AION

Having different kind of persona is as important as being authentic. I compare authenticity to being naked. Especially if you just know each other being too authentic is not savvy. Authenticity is only sweet if it is a slow tease.

But I mean if a girl is a 4/10 and she starts becoming more selective. That doesn't mean she now deserves guys that is a 6/10. But a lot of women believe that. And that is why there are so many single women out there. And thus 40% of women will be childless by 2040. I don't think that is a good thing though. People are pricing themselves out of the dating market. Because they all think they deserve the best. And although I wish that for them too, it is not realistic. Making a deal is also about compromise and I'm not reading that back in your message. Usually I skip women that are too selective. Because it only tells me she has been around the block. And I have to carry the emotional baggage of her past mistakes. But if a girl is hot she can get away with it because she has such a big dating pool, she can just work the field to find a sucker. If a girl is hot and she is can get away with basically everything, I was dating this hot girl and she made me work for it. At the end I was just irritated because I knew she was a club girl and other guys smashed it on the first encounter and I had to go through 5 dates with her. At the end I didn't respect her. Because I had to pay 5x the price the other guys had to pay.

Palestinians got radicalized by Israeli terror after decades. I think we have to keep that into consideration. This one sided Israeli perspective is the reason why there is war.

It is difficult to say if it is "top" until people play it. I will be waiting until PC release. I can't do 30 fps. Too spoiled with my 5080 card.

Don't be weird man lmao. Women can be intrigued in the same way. But usually they need more time.

@Judy2 ok i understand

Same with movies. Or perhaps I'm getting old. They are mostly boring. No soul.

You sound like you are conflicted about him and that is what he senses. He definitely wants some sessions with you that is for sure.

Incel hissy fit hahah

Addicts can’t be helped with logic. They have to hit rock bottom and then rise like a phoenix.

Incel rage

No. Just female friends without benefits. They are older women so I wouldn’t even want that.

Ok big guy. You are the alpha man in this thread.

Of course. I have female friends. But hot girls don’t want to be friends with guys who seek reassurance all the time.

That is what I thought. Very cringe topic. Only when you stop asking these questions you get it. Because the seeking itself is the problem. I remember after my break up I stopped seeking and I got a lot more attention, then when I was trying to get attention and trying to jump through hoops. The guys who get laid a lot have their own hoops. They don’t jump through hoops so no need to ask

Relationship hurt is the biggest factor idd. I do get it though. Because relationship hurt calcifies me as a guy too. So I can´t imagine what it can do with women who are more sensitive. But one thing I noticed with these women is that they all adapt this I will be more selective in my selection of men thinking them being more judgemental towards men will also make them more valuable on the dating market. Only hot women can get away with this approach. For most women this approach is disastrous. Because most men will feel it in their bones that they have to pay a premium for the bad guys she did in her past.

Not just relationship. With age, life makes people harder too. It is harder to bond with such people.

you guys are taking these value models like spiral dynamics way out of proportion, it has only partly to do with it, mostly it has to do with her age.. after 25 she will start to calcify after all of those pumps and dumps so she will become more masculine in her personality. the best is to catch a girl between 20-25 age range , that will give you a good shot for a long term relationship. higher age ranges can be possible but be ready for a world of hurt

how much you paid him though? ralston doesn't come cheap

You know what I mean.

Polygamy works for men. It doesn't work for women. But most women would rather choose a high quality men and just be a side chick rather than be a monogamous girl for low a quality man. I think a lot of women already into polygamy but they just don't label it like that. Especially on those dating apps. Low quality men which is a substantial part of society can't get into polygamy even if they wanted. Polygamy is only for high quality men.

That is true. But I’m trying new interaction styles with strangers too. Since I won’t be seeing them again anyway.

The bar is so low. I’m just happy I found couple of good therapists who just care and are okish in terms of competence. Finding a therapist who is into psychedelics is like finding a needle in a haystack. I don’t have the energy to go to 10 therapists right now.

Microdose is ok. Nothing weird can happen. I also don’t use my car or anything. Sometimes I also like to microdose lsd when going out. I did it during my trip to Barcelona and it lead to some lovely adventures. In real life I can be walled off from strangers. LSD takes that away. But it is good to have some friends around if you are doing it although I wouldn’t need it because I can fend for myself. It is more for emotional co-regulation.