I'm posting all these because Leo & actualized.org are part of my footprints. ☺ You explained things so simply and clearly. You are bold to speak out. One thing just leads to another. It triggered even more footprints and everything started falling into place. Things got organized and mapped out for me. (Footprints is an enlightenment term according to Zen.) Look for footprints in life-they give clues. Here are some links to what footprints and beyond are about. To understand the story more, one has to actually experience it...
https://youtu.be/x8aN9O73lgg
https://youtu.be/0PQonSiGkVE
https://youtu.be/Ozca_5ifwQ0
Here are some after enlightenment terminologies. Life continues, but now you have a great reference. Just don't fall into traps. However, I know that there are more than just these type of experiences...☺
https://youtu.be/i288Lnb7NOk
We don't need to be in such a big rush to see it all; we still need to go through Graves and Maslow's model.
The map (model) is not the territory!
These terms are great if you use them to describe your enlightenment experiences to a Zen master, guru, or monk. It will make the conversations go easier.