Past-Philosopher-562

@Princess Arabia Lol love it . Thank you very much for the nice words . Indeed , It's my third language . I have somehow probably developed this apology attitude even when I know I can be understood but it probably comes from the insecurity of feeling like I am burdening people too much or that I emphasis things that are just understood subtly in this domain . The apology attitude comes by to dismiss my need to capture too much information of what people may not like being added . I have to note actually , that we started with two official languages , arabic and french and English came later in the 9th grade . Sadly , we had to suffer through bad linguistic pedagogy and we had to unlearn a lot of bad pronunciation and more work to master some languages and not others , the outcome was not all good . Plus , we were born already in an area that had two dialects , growing up code switching between them and suffering through codeswitching in a conversation made a lot of introverts like me suffer in the linguistic competent game somehow that we developed an apology attitude even in this area of multi-linguistic cultures where we would speak in our mother tongue and still pronounce badly and ended up being perceived as timid . I had to drop some languages a bit to keep my mind clear . French was dropped because it's too difficult and Amazigh dialect , since I am not interacting much with people from the Amazigh side plus my introvert side and interest in self-development and mysticism keeps me focused with two : English and Arabic . So , so far good .

I appreciate your response, and I have another question. Would it be considered too extreme or missing the point if I expressed my intention to engage in structured contemplation about an issue for several days and subsequently integrate the insights gained into a carefully planned real-life experience? For instance, after dedicating time to reflect on my lack of self-reliance and understanding my codependent and passive tendencies, I aim to schedule an immersive experience in a self-reliant situation without relying on external support. This approach involves allowing the newfound understanding to actively guide my actions. Similarly, I find myself drawn to a similar process when contemplating the dynamics of my dysfunctional family, exploring my passive tendencies, and strategizing for effective leadership without triggering negative reactions. However, I question whether what I'm doing aligns more with introspection or reflection, and if I'm accurately using the terms commonly accepted in this forum. I apologize for any confusion; English is my third language. While the message suggests I am currently engaged in contemplation, I aim to transition into this practice, and your insights on my approach would be valuable .

Hello there guys , What do you think of the traits that come to mind as you went through this journey of self actualizing .

Yeah brilliant . I did it . it was good advice .

I did just a bit NOW AND followed your advice , it was lovely to be honest . Just brilliant . thank you

How can I use this concept to self actualize and become a conscious leader in life ? -

Can you give us some advice on how to introspect on this , to fully embody the concept and find a way to link it to holism and conscious leadership , and self actualization and structure and content topic . I have worked on it already , just need few ideas .

@Leo Gura What do you think of this concept of frame ? -- Not referring to Frame control but more this new way of saying someone has frame or a strong frame or a weak Frame . Some stories about females and males who happen to charm and seduce their costumer or some target because they had a strong frame or a sexual frame or tempting personal narrative story that seduced people into their world . I am working on some ideas on it , wish some guidelines and how to link it to leadership , holism and actualization .

Hello there guys , i hope you are doing well . Why I don't give myself permission or at least sit and answer and follow the answer ? --

Alright outside this , I would ask you few questions . I am generally in a bad timeline where I am stuck down the hierarchy , my safety needs are the place where I am stuck the most at and I live in a third country . Either way this is not some victim story but keep this in mind and here is a few questions if you would like to answer : I am trying to write articles for myself as I explain a problem and how to fix it in my journey for self actualization . Like how to leverage brain and body cues to optimize sleep and awake cycle . Do you think it's an effective way of aiming for self actualization ? - or I am complicating this . How can I built trust in my way and ideas rather than outsourcing the validation for others ? - I would appreciate if you answerde this .