Past-Philosopher-562

Thank you very much . One thing i feel I should ask . There was a keyword that you mentioned a lot in your youtube lectures called conscious leadership which somehow is different than the unconscious leadership . Is this something that can be developed by self awareness , contemplation , evolving our consciousness from different spiral dynamic stages and ego stages and being conscious of people stages and our shadow and the crowd shadow . I mean . I am in the right field energy , judging by the keywords I am pointing to .

Yeah . I get what you are saying . I feel like I have sacrficided my social life for too long in the past precisely because I believed if i worked hard enough in school , I could graduate and then get a job and finance different lifestyle goals as I develop myself and have basic needs met and then life didn't go as it should . So now I just feel like I am back squere zero and feel doubtful . This is why I use this label pointless and I want to be effective and stuff like that . I will work on this . Thank you for your time .

It originated from pick up artists as a concept they call frame control. They understood that in every interaction between a man and a woman, someone will frame the interaction. Are you the creepy guy at the bar making women uncomfortable, or are you the cocky and funny dudewho she would love to sleep with? Well, that’s a matter of frame. It’s partially the agreed upon perception of your environment, partially the narratives that make up everyone's decision making process, and partially how you perceive yourself and how they perceive themselves. The frame is the underlying meaning. It's the context, the implication—the unspoken assumption in everything you say. When I said I have quantified it , it means , I have made it practical and categorize to physical Frame to work . And Emotional Frame and intellectual and create goals in each category to supply my frame . How I am percevied and I perceive reality with right mental models that would allow me feel confident and be seen confident .

I mean I just feel like what is the point . I know this sounds weird . But what is the point of developing myself for the next 5 to 10 years and then I will achieve the outcomes that I seek . I mean what a pointless life . Why Can't I spend time and investment on shorter timeline like 6 months - 12 months , why 5 years till 10 years . It seems too much . I have already spend more than 12 years learning in academia and everything turned out to be pointless and here I am broke and with low self esteem and not self actualized . Can I say I want to be effective ?- Like to do the right thing , not just do things right . I want to do the right thing . I am not convinced that 5 to 12 YEARS OF developing myself could create the outcome I seek specificially when this seem goals i have workd my entire life to accomplish them from more than that and nothing happened . So how can I make sense of this ?

28 years old . Limited skills . Lack of money , feel like I won't be able to accomplish them . Thirld world country in a small mountain .don't trust myself . interevert with bad social skills .

Live a good life that I couldn't live before . I want to have a strong frame > I have quantified this mental model and made it practical . I want to be self-actualized I want to have the means to travel and be location free If I am to live longer , at least I want to have a home for myself I want to be loved and cared for So much to say ………

Hello there How much do you think a person can Accomplish in 6 months of deep work actualizing using Leo Gura 's concepts and videos . Like if Leo , could explain , how much being needs and survival needs can be met by just working on 6 Months' timeline of work on his concepts trying to embody them . It would be preferable if Leo can tell us how much outcome and results he creates in 6 months if he has a memory distinction .

@Leo Gura How much Accomplishment you can produce in 6 months ? -- I am not refering to social success always but how much concepts we can embody in 6 months of working .

I feel like I have lost the will to try , to fight , to be ambitious . I wish things to end and I don't know how to try again . Like I think may be I need to contemplate more , I wish some mystical experience , I wish things to change .

@Leo Gura My friend if you don't mind . We would like to ask you some questions within the theme of self -actualization ? -- Is it fine here or

Hello there , Guys , what do you think about how to contemplate sexuality , how to be sexualy healthy , how to unwire the outcome of porn addiction and arousal dysfunction created . Like is there someone who has done the contemplative session and somehow it worked and he gained genuine insights that made things work .

@Leo Gura What do you think of the concept of frame which many say is a characteristic of alpha man ? - I want to contemplate this label the way you have tought . I have seen how you structure you episod in Quote , and dictionary definitions and then you start . Any advice for starting contemplation of frame . He has a strong frame or she has a sexual frame and how to contemplate properly

@Leo Gura Would you mind telling us why did she do that and kissed the one before her and not her partner ? - If they are couples , what has this men done to reach this stage and why did she had to do that to him ? https://www.youtube.com/shorts/6Hvhu6V7HDI?si=WJ3An3_TSoTmfPAK

