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Why? Nah. Humanity is doing better than ever in almost every metric.

You have to catch her before 24. It seems 24 is the magical age for women.

Ok mister know it all. Sounds like you were with me in that room lmao

Leo said matriarchy doesn’t exist. So you guys think we still live in a patriarchy?

@KosmicGeng I think spiral dynamic stage has to do with it but also the age of the women, after a certain age women think they all deserve the best men. She was 27 and somehow they think they deserve the complete package for some reason. I think it is because of the pink pill videos these women are watching. For me it is much better to date early 20 girls they don't have this relational and emotional baggage that makes them overcompensate and think they deserve the best men while they are not the best woman they can be. you are right to filter these women out early or have an according strategy. She was using sex as a pressure tool against me and after a while it just became too annoying treating me with stick and carrot all the time. Probably my biggest mistake was not to set the frame very early on because I liked her and I let some of her behavior off. You need to coax them very early on.

To take a break isn't contingent on how long the relationship is but on your inner state and if one needs time for emotional processing. Sometimes it is better to move on as quickly as possible since some people are not worth it. One must be inclined to take agency to get out of victim mode whatever that means.

@KosmicGeng that is true.. men have no inherent value

@something_else 3 month relationship This video explains the sins of victim mindset the best so far. Really worth the watch if you like deep psychology.

Solid video

It is a sub conscious problem related to your nervous system that sees threat where there is none. So logical and insight solutions won't cut it. What helped with me was doing exposure therapy while being on light dose of lsd to rewrite your system. Your sub conscious wants prove it is safe to connect with people. Fancy insights are nice too but it won't cut it.

@LordFall I’m in west Europe. But business groups is idd good hot spot.

50? Those are rookie numbers. You need to ramp it up. But Spain is good. If you have a good connection you can date girls way above your own league.

@LordFall I use Claude. And I have a female therapist who nudges me to wallow in my victim mindset. I guess I need a men’s group. I tried some but there all men with the mindset of the feminine. It is hard to find good men nowadays. Most are on some bullshit.

If you are a women and you feel victim you will still do fine, your social life will be ok too. But if you are a man and you feel chronically victimized by life. That is brutal. Especially in nowadays social climate. 2 days ago I broke up with my gf and this is not the first time it happened so I handled it well, put myself out there instead of wallowing in misery and I met a lot of new people. Girls don’t approach but they do position themselves close to you. And normally that doesn’t happen a lot but this night it happened like 5 times which is no coincidence in my opinion. I didn’t approach all of them because I was with one and the others were giving my eye contact in the venue so I couldn’t approach them all but if you are heart broken and deal with it as a champ you get rewarded by it by grace. To be fair I also took a micro dose lsd while going out but I don’t feel bad about the break up anymore. She didn’t give me a high priority in her life and was using sex as a leverage to let me do stuff and make commitments like settling down with her without knowing her. She also felt better than me and she said I only wanted her for sex which was not true. She wanted me to overpay for her while I met her in a nightclub and I know she has a history but let’s me overpay for sex which caused resentment. Do women think we are stupid? If others can smash on the first date we want that too.

For me. Depends for what I’m looking for.