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If you go for your life purpose journey, you will meet new people and make new friends who are more like-minded. Then, you set the example for your old friends. (Warning: long but beautiful process.)

Invest it in a handful of condos (aka apartments), rent it out, have passive income, and be financially free. Money just sitting in the bank will run out, eventually. Did you notice this? (Note: Physically, in our 3D embodied world, this is how you master stage orange. So that you could find time to do things you love, like meditation. I didn't say you would master stage orange mentally. )

Good question about enlightenment. I posted a clip about near death experiences below because it's a type of enlightenment experience (outer body or out of the ordinary experience). Of course, there are other types of enlightenment experiences. My point for you is not about these experiences. (Leo didn't cover near death experiences.) My point is...if you go out there and actually meet someone with enlightenment experiences, and the person actually told you about them (maybe cause you asked), and you made them feel "uncomfortable," like you say, "how do you know it's real?" or, "it's just a dream." or, "it's not according to X, Y, or Z religion." or, "it's not according to science." The person will probably not share more info--info like how does it apply to self-actualization and life purpose. I just want to point out that it's not easy to share such info because the person does get judged with labels like "weird or crazy," and they're not. Unless, the person is a seeker and is really willing to learn and accept the person with enlightenment experiences, learning and good communication won't take place. That goes for any other topic. Also want to point out that there's a difference between enlightenment experiences and being enlightened. Leo covers a lot on "being enlightened." In other words, how to self-actualize. (Very simple definition. Too simple.) Anyway, I know some of us are here because they've had enlightenment experiences and want to know what does it mean, how to apply it to self-actualization/life purpose, and how to communicate it to different people without getting judged too much.

@DizIzMikey Being in a family means sacrifice, but obviously, you already know that. Sacrifice is its middle name. You could either walk away (for a short break, of course), or say, "bring it on!" I'd go with the latter (with dignity & meditation of course). You're doing just fine. Be strong.

Pic of "turquoise marriage" just kinda joking...pic reminds me of you @Leo Gura talking about interdependent relationships...then starting a company w/ husband/wife came to mind, climbing Mt Everest together, & Olympians (husband/wife) ice skating together.

"The world is a great book of which they who never stir from home read only one page." -Augustine

A Beautiful Prayer I asked God to take away my habit. God said, No. It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up. I asked God to make my handicapped child whole. God said, No. His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary. I asked God to grant me patience. God said, No. Patience is a by product of tribulations; it isn’t granted; it is learned. I asked God to give me happiness. God said, No. I give you blessings; happiness is up to you. I asked God to spare me pain. God said, No. Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me. I asked God to make my spirit grow. God said, No. You must grow on your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful. I asked God for all things that I might enjoy life. God said, No. I will give you life, so that you may enjoy all things. I ask God to help me LOVE others, as much as “He” loves me. God said… Ahhh, finally you have the idea.

Negative voice and emotion = fictional ego...the thought that helps you to solve problems, go for your life purpose, go for transendence morality, seek for enlightenment that is coming from the "everythingness" and "nothingness" is your true self. This is what "you" call being enlightened. In the end, "you" want to contribute to peace in this world. Having enlightenment experiences is different from being enlightened. Enlightenment experiences are outer body experiences or any wisdom that you get that gives out of the ordinary/meaningful info in life. It helps you understand your fictional ego. This is what Leo's clips are about. Nice story @Philip. I like your story on the ego.

@Natasha @Leo Gura Leo's no free-will clip and one of the spiritual enlightenment clips saying that one's journey (like Luke Skywalker) has to go in full circle are very interesting. I can't "force" or "coerce" anyone's journey to go faster. I could only guide or set an example. It's not a 1+1=2 situation. I'm going to have to be careful on my approach.

@Natasha Wow awesome...congrats!

I must say that saying "bad" words is not right or wrong; it just attracts different target audience. I have to find a way to get through to my boys on your teachings, Leo. Your teachings are great minus the "bad" words. It's not resonating with my boys. They are calling you "the middle finger guy" cause of one of your thumbnails-not to insult, but just to refer to you. They know more than one Leos.

@Natasha Very interesting question/concern..I have 2 teenage sons. I would say a lot of life experiences are needed to truly understand the context on YouTube. I'm saying this because Leo's videos on YouTube are excellent, but a lot of life experiences are needed for things in one's life to fall into place. Leo's videos on YouTube are actually very advanced. (In other words, if a person could understand the context of the videos on YouTube, the person could go about the life purpose / entrepreneurship / career with a peace of mind because of the spiritual enlightenment clips. )

A Cup of Tea Nan-in, a Japanese master during the Meiji era (1868-1912), received a university professor who came to inquire about Zen. Nan-in served tea. He poured his visitor’s cup full, and then kept on pouring. The professor watched the overflow until he no longer could restrain himself. “It is overfull. No more will go in!” “Like this cup,” Nan-in said, “you are full of your own opinions and speculations. How can I show you Zen unless you first empty your cup?” @Leo Gura (Just wanted to share this funny yellow & turquoise story.)

Ikkyu, the Zen master, was very clever even as a boy. His teacher had a precious teacup, a rare antique. Ikkyu happened to break this cup and was greatly perplexed. Hearing the footsteps of his teacher, he held the pieces of the cup behind him. When the master appeared, Ikkyu asked: “Why do people have to die?” “This is natural,” explained the older man. “Everything has to die and has just so long to live.” Ikkyu, producing the shattered cup, added: “It was time for your cup to die.”

Working Very Hard A martial arts student went to his teacher and said earnestly, “I am devoted to studying your martial system. How long will it take me to master it.” The teacher’s reply was casual, “Ten years.” Impatiently, the student answered, “But I want to master it faster than that. I will work very hard. I will practice everyday, ten or more hours a day if I have to. How long will it take then?” The teacher thought for a moment, “20 years.”

"AHHH...enlightenment at last, but I won't tell it till the next video or the next video...until all are ready to hear it."

Swim for it you dummies!!!!!

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