AION

Psychedelics are a double edged sword. It can do as much harm as good. For low development people it is almost certain it will do more damage even though some might insist it is not the case.

Higher forms of love can’t be recognized by simple humans with a low development. At the end everything is love but what matters is from which developmental stage it comes from. Context matters too. Sometimes conflict is needed and total destruction is needed so there is room for higher forms of love. For example what happened with the dinosaurs and such. Or with certain wars today. In the same way sometimes punching somebody in the face can be love instead of being a nice guy and not telling people what they need to hear. That kind of niceness is a kiss of death in any kind of relationship. Or a marriage. That is why I always get into fights because I will tell people what they need to hear instead of doing what everybody does: telling people what they want to hear. That is like n1 rule how to make friends and get gf which is to tell what they want to hear. At the same time telling people truths they are not ready to hear is not love eithrr. It is like sticking up your dick up somebody who is not ready. That is not love. High quality love knows how to strike the balance between kindness versus judgement/discipline. And between assertiveness and reservation.

Loving love too much makes you brittle, weak, unhealthy, and lazy. Just imagine a kid who gets constant love and all the stuff he wants. He gets spoiled as fuck. DMT is basically spoiling yourself. Fuckijg up your nervous system through bypassing. Back in the day you had to become a knight to get a cute girl and fell in love with and experience the meaning of life. Nowadays you can just plug it in. Love is not the end all be all of things. It is just a feeling. Be careful to not turn into a cuck. Exposing yourself to hardships and challenging yourself doesn’t feel like love but it is more healthy and equally needed. Balance love with discipline. Otherwise one day you will wake up brittle and weak.

Depends on the nature of the idea. It is too vague.

She looks good but she is not attractive to my taste

@Elliott no

@Elliott peak fertility is around that age, I was still rather generous with my judgement

For women it is 25. For men it is 45. But as you get older you need more inner game to make up.

Inner game and social skills are related very much since you are only expressing what you are in the inside.

@LordFall I have friends who are competent at their work and double income. Yet they can’t get a girl because they lack inner game. While I have other friends who are broke but do have inner game but they get girls left and right. Being good at a job and getting a girl are two different skill sets. It is not only skill set. I think a lot of these incel guys have personality. Money and looks don’t give you personality.

Provider game will only work if the girl is poor with no prospect for a good job and you have to be ok-ish looking. In SD orange society and up you need inner game. If you do then your lack of money and looks doesn’t matter. Obviously signaling wealth or your body or anything material can come across as self qualifying and that is repulsive. Money and looks game (provider game) will work in less developed countries or with girls with a lower social status. So attraction is almost all inner game. And it is momentary. For example I’m tall-ish and I do get some attention in nightclubs but when I open my mouth and I start saying stupid stuff(fawning, insecure things, self qualifying stuff), it is over because I will feel the sexual tension disappearing. So being good looking, tall and having money, only gets you initial attention. The moment you open your mouth and say stupid stuff like in this thread it is over. So big part of it is personality.

Provider frame still works but it is not the best. It is for people without game.

If you pay for it. 😭 so Majed is right. The thing is if you are successful some girls will be interested in this orc but that are not the type of girls you want to trust and get in a relationship with.

Human-machine integration with AI will revolutionize spirituality so much. Because AI will be able to get access to our inner states through a brain link. It will help us with interpretation of our inner states. Sort out our bullshit. Such interesting times await us. This is some matrix shit with the good and the bad. And most people are going into this revolution completely blind.

Enlightenment states and intelligence development are two different things but they do have an influence on each other. States are interpreted through the lens of one’s own current structure stage. Wilber explains this in his matrix lettuce. So just imagine a super human in 20 to 30 years and how he would interpret enlightenment experiences. He would look at our chimp interpretation and just smile.