to you. But to be honest I think you are a lost cause because you are not learning from the threads you open. It is always the same old same old.
  21. Do you take things like L-Theanine for better concentration?
  22. It is definitely something to think about. That is true. I was actually bogged down in SD green for a very long time and by studying others, I got out of it. Jungian psychologists would have a field day in this safari/forum haha. This forum is amazing if you are into psychedelics but obviously there is SD green bias and there is nothing wrong with that as long as one acknowledges it.
  23. The most mind blowing thing is that Leo thinks he understands the universe while he can’t even understand his own psychology regarding his narcissism and other character defects he has. To understand oneself is to understand the universe. And in my opinion he lacks that. It is very cringe to see him talk down on Wilber and such. Somebody who understands consciousness much better than him. He also talks down on Peterson while he clearly hasn’t read his books. In his last video (unstructured 3+ hour lecture)this was apparent. But I think it is still fun to hang out here to see the occasional shit show of mods going at each other’s throat on this high consciousness forum. In my opinion this forum is the best if you are into psychedelics and want to get an inner look of the SD green mind.