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That is the problem with such authors. They only tell you half truths which is worse than a falsehood. Vulnerability is only power/sexy if it comes from strength. If it comes from weakness it is not powerful at all. It is the pre/trans falacy. That is why 90% of those tier 1 authors are garbage. Not so long ago I made a thread how power and sex are related but nobody responded to it although it was gold. Too complicated I guess.

@LordFall so how much do you make per month right now

My focus is myself too. Though I'm not that materialistic as you. Just having 1 family with a semi sane girl is more than enough for me. Just raising one child is already very stressful and sacrifcial for our health. No way I'm sacrifcing my health to spawn 10 brats in the age of AI.

It is true that women have high expectations compared to the past but they are not offering more compared to the past. If I have to go to hell and back to become the top 10% of men to get a top shelf hot girl, I'm not settling down. I will play the field as the alpha guys are doing. This development will cause a demographic crises though.

People run into trouble with getting a partner because they load too much meaning and expectation onto a relationship and end up alone. There are not even that many guys with great wisdom around me. So me expecting that from a girl is just not realistic. It is like expecting a chick with a dick. It is not natural. I prefer natural. There are girls with great wisdom but they suffered a lot. Great wisdom comes with great suffering but that comes with a mixbag of emotional baggage and such. That is not my thing.

I could have told you this 6 months ago and you wouldn't have listened. So you just had to experience this and you will keep experiecing this. The only way out is if you start dating a much much older lady.

Amazing world class guy isn’t he

We have to switch back to boomer jokes so we are understood.

That says more about you than Ulax. But I’m going to dial back on the sarcasm. Tier 3 jokes aren’t registered on this forum.

@Schizophonia it is called sarcasm. 🤦🏾

Good job mogging these tier 1 peasants. No need to force feed them pearls.

Most of the members on this forum are in the pre rational band. Almost nobody is tier 2 construct aware. That is why every topic gets bogged down with minute things. So I totally understand Ulax’s frustration.

well you said you have evidence so I was curious but the video I posted is no evidence. Orion just shares is personal opinion. And secondly that is not how logic works especially if you use a false dichotomy like that. So that is why I was curious about your evidence but apparently you don´t have any.

only if you provide evidence that claimed to have

no I mean you made two statements and then made a conclusion saying the evidence pointed towards it, so where is the evidence..............

so where is the evidence...

the irony is that he calls other people fat in a derogatory way which is hurtful but at the same time he can´t handle a light hearted comment with dummy in it

@Lyubov I don´t get where does obsession with fat comes from. Some of my friends who have trouble with getting a date through apps are not fat but the only matches they get is with fat women. By the way why do you use fat as an insult 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I can be hurtful for some people. Please mind your words

The point is that looks for men have become more important compared to those old times you dummy

It is a hard pill to swallow for ugly guys that looks do matter although it is not everything. I would say Owen Cook milks this situation as much by telling guys looks don´t matter while they do. Everybody is trying to milk guys one way or another. And from my experience you don´t even have to look that good. If you have average face, height and muscles you are ok. One doesn´t need plastic surgery or whatever. But it is totally understandable for guys who do it. A sad matriarchal world we live in. I don´t do online apps but if I would I would probably get depressed by the results. On those dating apps I can get a 4/5 while in real life I can get 8/9. Yesterday I had a 9 come over but I had to go to hell to win her over. On those apps if you look good you just say come over and they come over. That is what I understood from a typical good looking friend. I have friends who are ugly and good looking on the dating apps. Ugly ones get a date every couple of months with girls they don´t like. While the good looking ones get drowned in optionality. And women just put out on the first date to just get a chance with them.

Probably the best advice is to just be social and not aim for sex, because if you can't be social, you are probably weird because you are aiming too much to get something from her. They are focused on the wrong things. This is the consistent pattern with incels. I have couple of incel friends so I know their inner world. Can't tell a thristy man to stop being thristy. You just have to let him be and suffer. The other day I invted a friend, I invited him to go the beach but he didn't want to go because he hadn't shaved his back. I said nobody cares. But he cared because he wants to get a gf. This guy is bald and can't hold a conversation but he thinks shaving his back will get him a gf. He never had a gf. This shallow mindset is much more off putting than any body hair. But no way he gets it. Some people are just not meant to breed: 3/5 (60%) of all men did not reproduce, meaning only about 2/5 (40%) passed on their genes. By contrast, roughly 4/5 (80%) of all women successfully reproduced, resulting in modern humans being descended from twice as many unique female ancestors as male ancestors. Historcally most males didn't breed. And nature has good reasons for this.

When you need water , the right thing to do is not ignore your thirst because it will make things only worse. Getting a good job and such won’t get you a girl either. You just need somebody to show you where the water is. Because you have a lot of false beliefs about it.

@LordFall people who make those pics don't understand emotional intelligence and social intelligence tbh. Social intel builds upon emotiona intel. That is true. But purely stylistically social intelligence involves other people while emotional intelligence doesn't. And we were talking about picking the right partner which involves social intelligence. I think Brad missed that skill.

Emotional intelligence is an internal skill to regulate your body-mind and emotions in particular. Picking the right partner is more a social/cognitive skill. I.e dating people, take lessons out of it, changing mindset, chosing different kind of women to date. That is how I see it. I'm not looking for a long term relationship but I would I would fed for very specific things.

I already told you but you are not reading. He chose the wrong women.