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I just want to share something here because this topic reminds me of some ppl in my past that I used to hang out with. I thought they were nice and friendly, and I thought they were good friends. But, one day, by mistake, I told them that I was moving to Country B. They called me all kinds of funny names including "Slum Dweller," for a whole month because by mistake, I told them a month early before I moved. I tried to explain that nothing bad was going to happen to me, and I've been there many times before, but they thought that I was only glorifying the place. In the end, I blocked them off of all social media. The point of why I said this is because, to me, I think that sometimes we get into relationships too quickly without knowing them very well. I'm not just talking about friendships; I'm also talking about intimate relationships. I want to say to just be friends for a while and not rush into a relationship. Don't let the other person pressure you into a relationship. It's worth the wait, for both friendships and intimate relationships. Maybe just be good acquaintances and ask them questions and communicate with them to understand them better. It's better to be single than get into the wrong relationships. Let their true colors show first. Let your true colors show first. Learn to be authentic, and learn to understand them authentically.

Sorry to hear this. I would just detach from him. Do my own thing and work on my life purpose. I would give it maybe a week without contacting him and see how he responds during that week. If he is obsessed and pissed, I would not respond with much. I would just say something like, "I'm busy. I don't have time to talk like that." The two of you don't live together, right? If not, this makes it easier. If this misunderstanding persists, you may want to eventually let him go.

@Elisabeth most ppl will not even bother with SD if you explain it to them. A lot of ppl are orange. So, for example, if you conduct a scientific experiment of their topic in science, they will understand. If you go above that, like how can science help the environment, they may lose interest. Maybe their goal in life at the moment is just to get a career at Genentech and possibly win a Nobel Peace Prize in science. You may want to try to find a way to reach out by finding a way to let science help the environment, for example. Or, you could do both--healthy orange (majority), healthy green (minority), and the percentages go lower in tier 2.

Let's say you wanted to incorporate your career, entrepreneurship, and non-duality in your life purpose. (You know that it is possible to do this, right?) And, you're a teacher by profession. If someone asks you, "what do you do for a living?" You don't have to say, "I'm planning to become an entrepreneur," and explain the full details. This will sound woo-woo for most ppl. Just say that you're planning to become a teacher. Let them respond first. If they ask you further questions, just say that you might do it online, and wait to see their reactions. Don't reveal everything at once.

@Nivsch here's a simple way of putting it: if a person is with multi-perspectives, this person will want to learn something new. He/she will think before responding and ask questions before responding when presented with something new. A person with one-sided or very few perspectives cannot detect what the other person is saying. He/she just use limited views to defend himself/herself.

@BlessedLion ok. So, be the man you want to be. No problem. Just remember, even alpha monkeys will not be alphas forever. They will one day be defeated by another stronger, younger, better looking alpha monkey. At least for human beings, we have more options than monkeys. Why not explore those options now rather than wait till you're older? Why learn the hard way like a monkey? Yes, I'm talking about improving and living a better life your way, but taking into account the consequences and responsibilities along the way.

Are you sure about these? If a baby is born, you know that it's a 24/7 job, right? If no one wants to help out, then are you ready to become a housewife?

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"Our job is to get the gamers to the top of that building so they could get a medal, and that's it!" That's what she said. She got straight to the point because it's not so hard to communicate something in orange. Ok, interesting. Even though this is stage orange, since everything is one, it reminds me of a plant: The individual embodied ego is supposed to be doing something in this lifetime, right? What's the point of living life anyway and going through it? Why go through this story? The next question is: why not? What's wrong with going through it and having some fun? I know there is an auspicious plant that grows in the Himalaya mountain range. You could write something down on its leaves, and it will last as long as the earth is alive, and if no one picks the leaves. (Although, you won't get a medal for this journey. Sorry, no material gains for you. The journey goes beyond this.) You just have to make the journey to the Himalayas. Nowadays, it's easier to make that journey. The question is, what are you going to write on its leaves? Hopefully, something profound and not shallow. Something that could help guide ppl. Something that everyone can learn from. I forgot the name of the plant. This journey was done in the past and in archaic times. It could be done now. Or, you could do the same thing in your life purpose, somehow/someway. How effectively are you going to communicate it? How many types of ppl can you reach? Then, of course, make the journey to the Himalayas, if you dare. You have to be careful sometimes--avalanche. Looks like getting medals (or material awards) are only halfway vista points: It's not the full journey, just like stage orange is only halfway.

How long do you want the relationship to last? For...life? If so, both will have to be adjusting in the topics and conversations. You will not be the same person when you're in your 20s, 40s, and above 65. Your interests will change. Be ready for that.

