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@Natasha Tori Maru I’m dating actually right now. I think you are projecting. You have a grudge towards masculine men for some reason. And you know why. And for some reason you are projecting it onto me to resolve something inside of yourself.

The masculine grudge towards feminine nature. I think if somebody has a grudge, it is palable, it doesn't matter if you are male or female.

So what is the proof of the pudding? I'm doing ok and I'm dating right now. @Valach to answer your question, red pill helped me because I only took the good stuff out of it. But I kind of outgrown it. Red pill isn't meant to linger in it. Especially it is sad if older men get stuck in it. Saying all of red pill is bad is throwing out the baby with the bath water. And it is also discounting the current masculinity grudge.

There is a grain of truth in it though. I think a new kind of pill should come out that takes the best of the material and leave out the toxic stuff.

I don't watch it. I come across it sometimes. That is not how attraction works. I like to play with SD green but also lower. Every type of development has it pro's and cons. I wouldn't say a SD green girl is always better than for example SD blue. I look at potential too and coachability. From my exp, a lot of SD green women have been around the block and have a lot emotional baggage. You can easily recognize them by the undertone "all men" and men need to do x and y. So what are you saying? You are saying open relationship is the only type of high cosncious relationship. You guys really need to drop these gimmicky words that don't mean anything. High consciousness is not a single metric to begin with.

One of my fears is getting old and having to deal with these types. Lock 'm in young guys. It is not getting easier. Or you have to be like 50 year old going for 25 year old but in that case you need to have your health, weath and spirituality in order.

it is just your thoughts, since body/mind is connected, they are not two separate things, so you can't be stuck in it. Mind and body are literally the same thing.

Relative self is the one you can observe versus the observer.

Development is not linear like that. So you can’t say if you are tier 2 than x and y, and you can’t have this or that trait because then you are not tier 2. How you should look at spiral dynamics is like a spine. And every vertebrae is a stage of development. Some vertebrae might be developed and other might not be. So my highest vertebrae might be SD yellow but I might be lacking some red, blue or orange etc. Ken Wilber does say that every person has center of gravity. That is basically your median. currently I’m integrating sd orange for a stable spiral spine so to say. This explains why you can be at a high stage and still have some problems like addiction, anger issues or other personality problems. For example when you lack discipline and you have addictions you might be in red and you need to anchor your red shadow to integrate it into blue.

That is purple

For example if your friend is jealous on you and plotting against you unconsciously. It is healthy to walk away or distance them a little a bit. Most people who are jealous will never admit. Because they are not aware of it. Most people don’t even know about the unconscious although 80% of the human is unconscious. Even Leo rarely talks about it which is why I don’t categorize him as a high conscious person.

@Jordan of the Shire it has to do with the pre trans fallacy. Basically you have to synthesize their pov and your own pov and not discount your own pov which SD green and other “sacrifice self” stages do.

The consciousness field of an animal and a human is the same. The difference is that the animal has less complex brain so it can't speak and also cognitive/mental overlay is very simple. Don't ask me how I know this.

Tier 2 is not only limited to systems thinking. Main attribute of tier 2 is vision logic, something your master has kept you completely blind to. She is definitely bringing a lot of things together. So she is in the twilight zone between green and yellow. But you can't judge somebody's cognitive skill based on a 30 second video.

Human body is like an animal. It will need time to adapt to new routines. Instead of trying to implement them all at once. Do it incrementally. So add one habit the first week. Next week another. And so on. Trying to implement 10 habits at once will create resentment. Rather just fuck yourself at this point lol. It is not going to work on the long term. You aren’t a pc onto which you can upload 10 new programs mf.