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@Hojo somebody else put it as: when you let go of illusions of I, I am remains

Video about principle 2 which is intention: it explains the importance of this pivotal principle. He explains why conversations get boring. It is basically because the guy doesn't stand tall but just meanders around like a limp dick. His proposed solutions: don't just talk to talk Lead the interaction: take control, be the cause of the vibe instead being at the effect of the vibe, no hesitation, always lead the interaction and location Spike energy: cause emotional spike, no logic or interview questions; first 30 second should cause an emotional reaction ( ask a weird opinion opener) Express intention: she has to be sure that you have interests, (say who are you? I love you), it has to be shallow interest and not too deep to quick. This fixes to frame to romantic instead of interview mode.

Principe 1 presence (being non reactive) and principle 2 intention (being at the cause, not effect of life) in flesh and blood: Mind you that these 5 principles are principles to be embodied. Especially principle 1 and 2 might seem very simple but these are meta skills that can be applied to every part of your life. Principle 1 is all about being centered in yourself, being non reactive to life aka not being a victim. And only when you are non reactive and have have non free working memory (mental bandwidth) you can go from being a victim of life/dating to a killer in life. That is why it is important to find people walked the path you walked. If you had a hard knock life you need to find a role model who exp the same thing and overcame it to tap in his energy. Somebody who had an easy life will never understand people who had a difficult life because their mind is just too feeble. Nor should you try to be understood. The path is individual.

@Aaron p @Hojohow do you know it is God when you have a direct exp? Perhaps it is just your delusion.

@Yimpa perhaps Santa Claus exists? How do you know he doesn't exist? Actually he was a real historical person who lived at the Aegean sea lol. God has 1001 faces so which one do you worship?

Talking about actualized works for you because it is you. At the end you have to do you. Unapologetically. If I started talking about spirituality I would get self conscious and it wouldn’t work.

Pro tip : don’t talk about this thread

Estimations Based on Current AI Progress: AGI (Human-Level Intelligence): Experts estimate AGI could emerge between 2030-2060, with optimists thinking it could happen within 10-20 years. ASI (Superintelligence like Her): The AI in Her surpasses human intelligence and evolves beyond human understanding. This could take several decades after AGI, possibly by 2070-2100 or even later. Emotional & Social Intelligence: Current AI struggles with emotional nuance, but advancements in deep learning, psychology integration, and neuroscience-inspired computing could lead to significant progress by 2040-2050.

The prime driving force of humans is sex and reproduction. If all females got infertile because of a disease or something that would destroy civilization. Because Leo doesn’t want to reproduce he has this blind spot in his understanding of the human psyche.

Perhaps there are exceptions of the rule of power but if you look closely at the richest guys they were all chasing that good good. Even that Facebook guy that comes to my mind lol. Sexual creation is the driving force for sentient beings.

I’m not in the business of truth when dealing with people. And nobody is. At least I’m honest about it while others are pretending.

This forum is not interested in truth that is why I won’t post anything related to that topic. I have many more insights but I’m not goig to feed pearls to pigs.

He was managing only fans accounts. What Nietsche says Tate says the same way but without considering people’s emotions .. he cares about truth but the truth has a price the thing is if I was a top G and had my money and mansions I would be saying these stuff too but I’m not there so I need to play these stupid social games to get in a girl’s pants 😭

And it is not about money either. Some mofos can have 10k in their pocket and wouldn’t be able to get laid in a whore house night club.

Andrew Tate said the same thing but when he says it, everybody’s busting his balls. It is not men who want power. They just want pussy. Females want men with personal power and that is why men want to get powerful.

For me it is meh too. AI doesn’t have emotions so it feels weird to get emotional support from it. It feels weird.

There is a much better AI

If you want to go deeper into principle 2; intention, I recommend you look into the cause and effect principle and effecting the cause. Joe Dispenza goes into this Short form: Long form:

Most important one is presence aka being non reactive. Just practicing this one is a handful. These principles should be exercises in isolation and then put together with the other ones because they are holons. Each principle is part of another one but presence (consciousness which is the opposite of being in a deep state) is the fertile ground.

Most humans including myself are disappointing so I rather trust an AI to teach me something like a language or marketing or programming. I don’t get how that would rot my brain. I live in one of the wealthiest countries in the world and medical help and especially psychological help is very dire. Most of them do the job for the money and they don’t have the zest and cunningness to do the job. I mean I’m just expecting the bare minimum and I get disappointed. AI helped me more than most therapists. Most therapists get their degree and stop studying their field. It is disgusting.

A book will be something from the past. Books are very one dimensional. AI learning through an AI coach will be the future. This won’t happen in one swoop but the trend and transition is clear. Books will exist just like how mechanical watches exist. Just a figment of the past. For example language learning through AI is already superior than just learning it from a book. Or I’m improving my articulation through AI. It works great. Especially the young people will prefer these methods. Children who solely grow up with AI, which will be children who are born now, will be something else.

