Past-Philosopher-562

Hello there , Guys , what do you think about how to contemplate sexuality , how to be sexualy healthy , how to unwire the outcome of porn addiction and arousal dysfunction created . Like is there someone who has done the contemplative session and somehow it worked and he gained genuine insights that made things work .

@Leo Gura What do you think of the concept of frame which many say is a characteristic of alpha man ? - I want to contemplate this label the way you have tought . I have seen how you structure you episod in Quote , and dictionary definitions and then you start . Any advice for starting contemplation of frame . He has a strong frame or she has a sexual frame and how to contemplate properly

@Leo Gura Would you mind telling us why did she do that and kissed the one before her and not her partner ? - If they are couples , what has this men done to reach this stage and why did she had to do that to him ? https://www.youtube.com/shorts/6Hvhu6V7HDI?si=WJ3An3_TSoTmfPAK

Hello to you Leo and guys Look I know we have annoyed you so much with this constant questions but I really need this information . I hope you take more time to articulate for us the Answer . You said the answer for everything is love and how all we crave is to be loved because that is what consciousness is . Now , Please take time to answer this questions : 1 . In the first videos you had , when you spoke about laziness , depression , perfectionistic tendencies , and let's add fear , comparison , and not feeling optimistic . Now how perfectionism along other traits have to do with not loving myself ? 2 - If someone wants to give himself love , how can he not fall to the trap of conflating the absolute with the relative . Like If I give myself love , then I would be content and satisfied with myself but I won't have the motivation to work and develop my physique . I know , whoever thinks this has conflated the absolute with the relative , so how can I love the self , and also do all the things I want to when all I know is how not loving myself was the only motivation ? 3 - I grow up rigid and very tight , not very loose and not into having fun much . I had instances when mocked , laughed at , misunderstood and memed , at home and at the street with people I knew . Like , bringing things I did to laugh and I have always remembered this and this made me anxious and avoidant and rigid in my life . Which also made it difficult for me to love people and even my family the way you describe . This rigid persona was trained to me by parents , through fear , and making me feel bad about how Introverted I was which was an indicator of inferiority and also some bad dark thing . I had a mother who was impulsive and just pure aggressive , and in my childhood, I would say I was left and not loved much Because I was just made into a persona to her liking . She was too controlling the she needed to aggressively change her Environment when stressed and find fault at people and complain . Judgement and critique in the house which now make me judge myself badly . How can I love myself and love others the way you speak , when I had a harsh Environment . 4 - What do you think about women's getting repulsed when their boyfriends and husbands express their emotions . This trend when happened to be shared . Have they shared it the wrong way or is the women have evolved not for such role to receive emotional expression which displays vulnerability . I would really appreciate if you took time to read this Leo and answer us . Thank you in advance for everything .

I hope you take this . We would be grateful Why do you think she dismissed him and didn't kiss ? -- And why she kissed the man before even knowing she would hurt him ? Like I know I should think also about what he did that made her this cold to him ? -- Can you take this please . We would love your insights .

Nice .. haha . Since this is part of dating and sexual cuess and survival , and love needs . So knowledge

Thanks . good points and comments . I was refering to his physical frame . He seemed rigid and tight . The one behind seemed rebelious and edgy .

Good point . But play with me friend , let's think this . Like how does she viewed him as a loser , because he is too rigid and civil and nice , and some cues from his physique prove that he isn't loose , therefore , knowing he has been trained to obey and stuff . Like I have alot of insights on this but just admire more perspective . What do you say ? -- His physique and stuff . Like men she really want to hurt him ? - This is just , when I think of this . Tough .

@Leo Gura Brilliant . Have you over spoken about how to discover our core values , like some video or exercise do direct us to . Would you say that anger is a better indicator for values , like if I am angry at specific phenonemon or context , that is deeply my core value being violated . Wouldn't it ?

Hello Leo I hope you read this but have you in your journey have worked through MBti . I mean beyond typing yourself as an INTP but studying the cognitive functions and working on them to maturity and develpment . I feel Like I have this chance and I want to start working on it and then maslow and then spiral dynamic . I would love more than yes or no . What have you done actually since one of your techniques is type theory , AK mbti types ?

@fabger Thanks . I don't watch him much . Love Leo's work and he is fa more intellectually stimulating and enriching actually .

@Leo Gura I haven't encountered an INTP who has elevated their consciousness to a higher degree. I'm not attempting to flatter you, but having studied Type theory in analytical psychology, I find that your cognitive functions align with the system I've studied, and they seem mature and developed. In contrast, my own cognitive functions are maladaptive due to life experiences, various circumstances, and, frankly, laziness. So, I was seeking advice that you might give to your past, maladaptive self on how to enhance consciousness. What insights would you share as you reflect on your own growth, or what guidance would you offer for refining and developing consciousness? I understand that you might receive similar questions repeatedly, but considering your own journey, what do you believe INTPs, or even a younger version of yourself, needed to know during that phase of timidity, uncertainty, and the struggle with addiction as an escape?

I have seen it . Yeah it's pretty much good .

@Leo Gura Fair . Just another question please for clarification . Still have not met an INTP who has evovled his consciousness . The theory says that people have a cognitive functions and they gravitate naturally and psychologically toward that stack functions that orient them into a specific way . You are an INTP -- So Interverted thinking , Exterverted intuition , Interverted Sensing , and Exterverted feeling . How do you manage how to achieve something ? - Like you have a goal or a dream , how do you persue the goal and achieve it . Like the usual goal setting format or something your cognitive functions drive you toward .