Hello to you Leo and guys Look I know we have annoyed you so much with this constant questions but I really need this information . I hope you take more time to articulate for us the Answer . You said the answer for everything is love and how all we crave is to be loved because that is what consciousness is . Now , Please take time to answer this questions : 1 . In the first videos you had , when you spoke about laziness , depression , perfectionistic tendencies , and let's add fear , comparison , and not feeling optimistic . Now how perfectionism along other traits have to do with not loving myself ? 2 - If someone wants to give himself love , how can he not fall to the trap of conflating the absolute with the relative . Like If I give myself love , then I would be content and satisfied with myself but I won't have the motivation to work and develop my physique . I know , whoever thinks this has conflated the absolute with the relative , so how can I love the self , and also do all the things I want to when all I know is how not loving myself was the only motivation ? 3 - I grow up rigid and very tight , not very loose and not into having fun much . I had instances when mocked , laughed at , misunderstood and memed , at home and at the street with people I knew . Like , bringing things I did to laugh and I have always remembered this and this made me anxious and avoidant and rigid in my life . Which also made it difficult for me to love people and even my family the way you describe . This rigid persona was trained to me by parents , through fear , and making me feel bad about how Introverted I was which was an indicator of inferiority and also some bad dark thing . I had a mother who was impulsive and just pure aggressive , and in my childhood, I would say I was left and not loved much Because I was just made into a persona to her liking . She was too controlling the she needed to aggressively change her Environment when stressed and find fault at people and complain . Judgement and critique in the house which now make me judge myself badly . How can I love myself and love others the way you speak , when I had a harsh Environment . 4 - What do you think about women's getting repulsed when their boyfriends and husbands express their emotions . This trend when happened to be shared . Have they shared it the wrong way or is the women have evolved not for such role to receive emotional expression which displays vulnerability . I would really appreciate if you took time to read this Leo and answer us . Thank you in advance for everything .

I hope you take this . We would be grateful Why do you think she dismissed him and didn't kiss ? -- And why she kissed the man before even knowing she would hurt him ? Like I know I should think also about what he did that made her this cold to him ? -- Can you take this please . We would love your insights .

Nice .. haha . Since this is part of dating and sexual cuess and survival , and love needs . So knowledge

Thanks . good points and comments . I was refering to his physical frame . He seemed rigid and tight . The one behind seemed rebelious and edgy .

Good point . But play with me friend , let's think this . Like how does she viewed him as a loser , because he is too rigid and civil and nice , and some cues from his physique prove that he isn't loose , therefore , knowing he has been trained to obey and stuff . Like I have alot of insights on this but just admire more perspective . What do you say ? -- His physique and stuff . Like men she really want to hurt him ? - This is just , when I think of this . Tough .

@Leo Gura Brilliant . Have you over spoken about how to discover our core values , like some video or exercise do direct us to . Would you say that anger is a better indicator for values , like if I am angry at specific phenonemon or context , that is deeply my core value being violated . Wouldn't it ?

Hello Leo I hope you read this but have you in your journey have worked through MBti . I mean beyond typing yourself as an INTP but studying the cognitive functions and working on them to maturity and develpment . I feel Like I have this chance and I want to start working on it and then maslow and then spiral dynamic . I would love more than yes or no . What have you done actually since one of your techniques is type theory , AK mbti types ?

@fabger Thanks . I don't watch him much . Love Leo's work and he is fa more intellectually stimulating and enriching actually .

@Leo Gura I haven't encountered an INTP who has elevated their consciousness to a higher degree. I'm not attempting to flatter you, but having studied Type theory in analytical psychology, I find that your cognitive functions align with the system I've studied, and they seem mature and developed. In contrast, my own cognitive functions are maladaptive due to life experiences, various circumstances, and, frankly, laziness. So, I was seeking advice that you might give to your past, maladaptive self on how to enhance consciousness. What insights would you share as you reflect on your own growth, or what guidance would you offer for refining and developing consciousness? I understand that you might receive similar questions repeatedly, but considering your own journey, what do you believe INTPs, or even a younger version of yourself, needed to know during that phase of timidity, uncertainty, and the struggle with addiction as an escape?

I have seen it . Yeah it's pretty much good .

@Leo Gura Fair . Just another question please for clarification . Still have not met an INTP who has evovled his consciousness . The theory says that people have a cognitive functions and they gravitate naturally and psychologically toward that stack functions that orient them into a specific way . You are an INTP -- So Interverted thinking , Exterverted intuition , Interverted Sensing , and Exterverted feeling . How do you manage how to achieve something ? - Like you have a goal or a dream , how do you persue the goal and achieve it . Like the usual goal setting format or something your cognitive functions drive you toward .

@Leo Gura My Friend . Have you in your journey of development used MBTI ? . I have some good resources of the actual cognitive functions and how to develop my cognitive functions . I have the same cognitive functions as you , INTP . I realized that I am quite maladaptive and need to cognitively develop myself . Have you ever used it ? and what is your advice for an INTP young man who as I said still not there yet ?