The 5 principles are: Presence Intention Collaboration frame Entitlement Self-entertainment My previous post was about power of intention and power of presence. These two principles are meta skills and can be used in every aspect of your lives. The latter 3 are social skills (frame, entitlement, self entertainment) can be used in dating, socializing, work, business, etc. These posts do contain my own interpretation + additions. === Strength of Reality & Collaborative Framing in Social Dynamics** --- ### **Foundational Philosophy: The Sun vs. Black Hole Principle** At the core of this framework lies the metaphor of the **"sun"** versus the **"black hole"**: - **The Sun**: Radiates energy unconditionally, symbolizing collaboration, generosity, and abundance. This is a state of unconditional love, selflessness, and spiritual alignment. High-LOC interactions prioritize *synergy*—where collective energy creates exponential returns. - **The Black Hole**: Absorbs energy through neediness, competition, and validation-seeking. This reflects low-LOC states (30–175), marked by fear, insecurity, and transactional mindsets. The goal is to embody the sun’s energy: **giving without expectation, leading without controlling, and attracting through authenticity**. --- ### **I. Collaborative Frame vs. Competitive Frame** #### **1. The Collaborative Mindset** - **Definition**: A win-win paradigm where interactions focus on mutual growth, shared joy, and collective elevation. - **Mechanics**: - **Synergy**: Energy multiplies when both parties contribute (e.g., laughter, storytelling, shared experiences). - **Non-Attachment**: Detach from outcomes (e.g., phone numbers, sex, approval). Focus on the process, not the prize. - **Group Consciousness**: Prioritize "we" over "I." Example: In a nightclub, become part of the venue’s energy rather than competing for attention. - **Etymology**: The word "collaboration" (Latin *collaborare*) means "to labor together," emphasizing unity over rivalry. #### **2. The Competitive Mindset** - **Definition**: A zero-sum game where interactions are transactional, rooted in scarcity and ego. - **Pitfalls**: - **Energy Drain**: Competing for validation creates fatigue (e.g., decision fatigue, persona fatigue). - **RAS Negativity**: The Reticular Activating System (RAS) fixates on lack, amplifying insecurities. - **Etymology**: "Competition" (Latin *competere*) originally meant "to strive together," but modern usage implies rivalry. #### **3. Transitioning from Competition to Collaboration** - **Exercise**: 1. **Scream Test**: Yell, "We’re sharing!" (feel uplifted) vs. "I’m going to win!" (feel tense). Notice the physiological difference. 2. **Nightclub Drill**: Enter a venue with the intent to *give* (compliment strangers, buy a drink for the group) rather than *take*. 3. **Teasing as Bonding**: Playfully challenge others without triggering insecurities (e.g., "You’re from France? I don’t trust people who eat snails"). --- ### **II. Inner Game vs. Outer Game** #### **1. Inner Game: The Core of Authenticity** - **Principles**: - **Self-Validation**: Ground confidence in intrinsic worth, not external feedback. - **Presence**: Stay in your body, not your head. Use breathwork to anchor yourself (e.g., 4-7-8 breathing). - **Growth Mindset**: Carol Dweck’s concept—view identity as dynamic ("I am learning") rather than fixed ("I am a loser"). - **Exercises**: - **Mirror Work**: Daily affirmations (e.g., "I am enough") to rewire self-perception. - **Meditation**: Vipassana or mindfulness to dissolve egoic attachments. #### **2. Outer Game: Tactical Social Mastery** - **Key Tactics**: - **Framing**: - **Town Square Frame**: Be the social hub (e.g., introduce strangers, lead group conversations). - **Orgy Frame**: Create playful, flirtatious energy without explicit intent (e.g., dancing freely, light touch). - **Vocal Tonality**: - **Staccato**: Sharp, punctuated delivery for assertiveness. - **Shotgun**: Rapid, energetic speech to project enthusiasm. - **Stretch**: Exaggerated pauses and pitch shifts for dramatic effect. - **Openers**: - **Observational**: "That drink looks dangerous—are you plotting something?" - **Opinion-Based**: "Help me settle a debate: Is pineapple on pizza a crime?" #### **3. Balancing Inner and Outer Game** - **Rule**: Outer game amplifies inner congruence. If tactics feel forced, return to inner work. - **Example**: A rehearsed joke (outer game) falls flat unless delivered with relaxed eye contact and playful intent (inner game). --- ### **III. Power vs. Force: The Energy Dynamics** #### **1. Power: The Wind in Your Sails** - **Characteristics**: - Effortless influence. - Aligned with collaborative energy (LOC500). - Rooted in *being* rather than *doing*. - **Metaphor**: Sailing—harnessing natural forces (e.g., charisma, social momentum) to move forward. #### **2. Force: The Oars of Struggle** - **Characteristics**: - Ego-driven effort (e.g., over-investing, outcome fixation). - Drains energy and invites resistance. - **Metaphor**: Rowing—exhausting labor against currents (e.g., chasing unresponsive people). #### **3. Cultivating Power** - **Exercises**: 1. **Self-Entitlement Drill**: Walk into a room thinking, "These people are lucky to meet me." Note how posture and eye contact shift. 2. **Energy Gifting**: Compliment 10 strangers daily without expecting reciprocation. 