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that is not what this thread is about lmao

my age shouldn't even matter.. I'm a man lol

I’m not pushing 40 lmao this forum is bat shit crazy haha.

@Emerald I have studied Ken Wilber in depth so I know there are multiple intelligences, and intellectual intelligence is just one. There are far more like emotional and social intelligence and many more kinds of intelligence. So when somebody is low in intellectual intelligence and high in social intelligence for example. I don't see myself superior. I just see an opportunity to learn from their social intelligence. Hot girls get many chances to date and make new friends. So I don't even think that women are naturally better at emotoinal and social intelligence. They just get more traffic so to say. As for lower or higher standards, it really doesn't matter. It is like saying I want 50k usd for my 10 year old Toyota Corolla. Of course you can ask it but nobody is going to pay that. In dating and business it is key to lead with what you can offer, not what you want to get. Otherwise you will end up as a cat lady. And there is nothing wrogn with that if you a woman is into cat life. I don't want to end up as a cat man so for me it was important to let go of unrealistic expections like her not having a sexual past and such. I still secretly want a virgin and that is almost impossible if I'm aiming for an early to mid 20'ies girl. By the way older women are not only chasing me in bars but anywhere else too. I think their psychology is chasing "youth". When they can get with a younger guy they feel young again. That is their core desire I think. By the way I think the magic number is like 24 for women. At this age they become more serious and they start to look for men who are stable as shit, after givign their prime sexual years to losers. Other guys suddenly have to put up for her bad choices. I don't feel like I should be the guys to pay for her bad mistakes and have to jump through all of her hoops. If a girl doesn't let me pay for her bad choices and doesn't let me jump through all of her hoops and I can actually give her a pass. For example that bar tender girl is 27 and I didn't get the feelign she was looking for the whole package. Just looking for a soul mate and to have a good time. But there are many 27+ women that make bad choices and then make the guys they date pay for it. I have a very short fuse for thise kind of girls. My last situationship was one of those girls. Ok she was hot as a hell and 27 but she was expecting me to be the whole package while she was clearly not. The only thing she brought was her good genetics.

There are younger girls who are into me. And I see them on a weekly basis during my work outs but they never make moves. Only give obvious signals like being giggly and excited when I talk to them. But you are right about me leveling up. I have had some stunning gfs and that pumped up my self esteem I guess. And being worthy of higher quality. It is so obvious to me that men are the price. And it is expressed in your physiology.

Bar is different than a nightclub where people are more into in-depth conversation

I think young girls don’t appreciate intellect. For them other things are important. If you are a guy with a giant intellect it is like having a huge dick for girls that are into huge dicks, and most of the time older women are into that or special kind of people. I think I have to start catering the right thing to the right people. For example if you are in a nightclub your intellect won’t get you anything. It is all about vibe, appearance, presentation, confident and leading. Older women can lead relationships themselves so they don’t necessarily look for guys that can lead but personally I don’t like that kind of girls.

@Emerald I don't look for them. When I'm in a public place they come up and talk with me. And I just talk to them out of politeness and because I'm a nice guy. But then they start flirting with me and giving me signals while I don't give them signals. For example last weekend I was in a bar and I liked the bar tender girl. And I started flirting with her and stuff and she was open but not head of heels. I started being more reserved towards her and start playing with my phone instead. Then this older women game up and she started having conversation with me. I was bored and I thought she was smart so I thought why not. To be honest I talked to her for a long time because she had a good eye and could read me as a person. Eventually she started giving me a lot of compliments and asking my phone number. At the end she left the bar. This bar girl witnessed this and afterwards she started opening much more. But I guess I expected her to make moves too and ask my phone number or shit. But I think if a girl is hot and in her 20'ies she won't make moves. I never had girls in their 20'ies take the lead and ask my phone number. Or go out of their way. While older women do go out of their way, ask my number and make moves. So I'm wondering if it just me. Or girls who are in their prime sexual market value years just don't it. Because I do can get these kind of girl but they make me work for it. By the way , I didn't ask the phone number of the bar tender girl although we had a great connection and we come from the same culture. She was Greek and looked like a statue. I think if a girl is hot like that she doesn't make moves. From my exp, if I want a prime girl I have to be very clear and decisive in the sense of "I'm worthy of you and I'm coming for you". Usually I'm ambivalent and that fucks me up. From my exp, older women don't have high expectations at all. They are very easy. And they lower their standards to get a chance. I don't get this notion that says older women have higher standards. I think most women are aware of the sexual market place. If they have higher standards than a 20 year old girl while being a 40 year old they price themselves out of the market.

Most women would do a descent looking celeb just for her ego. That is why being a bad boy works. Because they bruise the woman's ego in some way and she wants to boost her ego. In the same way if you boost a woman's ego too much she won't sleep with you because she will think she is too good for you.

Bad thing because they think they make a chance with you or good thing because you are liked? Lately I have been getting a lot of attention from them. And it has me thinking, why young women are not like this never taking the inniative.

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Exactly. And another mistake they are making is that they act like AI is outside of consciousness. AI is consciousness just like anything else. It is funny how robots and AI are becoming more and more human like and creative while humans are becoming robotic. They are just repeating something stupid they heard. The underline is “duuuduuuh it is popular to be anti AI so I’m anti AI too. “

A lot of women date through male paradigm too. That is why it is so trick so say men are like x and females are like y. Hunting an elephant as game is very different from hunting a gazelle.

@yetineti that is sharp and I already knew that. I just don’t have time and emotional capital for a relationship.

I live in a small city and I don’t have the luxury to disqualify women for being women in casual dating. Rest assured I come across high value woman too but I’m not ready for a serious relationship with them.