AmandaPanda

As a woman flirting with men but HIGHLY perceptive I almost always have to ask the man out. Then he tells me he wanted to and I’m like man I’m autistic I’m not good at sending out vibes I literally told you I’m a freak and want you to show me the red wines you like and you still thought I wanted to be just friends. Y’all are really doing the lord’s work on this thread because women want to get laid, and a lot of us don’t even need to be tricked into it. Although, as men are hunters by nature I get the vibe some of them enjoy the game more than the orgasm.

As someone with two children it does make things easier and more secure, especially for lgbtq couples with adopted children. Speaking only from personal experience with this one. Both my own and others in my community. It doesn't matter in terms of raising them but it does help with legal matters if and likely when the relationship hits rocky ground.

There are many other ways to pledge love and wrapping up your money and resources with someone is just not a good idea whatever the reason. Marriage is pushed out of tradition moreso than actual usefulness to anyone in today’s world.

Wait didn’t you just say homosexuality is a sin, this seems contradictory… 🤔 As a woman, can Christ… satisfy me?

As someone who was a child of poverty stricken hillbilly addicts, and subsequently the step-child to a South Korean father with a very different type of family this is very true. Neither is better or worse but if I hadn’t seen outside the small bubble of my family who knows if I’d still be believing I would go to hell for liking women. I had and still do struggle to unlearn the stupidity indoctrinated by that culture and any time I get too wrapped up in family stuff I spiral to lower consciousness thinking and survival responses. Idk how to link videos but “Socialization Makes You Stupid” is another great insight towards this subject.

I understand that men are visual and want someone hot, but the lack of awareness about one’s own “hotness” (which is generally defined more by your hygiene and social status ability to provide, aka things that can be changed) is wild. The whole incel attitude is an instant pussy dehydrator. Like I am highly sought after in my area as an “attractive single” but I know I’m not gonna get into a relationship with a movie star looker because I’m not one. I want someone with matching stretch marks and acne scars that can give my flat foot a real good massage. I’m not out here ignoring reality or blaming others because I can’t get a rich man to pay my way or a hot chick to let me suckle her teet. Time to stop watching so much porn for some of y'all and grow up a bit. Also statistics are great but always skewed and remember “direct experience is king” 🩷🩷🙏

Congrats and well wishes for y’all 🫶

Oh wow I watched this long ago but definitely going to rewatch.

I like this, sugar is a hack I use unconsciously for comfort or quick calories, sugar is the hack I want to avoid!

This is true, I lost 60 pounds and feel a lot healthier from cutting out as much processed as I could and quitting soda. I used to literally wonder how people lived without Mountain Dew or hot Cheetos and now I wonder how I ever “lived off” it.

You said “may sound stupid” and then proceeded to give me a detailed and insightful response that challenged even my own nerdiness in ways that had my heart in palpitations. This made me want to rethink my “no-caffeine” stance. I quit a few months ago and am not sure yet if the benefits outweigh the potential risks yet.

I don’t know who Ray Peat is or what androgenic means in the context of nutrition but I sure am thinking about haagen daaz and coffee wayyyy more than lemon water rn 🤔

I feel like ice cream often comes around when I’m lonely. And as an introvert with an interest in enlightenment that feeling comes more than I’d care to admit. Note to self, becoming better versed in social life may lead to less sugar cravings. Good suggestion because it’s not “all or nothing”.

I think I’m kind of stuck here. Being an intellectual person I always grasp on to “theories” and ideas and realize it’s a way of comforting myself but I have yet to transcend it. In fact I’ve been avoiding some actual work I could be doing today with these forums. But… im being forgiving of my own manic excitement because this community is the only place I can go currently for raw unfiltered interactions with people who’ve gone further than myself. In any case I’m sure once I reach higher levels of enlightenment it will show in my own ability to provide useful advice and discourse rather than random tangents on subjects that “trigger” something in me. 🙏🫶👁️🖤

I’m not into hacks for my nutrition but my ice cream addiction has gone too far. I will try this and if anything I had some yummy lemon water 🤷‍♀️