@Leo Gura My Friend . Have you in your journey of development used MBTI ? . I have some good resources of the actual cognitive functions and how to develop my cognitive functions . I have the same cognitive functions as you , INTP . I realized that I am quite maladaptive and need to cognitively develop myself . Have you ever used it ? and what is your advice for an INTP young man who as I said still not there yet ?

Hello there guys , I hope you are doing well . I mean if you watched Leo from the start , the voice , the speech patterns , and the delivery has completely changed . He has truely developed himself and how he communicates his complicated ideas . Now , how many techniques have we gathered from him about this other than toast master . So what do we have actually of techniques to accelerate the development ?

it's essential to consider the double nature of distraction across time. Individuals who reflect on the past may perceive less distraction, but even then, the pursuit of awakening was constrained, often limited to those who recognized that societal norms, framed as social survival or success , also constituted a form of distraction. This is exemplified by the historical practice of seeking solitude in caves for contemplation. Now , people grapple with myriad distractions, particularly in the digital age. However, many are unaware that these technological distractions represent just one layer of the complex tapestry. The desire for immunity from distraction, often driven by the quest for survival and success, paradoxically becomes another form of distraction in itself because you want to survive and succeed but that also is a distraction . @Leo Gura I would say , it is more distracting then because survival and succeeding was so difficult that people may not have gotten the memo that it also can be a form of distraction .

Let's play a game , what Question , Joke , riddle and insight that would get Leo gura hooked ? ChatGPT Asnswer | Sure, let's give it a try! Question: "If you had to distill your most profound realization about personal development into one piece of advice, what would it be, and how has it transformed your own life?" Joke: "Why did the self-aware person go to therapy? Because they wanted to have a 'mind-blowing' session and reach new levels of enlightenment!" Riddle: "I speak without a mouth and hear without ears. I have no body, but I come alive with the wind. What am I?" Insight: "I recently came across this quote: 'The only way to do great work is to love what you do.' How do you think this applies to the journey of self-actualization and personal development, especially considering the integration of passion and purpose?" For fun guys

@Ayham hahaha an echo but fun response

Leo, conscious leadership is crucial, especially in regions grappling with underdevelopment and corruption. Imagine the positive impact if students of actualized.org could contribute to these areas. It's an opportunity for transformative change that could be truly remarkable . I hope this year is for conscious leadership .

Hello everyone, I hope you're all doing well. I have a couple of questions that I'd like to organize for better clarity: Leo Gura's Impactful Videos: Which specific videos by Leo Gura have significantly helped you address and overcome a particular need or issue in your life? Whether it's one video or several, I'm interested in hearing about the transformative impact they had on your life. Personal Experiences: Could you kindly share your personal experiences after successfully fulfilling a need or overcoming a challenge? How did this fulfillment influence your overall attitude and perspective on life? Feel free to elaborate on any positive changes or insights that resulted from this experience. Overcoming Pain Points: Additionally, I'm curious to learn about the specific strategies you've developed to overcome the pain points associated with not having a particular need met for an extended period. For example, if it's the love and belongingness need, the pain points could involve feelings of loneliness, worthlessness, negative emotions, a victimhood mindset, and other challenges. How have you successfully navigated through these difficulties? Please format your responses according to the bullet points and numbered bullet points for clarity. Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences!

Hello guys . As I watch Leo , I wonder what symbolic representation you feel he displays from your point of view . For me as I watch him , he seem to produce this symbolisms . You could call it , symbolism of his psyche . The archetype of the pure philosopher The creative explorer The Memory Guardian The social diplomat I am using the mature Image of a symbolism , some may not have a fully mature aspect of their psyche . Does it feel like it .

Since the community is focused on unravelling self-deception, it's essential to consider that the language you employ might be another layer of evasion for the ego , preventing a deeper exploration . The structure of one's ego often establishes a comfort zone , and the current frustration may arise when venturing into uncharted territories . Frustration can be viewed as a signal to the mind, indicating a need for structural change to adapt to and master unfamiliar domains. Therefore, the present frustration suggests a difficulty in the task at hand, signifying that a more profound exploration is required to align with the purpose and meaning in life that you seek . Can you write , what have you done so far to discover your meaning or what is meaningful to you ? . If everything in life is bulshit . Then that is statement of absolutism . You are saying I have seen it all but you haven't . There is still life out there , experiences out there , not contaminated by the bullshitting symbiote , may be that is your purpose or meaning , to move beyond that which you find bullshit oriented . But you can't do that unless your call yourself out for the bullshit . Either way , beyond the bullshit , I think there is liberation and fulfilment . If you know this and you experienced a bullshiting life , you know it's not fulfilling.

It would be lovely to speak about this concept of frame . I am working on it and have combined a few insights but it would be lovely to take your thought on this and how can a person developed it . It's like a vague elusive label but can be seen in the street , some people having strong physical frame but then , i have seen physical aspect of frame get destroyed because the emotional frame was weak . can you speak more about that ?

Hello Leo, I'm curious to hear your perspective on a transformative process. Have you found that true personal growth unfolds when you delve into contemplation and investigation, putting pen to paper to tackle the issues you face? It seems like this introspective practice has led to significant breakthroughs and a profound shift in your character over time. Your journey, as observed from your earlier videos to the present, is truly inspiring. Can we assert that in-depth contemplation of a problem, such as low integrity or low self-esteem, not only yields valuable insights that you share in your youtube videos but also initiates a profound Identity change that makes everything easy [ No need to read books and other sources of knowledge ] , ultimately serving as a permanent solution to the discussed issue? - Moreover, would you agree with the notion that engaging in deep thought and discourse with onself about personal struggles, be it low self-esteem, feelings of emptiness, or a lack of passion, can unearth valuable truths without psychedelics?