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Jung is more complex because reality is complex. In my opinion Freud is too simplistic and boils everything down to his perversions. For example Oedipus complex is widely discredited. At least Carl Jung has stuff like archetypes which is still being used today. Think of models like Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) which is practical and useful. And his insights on the unconscious is undisputed. He is still being referenced in modern books. Both Freud and Jung offer interesting lenses but Freud's level is basically kindergarten level stuck at the level of the penis and the vagina. I don't see anything holistic about that unless you are watching a 3d porn or something. Archetypes on that other hand do a good job of charting the psyche.

You don't need to be a super model looking guy but you need to check the bare minimum and that make it up with charisma, good vibes and emotional connection. So that is what you are offering to her but what is equally important is how you sell yourself to her. You don't want to actively sell yourself because that screams desperation. You want to be like Apple, have a good product (which is a well groomed you) and let the selling do itself. Most guys push themselves onto the girl which is disgusting from her point of view. Imagine going to the Apple store and the employees trying to push you to buy shit. You would walk away and that is what she does. But if you stay pleasant, charming, make some jokes, do a wink and a nod, you will have a much better chance with no pressure and just allow her to play with the knobs. That is refreshing for her because most guys are just pushy and desperate.

in what way not holistic enough?

Being stuck on Freud is like being stuck on Windows 97 while there is Windows Vista, 10 and 11. I know quite some people who are obsessed with Freud and when I talk to them I was struck that they only know Freud style stuff. Nothing about Jung, Neo Jungians or modern psychology. When I was talking about up to date psychology they looked at me like I was talking in a language they didn’t understand and they were actively blocking it mentally. Most of these people have some of the fetishes Freud had but the thing is that it is true for this group of people. Not true in general for all humans.

Freud is the founder of modern psychology. He opened the doors to the psyche. So knowing his stuff has some value because he got influenced by esoteric spirituality like Kundalini (sexual power) but it is wrong to be stuck with his paradigms. Even his student Jung was in odds with Freud. It is time you level up to Jung and beyond and not be stuck in the penis and pussy paradigm. For example Jung’s red book has so much depth. Very few can even phantom his work is so astronomical. They simply lack the processing powering to understand it.

@OBEler @AION I switch them up

You don't need to be famous for girls to chase you. You basically have to master the skill of bread crumbing aka understand the nature of desire.

I'm looking for a multi week or multi month program that teaches meditation in a structured way. I'm doing Kriya right now but it is not structured. There is integral meditation by Wilber which I will be looking to soon. Any other recommendations?

@TheSelf I think there is value in a program/plan, otherwise it is like going to a new country and walking in circles, while there might be experts who know all the good places

You need to get laid haha

Enlightenment doesn't have to do anything with transformation. Ralston is very clear on this. Enlightenment and transformation are two different things. Enlightenment has to do with perception and having a good perception doesn't mean you have good technical skills to defend yourself although the former can enhance the latter. Avoidance is not the right way to deal with low LOC people since they are everywhere anyway. One must advance in psychological warfare and frame control. I'm very capable of this because I had to deal with difficult people all my life. It is better to have this skill and not need it than not have it and need it because you will need it unless you live in a deserted place or something

Only when you don't have those things you value them so for me it would be a great detox to go into the jungle. But when mongrels start interfering with my natural diet I wouldn't go well on that. I need latina meat.

The ironic thing would be that most of the people there would hate Elon. Seems like you are living your life which is good. I'm wondering how long you can hold it out over there. I would go crazy without animal protein though and start chewing on some mammal and I would be evicted from there lol.

If you don't care she doesn't care. Women are very simple creatures once you understand they are mammal brained.

A girl doesn't know your size until she has already chosen you so I'm not really following. Unless at your place it is normal for the girl to pull down your pants to see your size before she starts dating you.

Although the whole calorie counting has some validity. It is discounted a very long time ago. And yet people are still preaching it. It is so sad because the info is all out there but people still cling to old paradigms and doctrines. We are truly living in the dark ages. https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/stop-counting-calories Metabolism is much more important. I have very high calorie intake but I never gain weight because I only eat whole foods. If I have a craving for fatty food, I just make myself a dish with extra virgin olive oil. It is so satiating, that I don't even look in the direction of unhealthy foods.

Just go to a bar and don’t talk about Freudian psychology 😝

It is only the beginning

If you expect your gf to be a philosopher you will only get suffering. Just limit your expectations to the romantic sphere.

Income tax in most EU countries is like 37%. And in a lot of countries it even lower. It is not astronomically different compared to the US. Only if you earn a lot you have to pay more tax like 55% as a top earner. But you can also go to Somalia and pay 0% tax. The EU provides an excellent market. So it makes sense you don’t just leech of the people and not give anything back to the community. Only high income people are taxed way higher but they get other benefits to get a certain part of their tax money back. The US kind of shitty if you a middle-lower class. Awful workers rights and work ethics. You work and still be homeless lmao.

It boils down to your brain waves. When you sleep your brain waves slow down and if your brain is not slowing down you will get shallow sleep. Look into proven methods that slow down your brain waves like certain breathing techniques, playing with your optimal sleeping time, meditation before sleep, etc. Other things you might want to try: play with temperature, air quality through air purifiers, humidifiers or dehumidifiers. Recently I bought an air purifier and that helped me a lot. Even though my air was already clean there is always some dust mites or something.

It is still important to be able to talk but when people can't hear, the why (you say it) and the how (you say it) gets more important than what you say. When you are talking to a real baby, what you say is not so important but how and why you say it is more important because the kid will understand if you do it from a loving place or not. In the nightclub the same dynamic is at play. It is better to say gibberish as long as you aren't a total fool or insulting but from a "heartful" place and people will respond better to that and you will make real connection instead going the rout of trying to fit in which won't work because women don't want to be babysitters, they want to be sat. Nightclubs are like sandboxes where you can try out these kind of stuff.

It is funny because the music is so loud it is hard to understand each other. But on the other hand what you say is the least important anyway.

Osho's teaching is so simplistic and uniform. It is almost art. It is the Macbook of spirituality with its good, bad and ugly.

Comments like that shouldn't be taken serious. Just imagine saying that with a straight face.