@Conscious life my favorite war movie to watch involves the samurai. One of the main characters in the movie, the leader of the samurai, has this personality. I asked myself, "if a person like that was real, he could adjust to any type of environment." This is the masculine, and it took place in an old time. Nowadays, the rules of survival changed. It's more equal and globalized, and more women friendly but not completely. But, I had second thoughts. The lead samurai could adjust to any type of environment in his own country during his time, but he may not be able to adjust if the world remained the same and did not globalize.

@Conscious life ok, you said you live in a third world country. Well, I used to too. So, if you noticed, it takes a team effort to survive, not just your individual strength. It's a combination. And, you know, I would say, watch out for this. If the country/environment that you live in starts to change and improve or if you move to a new country/environment, the rules of survival change. That gets to be a problem for the family/team because some or all of the family/team members still want to live in the old ways while you discover new ways. Sometimes, you have to learn how to communicate with your surroundings without telling them exactly what you're doing because they will not understand, unless you've already achieved it and show them, and only because they're interested. Most ppl will not be interested in what you're doing. They have their own problems to solve, even in first world countries. Most only see your problems from their perspectives.

I don't know if what I heard is totally true, but I heard that China has an increase of gays (and maybe LGBTs) born there, more than anywhere else in the world. Yes, they are 'in the closet.' I'm saying many of them, not all of them. I do agree that many in China are stuck in stage blue. I wonder what if gays were born in families who are politically affiliated? That does impact the thinking of individuals within the family. Looks like "nature" (God) does not want things to be homogeneous. You can't learn without the diversity and lessons. So, you (God) don't want to see yourself being destroyed by your own ego. You planned it out already in advance. They don't allow gay marriages in the mainland, of course. Taiwan is going in a different direction. Imagine being in a stuck stage blue family, and preferring sons over daughters, and having gay sons. What China is doing for this topic is not unusual to me. I heard they're doing worse. It makes me wonder if the rest of the world are doing the same thing, including first world countries. I'm guessing, probably. Big Brother. 1984.

Leo, there is something I got to say about this. This is a good topic actually. If a guy (or gal) really wants a relationship with someone in tier 2, that's fine, but I thought tier 2 looks more like this: (biege+purple+red)+blue+orange+green=tier 2. And, you said in your SD clip that you can't just skip stages. When you said this, it made complete sense to me. Every stage is profound and has something to offer. Just don't get obsessed and stuck in it. If you do that, then it's a lot of trouble. For instance, orange has entrepreneurship to offer. But, a person stuck in orange will turn this into a negative, like, for example, be obsessed with money. A person stuck in blue or green can't see entrepreneurship as a benefit. Even in green, if they are stuck, they will pass off passive income as laziness and as taking advantage of others with your wealth and "power," even though they have a laid back/friendly personality. You cannot go into certain topics with stuck ppl. They will find 101 excuses to think you're trying to be like Trump. In other words, sure, she may understand that you're God, but if she skips, she may not understand how to get out of the rat race and be self-made, and include your (or her) journey to God along with it. And also, skipping stage blue may be a lack of healthy boundaries. One day she tells you, "I love this guy too. I've decided to become polyamorous. Please be open-minded and accept this!" Are you going to accept? You cannot just pass off a basic stage like blue as rigid and dogma, and jump into orange. So many factors, Leo.

The people who are denied enlightenment, they're the ones who get it.

This auspicious flower could be a pointer of awakening/enlightenment: It's native of the Himalayas. The Hindus call it Brahma Kamal Flower. Brahma = God of all the Gods, creator of all. This is who you become one with. If this flower blooms in a certain way on you, and it's very rare, this is a strong indication of something. It's a similar reaction to seeing ox's tail. You'll be like, "oh wow! I can't believe that really happened."

Well, this is tough. I am not sure if you have this in your society because I've been in a society (red/blue or blue/red) where they don't have this yet when I was there. Have you done your life purpose yet and turned it into some kind of business? It's called startup and then you go networking. You try to become an entrepreneur when you put this together, and at the same time try to help humanity in some way. You will be able to interact with more open-minded ppl there through your business. Just don't get too personal too fast if you're trying to develop a friendship. You may want to try travelling and studying/working overseas.

What do you think are blue & orange ideas?

You're doing really well here when you said this. Healthy boundaries--that's what it is. When you do find that gal, of course, love her but don't get attached. There's a difference. Relationships are commitments. And, don't forget to work on other areas of your life--great career, great life purpose, health/mental health, etc. All these things contribute to attractiveness. Of course it's not just about sex. When you work on other areas of your life, you will be becoming more social because you'll run into ppl and get to know them in general. I also don't see the point of approaching 100-400 gals off the streets when that time could be used in other areas of your life.