3. **Frame Anchoring**: Repeat mantras like, "I am the prize" during stressful interactions and walk like it.. --- ### **IV. Frame Control & Reality Strength** #### **1. Building an Unshakable Frame** - **Components**: - **Abundance**: Trust opportunities are infinite (e.g., "There are millions of potential partners"). - **Certainty**: Project unapologetic self-belief (e.g., "This is who I am—take it or leave it"). - **Non-Reactivity**: Stay calm under social pressure (e.g., smirk at insults instead of retaliating). - **Advanced Drill**: "The Iron Wall" - Stand motionless in a crowded space, maintaining relaxed eye contact. Observe how others subconsciously yield to your presence. #### **2. Breaking Others’ Frames** - **Techniques**: - **Agree & Amplify**: "You’re right—I’m definitely a serial killer. Want to be my next victim?" - **Misdirection**: Respond to a challenge with a non-sequitur (e.g., "Your earrings remind me of my grandma’s parakeet"). - **Silent Dominance**: Pause for 5–7 seconds after a provocative statement, forcing them to fill the void. #### **3. The RAS (Reticular Activating System) Hack** - **Principle**: Your focus determines reality. Train your RAS to spot opportunities: - **Daily Practice**: List 3 things you’re grateful for every morning. - **Social Reframe**: View rejection as a filter ("They saved me time") rather than a failure. --- ### **V. Overcoming Neediness & Sunk Cost Fallacy** #### **1. The Anatomy of Neediness** - **Root Causes**: - Scarcity mindset ("This is my only chance"). - Over-identification with outcomes ("If she rejects me, I’m worthless"). - Low self-worth ("I need them to validate me"). - **Antidotes**: - **Abbundance Journaling**: Document past successes to remind yourself of infinite options. - **The 3-Second Rule**: Approach within 3 seconds of seeing someone to bypass overthinking. #### **2. Sunk Cost Fallacy in Relationships** - **Definition**: Continuing to invest in unfulfilling relationships due to past effort. - **Solution**: - **Opportunity Cost Audit**: Ask, "What could I achieve with this time/energy instead?" - **The Poker Mindset**: Fold early. Save resources for high-potential connections. #### **3. The "Sacrifice the Queen" Principle** - **Origin**: Chess strategy—sacrificing a powerful piece to protect the king (long-term victory). - **Application**: Walk away from draining relationships to preserve self-respect and energy. --- ### **VI. Advanced Social Dynamics** #### **1. State Transference** - **Law**: Your emotional state subconsciously influences others. - **Exercises**: - **The Rock Drill**: Adopt Dwayne Johnson’s confident stride and smile for 10 minutes. Notice shifts in others’ reactions. - **Vocal Mirroring**: Match someone’s tone/pitch, then gradually lead them to a calmer state. #### **2. Social Proof & Pre-Selection** - **Tactics**: - **The Wingman Effect**: Arrive with a mixed-gender group to signal social value. - **Pre-Selection Cues**: Mention past relationships casually ("My ex loved this place"). #### **3. The Winner Effect** - **Neuroscience**: Success increases testosterone and dopamine, creating a confidence loop. - **Hack**: Stack micro-wins (e.g., successful small talk) to build momentum. --- ### **VII. Psychological & Spiritual Foundations** #### **1. Heart Chakra Alignment** - **LOC500**: A consciousness level associated with selfless love (per David Hawkins’ *Power vs. Force*). - **Heart Chakra**: The first "selfless" energy center. - **Activation**: Visualize green light radiating from your chest during interactions. #### **2. Trauma & Shadow Work** - **Self-Love Deficit Disorder**: Rooted in childhood neglect (per Ross Rosenberg). - **Healing**: - **Inner Child Work**: Write letters to your younger self. - **Boundary Setting**: Practice saying "no" to low-value requests. #### **3. The Joke of Life** - **Philosophy**: View life as a cosmic joke to dissolve insecurity (per RSD Tyler). - **Exercise**: Laugh at past rejections. Ask, "How will this matter in 5 years?" --- ### **VIII. Long-Term Mastery: Systems & Lifestyle** #### **1. Social Momentum Systems** - **Daily Habits**: - **Social Pushups**: Talk to 3 strangers daily. - **Vibe Journaling**: Track interactions and energy levels. - **Weekly Rituals**: - **Tribe Building**: Host dinners or game nights to cultivate community. #### **2. The Alpha Ecosystem** - **Components**: - **Health**: Exercise, nutrition, and sleep for peak energy. - **Purpose**: A mission beyond dating (e.g., art, business, activism). - **Financial Abundance**: Build wealth to reduce outcome dependence. #### **3. Legacy Mindset** - **Principle**: Focus on impact, not validation. - **Exercise**: Write your eulogy. How do you want to be remembered? --- ### **Conclusion: The Path to Sovereign Social Mastery** The **Strength of Reality** framework transcends pickup artistry—it’s a blueprint for **authentic living**. By anchoring in collaboration, self-worth, and spiritual alignment, you become a magnetic force in all areas of life. Embody the sun. Radiate. Let the universe conspire in your favor.

If you give Tolle or Ralston books to a deep SD orange person it will go above their head. Same way Wilber will be gibberish to most people on this forum.

Suffering

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