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@Leo Gura one last question regarding the muscle topic: But doesnt it also give you a status boost, when ur more muscular? Because people respect you more and in general in our society its more valuable and more desirable than being skinny. Also it signals evolutionary advantages. Like that he can protect you better, discipline, hard work.

Why is it that most people get laid, date, have a girlfriend, marry in such an easy and effortless way that they don't even have to think about game, how to flirt, seduction etc. It all happens so natural for them. Dating is just a normal part of their lifes and it seems that they don't struggle in that domain. Other people have to move to a bigger city, learn all the theoretical foundation of dating, learn how to flirt, how to escalate, when to touch, when to kiss etc. They have to go to night clubs and bars on a regular basis, have to approach hundreds of girls just to get one lay. Most people have never done one cold approach in their entire life and they are in a relationship and have a good dating life. What are most people doing right then, that they don't struggle with the domain of dating?

@Leo Gura So these guys would get laid even if theyd be skinny af with no muscles? its just their looks?

@Leo Gura But I know many guys, who get laid just because of their muscles and fit physique. Every girl find a muscular guy more attractive than a skinny guy. Thats just facts.

@Leo Gura okay. But shall I nevertheless start going to this one night club we have and start approaching there and start cold approaching on the street or at other events? Im currently working at a small university we have in our town (10k students), should I practice approaching here? or shall I follow the rule "dont shit, where you eat" I will probably move next year.

@Leo Gura But talking to girls is more important than becoming more social in general right? If I have the opportunity to move to a bigger city, I should do it, right? cause here where im livin, 70k people town, approaching is hard, night life is just minimum im livin in germany, might move to Berlin

@Evan Gill so you have to turn yourself into that kind of person?

@Leo Gura Thanks Leo. So you would say that not being social enough is the no.1 obstacle to getting laid/getting a gf? So that means, when ur not very social by nature, u have to push hard to become social? And if u have social disorders like Aspergers or Social Anxiety, then ur f*cked basically?

Deep down I know that I am the Absolute, that I am God, the One and Only Being. I haven't awoken to God-Consciousness, but my intuition is pointing me to it. To reach God, to fully realize yourself as God, you have to put yourself on the way, put in all the effort, all the spiritual work, to finally reach HIM one day. So its a very active path on the one hand. But isn't reality also designed in a way, that God gives you signs, bread crumbs, clues, hints, to point to this Truth? You just have to see these hints. And these bread crumbs are like glitches in a otherwise perfectly constructed dream. You could say that God put these on purpose into his Dream, so that it isn't impossible for the Dreamer, Me, to see Him one day, to make the way easier in a way. These bread crumbs, which are put here can be suffering, beauty, art, love, psychedelics, Actualized.org etc. So am I getting it right, that reality is designed in such a way that I have to put effort and also God puts effort for me realizing myself as Him one day? The Quran also says: And whoever comes to Me walking, I will go to him running. or Allah says: “Take one step towards me, I will take ten steps towards you. Walk towards me, I will run towards you.” Hadith Qudsi.

Hey guys. I have written a two-page script, which explains how I see a future Islam. Id really appreciate it, if you could read through it and tell me your opinion on it. Maybe you have some suggestions and would add or change something. You can find the file in the attachment of this post. Thanks guys and wish you a good day. Peace. The Islam of Tomorrow.pdf

@Someone here For me Islam is like a beautiful flower garden. Colourful, peaceful and full of life.

@Davino First of all thank you for reading through my script and second of all thanks for your very wise and helpful answer and advice. Yeah it was not particularly an outlook on the future of Islam per se, more an outlook on the future of religion in general. Nevertheless I called it the future of Islam because it is the tradition that resonates with me the most. The title could have also been "the future of Christianity". I think in the future there wont be any differences left between the religious traditions. They will all dissolve into eachother.