I understand I do. Breaks my heart to know that she will die that way but I do pray for her to see the happy side of things. I agree she is who she is I still love her and always will I just feel like she is missing out on what life is really about. Me and my twin lead by example but you are right that is all we can do for her. Thank you Brian I needed to hear to not take it personal how she is sometimes I forget that .