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I was joking too 🤣 but what I'm trying to say is that it is easy to judge a person, I rather try to understand him. Owen eats 5 star meat everyday. For him to go to a normal meal is very difficult. If I was him I would do the same. He has seen too much. And almost no girl is worth that sacrifice nowadays.

Some women can be snakes. In fact I could say that most women are focused on survival, and a lead by their emotions and they will go beyond human decency to get theirs. Just look what happens in an average divorce. It is vicious. This forum lives in a bubble with their heads in the clouds (cloud 9). Most of the women that Owen dates wouldn't touch most of the guys with a pole but even if they gave these spiritual guys a chance, those women would rip those spiritual guys a new one. lmao. Owen Cook's advice is for the regular guy that falls in love with the regular woman.

What you guys don't get is that Owen Cook fishes in a different pool than you guys lol

Behind that soft spoken voice, there is a female version of Tate🤣

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Conflict is not necessary bad. Most of the tech we use today is thanks to the military. And we wouldn´t have the economic prosperity without war. It is an interesting take. I would also add that war is executing Darwin´s law at mass. Because usually the dumb people die first in a war and lesser civilizations make room for better ones. If one hand of God is benevolent, another hand is a destroyer so it make room for the new.

When you are a doctor you have to keep holding the frame of being a doctor. Same counts for any profession. Is holding frame difficult? Yes it is but that is your job. As a girl you are allowed not to hold frame and just "tuck it in" but as a guy you aren't allowed to tuck it in aka act like a girl. Especially in the beginning of a relationship and if a girl is very high value with a lot of options, even later you are not allowed to tuck it in. By the way, holding frame is not difficult, and it is allowed to drop the frame, it is more about how quickly you can recover from it. I did extended research on frame control and I tested out my research in the field. So holding frame is very diffrent for a man versus a women.

Frame is another word for confidence which is another word is that you are rooted in reality, and not easily shaken by reality. So what Owen is saying you shouldn't be a loser. Because if you are with a valuable girl most likely she will leave you after you get broke and she has options.And that is what happening to a lot of guys after they lose their job, or some other disaster. But the thing is that I have friends with no jobs and they can still get girls so it is not about holding jobs or not taking L's but about regardless keeping frame. That is why it is the master key.

There is no unified group called 9's and 10's with fixed attributes like high maintaince and such. Some hot girls I know are very low maintaince. It is also when you catch them. When they are in their prime like 16-21 they are on hypergamy on the max. But after a while they get worn out by 24 or something and you have a good chance of landing them. I dated one 10 while I"m not a Don Jon myself. It was because I caught her at the right time and we had a connection. On general I agree with Owen. Frame is the master key. And even after you are married you need to keep frame in the same way you need to go to the gym. Women are very sensitive to frame. I did a lot of research and experimentation on this. They can basically read your mind. But you need a strong mind to pull it off. For example just for shits and giggles I had the frame that I was better than any girl at this venue and I didn't need to say anytihng. Women would just pick it up. Some would be insulted without me opening my mouth. While others would like it. I'm not saying you should hold that frame but I'm just saying how powerful frame is because all is mind. I'm kind of surprised a forum like this doesn't get this.

war is extension of diplomacy

Hahaha love

Because most people think like you most marriages fail or are horrible to be in. Most people stay together for the kids or finances. Otherwise divorce rate would be like 80%.

What is your longest relationship? I think short term relationships don’t need that much frame control because of hormones but in long term relationships frame is the only thing that holds the relationship. Either that or she must be depended on finances or something.

If you would put spiritual people on an island without non spiritual people, you would get a slaughter house is no time. Almost all spiritual people have suppressed parts that would come out. I look very lowly towards the average spiritual person.

One doesn’t need to be poor to be spiritual. It is all about the mindset of abundance. And that abundance flows out to his friends and girlfriends. Being a bum doesn’t make one spiritual. I rather hang out with rich people than poor. Poor people are stingy and have a heavy vibe.

If I have to go to hell and back to get a above average girl, I wouldn't settle down. I would be like Owen Cook playing the field. Dating is value for value. And men are allowed to set standards too. If Owen doesn't want to settle down that is his privilege.

Another awakening. There is no difference between your hand and some punani

I’m not going to catch a bullet for these women. And men who are willing to do that while they hate us to the bone are dumb as fuck. Dating culture change all the time. And we can’t roll back the changes. The problem is that men need to change too. Men are too naive about dating. I see a lot of men struggling. And nobody cares about them because they don’t have the right genitals. A friend of mine got divorced last month. She got half of his money and she is already with the next dude.

Not everybody is as excellent as you. Please give us a peak into your fabulous achievements.

I think Owen has a point. Back in the day you could hold an average girl attention and loyalty with the bare minimum. With the invention of social media and Tinder the game has changed. Most women are on cloud 9 in terms of expectations versus what they deliver. There are still some girls who aren’t ruined by feminism(female egoism) and the toxic dating culture. Especially in western style environments.

That there is no structure to the Self is preposterous. It is like cavemen looking at the sky and seeing galaxies and saying "look at that chaos, there is no structure in the galaxy". There is order in chaos. If there wasn't you would just be a pile of shit. In the same way consciousness is not like a pile of shit without order. There is a self organizing principle of consciousness. That is why you see everything evolving. If it was just all chaos, things would stay the same.

Ralston needs to work on his cover art or hire somebody to do it. It always looks like it is made in paint.

I always read ebook format anyway. I put the epub on my ereader and upload the epub to ElevenReader text to voice so I get both visual and sound. It is much more immersive that way.

First you create attraction which is the container of the relationship and after that can show emotion. So first attraction which produces respect from her to you, and then you show vulnerability. So if you are a low quality unattractive men and you show vulnerability, you are better off farting in her face. But on the other hand, if she is attracted to you, you can get away with a fart. That is why if a guy falls in love before a girl is attracted to the guy, it is a major turn off. Obviously you can show vulnerability but only to the porportion to her attraction to you.

He is so right about not listening to his books. His books are so dense. One needs full undivided attetnion. He is the only spiritual teacher I know of that my brain has to go in deep think mode.