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Relationship hurt is the biggest factor idd. I do get it though. Because relationship hurt calcifies me as a guy too. So I can´t imagine what it can do with women who are more sensitive. But one thing I noticed with these women is that they all adapt this I will be more selective in my selection of men thinking them being more judgemental towards men will also make them more valuable on the dating market. Only hot women can get away with this approach. For most women this approach is disastrous. Because most men will feel it in their bones that they have to pay a premium for the bad guys she did in her past.

Not just relationship. With age, life makes people harder too. It is harder to bond with such people.

you guys are taking these value models like spiral dynamics way out of proportion, it has only partly to do with it, mostly it has to do with her age.. after 25 she will start to calcify after all of those pumps and dumps so she will become more masculine in her personality. the best is to catch a girl between 20-25 age range , that will give you a good shot for a long term relationship. higher age ranges can be possible but be ready for a world of hurt

how much you paid him though? ralston doesn't come cheap

You know what I mean.

Polygamy works for men. It doesn't work for women. But most women would rather choose a high quality men and just be a side chick rather than be a monogamous girl for low a quality man. I think a lot of women already into polygamy but they just don't label it like that. Especially on those dating apps. Low quality men which is a substantial part of society can't get into polygamy even if they wanted. Polygamy is only for high quality men.

That is true. But I’m trying new interaction styles with strangers too. Since I won’t be seeing them again anyway.

The bar is so low. I’m just happy I found couple of good therapists who just care and are okish in terms of competence. Finding a therapist who is into psychedelics is like finding a needle in a haystack. I don’t have the energy to go to 10 therapists right now.

Microdose is ok. Nothing weird can happen. I also don’t use my car or anything. Sometimes I also like to microdose lsd when going out. I did it during my trip to Barcelona and it lead to some lovely adventures. In real life I can be walled off from strangers. LSD takes that away. But it is good to have some friends around if you are doing it although I wouldn’t need it because I can fend for myself. It is more for emotional co-regulation.

@Judy2 real work is done by the client himself , therapist is just a coach on the side line. That is how I see it. Most therapists re also incompetent so I don’t care about their opinion too much. I still like my current therapist though. But she never took any psychedelics so telling her things about it is just bothersome and not worth my time.

If I’m not doing anything serious with her she doesn’t have to know all the bodies in the closet

Lying? I didn’t talk about lying

There is a relationship crises in the world because people don't understand women and people who say the truth about women get attacked. You should never tell truth to a women but men should know the truth about women within their groups.

why you think it is unethical?

Interesting that Tony's two friends Leo and Conner died in Thailand.