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Middle class is being fucked over in the Netherlands. You either have to be upper middle class or upper class or the lower class to get the benefit. If you have your own business it works fine too. Business owners get a lot of social and tax benefits.

@SwiftQuill look into the book whole brain child, to balance your brain and become less left brain. I also give coaching if you are interested.

What most guys don’t get because nobody told them about it; there is a social hierarchy. And women are very aware of this. If you hang out with losers you are one of them. I do hang out with them but they are not my equals and they know it. The only reason I do is because I want to give back, and when I teach another I grow myself too. To get girls in a nut shell is that you have to frame or position yourself and socially higher than her. But these nice guys put girls on a pedestal and they immediately get disqualified. They need to work on themselves and build their self esteem by transmuting jealousy, fear and other emotions they have into productivity.

I’m not nice to them. Surprisingly being mean to them works much better. Just insanely better. Important to keep your boundaries with nice guys. They are not nice usually. And they don’t understand things like value for value.

You don’t deal with those men, nor is it your responsibility. At some point, you have to accept that not everyone is on the same path as you. Some people are stuck in cycles of self-sabotage, victim mentality, or pure laziness and no amount of outside advice will change them unless they have the internal drive to grow. You can’t force someone to wake up, take responsibility, or improve themselves. That spark has to come from within. Your only real duty is to live your life, focus on your own growth, and walk the path of individuation becoming the strongest, most authentic version of yourself. If people around you are inspired by that, great. If not, that’s not your problem. Trying to "save" or "fix" others is usually a waste of time. Most men don’t change because of lectures; they change because life forces them to, or because they see someone living in a way they admire and start mimicking it subconsciously. I have a friend group that practically worships me. They pay for everything when we go out, constantly ask me to hang out, and openly say they see me as their role model. Honestly, I don’t even try to be that for them it’s just how they perceive me because I live by my own rules, make my own decisions, and don’t get caught up in the usual nonsense most people do. But here’s the reality: most people don’t learn through deep discussions or logical arguments. They learn through osmosis...monkey see, monkey do. If you carry yourself with discipline, confidence, and purpose, weaker men will either resent you or try to copy you. The issue is, most men today have no real role models. Society attacks masculinity, the system trains them to be obedient, and most mainstream "success" influencers are just selling empty motivation. The closest thing to a role model for these lost men right now is Andrew Tate. Love him or hate him, he’s one of the few people speaking directly to the frustrations of modern men. Because of him, I started a business, got in shape, and fixed a lot of my mindset issues. He’s controversial, but he gets results and that’s why he resonates with so many. The problem? He’s toxic in a lot of ways, and most guys won’t be able to separate the good advice from the bad. They’ll either reject him completely (missing the useful lessons) or blindly follow everything he says (turning into arrogant clowns). Very few will take what works and leave the rest. At the end of the day, you can’t control how people see you or who they choose to follow. All you can do is lead by example. If they’re smart, they’ll learn from you. If not, that’s their problem, not yours. Focus on your own journey, and let others figure out theirs.

Wow. Emerald is totally unfolding in this thread. Her paradigm is being shattered. It is amazing how the vegan paradigm resembles other extremist paradigms.😣 It’s like watching someone cling to a crumbling worldview, not because it holds up under scrutiny, but because it’s part of their identity. And this is where it gets interesting: many people who follow strict ideologies, whether religious, political, or dietary, often build their entire sense of morality and superiority on them. It becomes less about truth and more about tribal allegiance. Veganism, for some, not all.. becomes a righteous cause, a moral badge, and when challenged, the reaction isn’t rational debate, it’s emotional defensiveness. Just like we see with religious fundamentalists or political ideologues. Emerald’s insistence on dismissing lived experiences and pushing “science says” arguments while cherry-picking studies or ignoring the limitations of nutritional science only reveals how shaky her foundation really is. You can feel the cognitive dissonance surfacing in her replies. She’s confronted with firsthand accounts that contradict her beliefs, and instead of curiosity or humility, she doubles down. This is classic behavior when a paradigm is under threat.😭 It’s also worth noting how diet is one of the last domains where people still feel morally justified in being controlling and judgmental toward others. If you disagree with someone’s spiritual beliefs, you’re supposed to respect it. But if you say you eat steak for breakfast and feel amazing? Suddenly, you’re a murderer, unethical, and deluded according to people like Emerald. There’s a deeper lesson here too: any belief system that cannot tolerate nuance or individual variation is bound to crumble. The carnivore diet, for all its controversy, is presenting undeniable results for many people. And the inability to engage with those results without spiraling into condescension or logical gymnastics says more about the rigidity of the person than the validity of the diet. Watching Emerald struggle is a mirror for all of us who’ve ever been too attached to an idea. But in this case, it also exposes how the “moral high ground” she stands on is really just a tower of sand. And the tragic comical part of it all is that she should know better because she gives shadow work workshops. 😰

People need to let go of the past to make amends. Otherwise there will be never ending bloodshed until one of the populations go extinct.

Palestinians literally sold their lands to Jews for money 😭.. they made their bed, now they have to lay in it. Israel is not going anyway any time soon so Arabs need to find a solution that includes the existence of Israel. I think most people in this thread underestimate how difficult SD red people are. You can’t reason with them.

It just came alive. Infinite potential ✨…

Palestinians are SD red and perhaps even lower. To deal with such neighbors like the Palestinians, one needs to speak their language that they understand so to say. Palestinians people can be snakes. They rebelled against the Ottomans to help the British and then got double crossed and their lands given away. Hard to have sympathy for such people (most pro Palestinian people would have a different opinion if they were the ones who were eating Hamas rockets everyday). Having said that Israel has gone too far. I’m not supporter of Israel and I wouldn’t care if it exist or not but for the Jews it is important. They don’t want to live in constant terror and if Hamas gets stronger that would be the case.

It is not that they love Israel and Jews. Their animosity for the brown man is just bigger.

This thread in a nutshell

It doesn’t matter how one calls it. I would call it influence. I discovered this with self respect. I started respecting myself more and other people who I knew and didn’t knew started respecting me more too. My conclusion was that the non-physical plane has an influence on the physical plane. Influence is not done by doing but by taking a position and holding. Especially women are very susceptible to frames. Men are kind of blind to it because our strength is in the physical. Real influence/manipulation is done in the non physical aka mind. And it is second nature to them. As an experiment, I once went to a store and I saw a woman there. I didn’t speak a word to her. And I convinced myself I was the shit and she was shit and she basically read my mind and she was insulted by it. I was like wtf. I didn’t even speak to her or acted in a certain way. The mind is very powerful.

When 3D meat comes out it won’t be vegan. It is just alive as a cow but it won’t have the sentience.

You already manipulate somebody just by being. People are too pig headed about manipulation. Everybody does it all the time without knowing and just by existing. If you go in a room and you have a certain frame, everybody will be influenced by it.