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I don't want to be in that SD orange kind of relationship where everything is a transaction. And where she compares men like comparing different cars to see what is the best value for her time. That is just fancy prostitution.

you are a regular guy, so why is it so difficult for you to get a gf? you are like jumping through 30 hoops in your relationship threads

There are more singles than ever because women all want men better than them. Although regular women don't hate regular men, they disrespect them and look down on them. It is clear as day. If you can't see this I don't know what to say. And wait for it, the singles epidemic is going to get much worse. They say by 2030 40% of 40 year old women will be childless and alone.

Most hate comes from daddy issues. Always screen for it with indirect questions.

But the thing is like if you have to look, but you don’t you don’t still you still don’t know how to close you’re still you’re still fucked at the end you need both inner and outer

Owen Cook says looks don't matter but recently I discovered that he has vested interest in believing looks don't matter because he wants to sell his programs. Both inner and outer play a role. I kind of feel stupid listening to him lol.

If you were like me, introverted, you wouldn’t have gotten the success you had. In my opinion you shouldn’t feel bad. Women are the gate keepers. They ask and we supply. To be honest I kind of feel stupid reading your thread because egoism got you the result. And what I’m seeing right now is that you are turning it on yourself in a masochistic way and calling it spirituality. You have no responsibility for the choices of stupid hot girls. I think you should be nicer to yourself.

I shouldn’t give all my cards away

How did you know I’m mildly controlling? That is very specific lol

@Miguel1 you never have this hunger to be with a girl, just emotional connection without the spiritual? I don’t need a girl for spiritual connection. I just want her company, good vibes and most of all feminine energy which I lack myself.

I meditated on this topic because I have a similar issue but I’m different too. I’m introverted instead of extroverted like Miguel. And I didn’t have it easy with dating. Lately I have a lot of success though. Through hard work. I didn’t come easy like for Miguel. But I reached a plateau too where others can’t reach me. And with reached I mean the young attractive women I wanted to be reached by. Because my DM is filled with milfs that can reach me where I want but I don’t want it from them. I think the right move here to give those milfs a chance but I’m not that spiritual too look beyond the wrinkles and bad decisions. And that is ok. That would be the ultimate one taste. But fuck that bullshit. I’m just a human. If others want to larp as god and play captain save a hoe be my guest. But I’m just integral. Some mfs here say they are god and still want to date a 20 year cutie and expect her to be mother Theresa from the inside. Lmao. This topic is gold. This forum is becoming a clown show. 😭😭😭

Ok I believe you but that is not what I asked

So what was your trick to get so many girls? Any programs you followed. I'm still in business.

Interesting approach. I'm curious how it will pan out for you. You had probably so much sex that it feels mundane. But probably it is not the spirituality that is the problem. You just fucked yourself up. Probably the first thing that comes up when you see a pussy is I don't want to use this girl which is an interesting way of seeing things. He wants that Matrix shit. The love of Neo and Trinity that broke the Matrix.

You are creating your own suffering. Asking for a 40 year old in a 20 year old girl's body is like looking for an unicorn. It is mission impossible. Trust me. I told you the solution a long time ago. Just befriend older women like 40-50 and have them as platonic friends so it feeds your spiritual needs. And then just date romatically with younger girls but just accept them for who they are. Spiritualty is accepting people who they are. And not expecting a donkey to be a horse and a horse to be a donkey. God created women like this for a reason.