Past-Philosopher-562

@UnlovingGod This is a brilliant Answer . thank you .

@Leo Gura It's a hypothetical question to bring forward which Spiral dynamic you are going to use ? -- Would you mind just try answering othrs

@Leo Gura I hope I am not annoying you

@Nivsch I would have to look at why they take them as hostage . Last time we checked , Jewish zionist terror group supported by the west occupied their territory and commited a full scale human sacrfice . This what zionist survival strategy , slaughter and occupy and if you have response play a victim . It's a laughable by the way that you call yourself a yellew thinker . An Israeli and Yellow stage values . Funny .

Would you explain what you mean by this ? - Is I should not focus on achieving things untill my basic needs are being met , then I should persue higher goals ? -- The thing is I have worked hard and hard in my Life and sacrificed a lot for just education to graduate and get a job and then work on my Passion , I live in a small town . My father worked hard in his life and nothing he got in return and neither did I . The system is rigged in a way where It wouldn't allow me even a chance or a bit luck . I can't find a job and my physique is deteriating , so of course , the energy and the outlook I have toward life has become too depressing and soulless because nothing I get from working hard .

Hey Leo . I hope you take some time to answer the following question . 1. What do you say to someone who lost faith in life ever working for him who happend to be in a thirld world country and who lives in a mountain small town where it has been economically not as equal as the big cities but also lost all the money in a college education that didn't pay off and now has lost faith , become apathic , and doesn't seem to feel encouraged to do anything because of every investment he invested didn't pay off . So he feels defeated . I am speaking about myself here . I feel like I lost the will to change . I think I wish I can system reboot my brain and mind with some mystical experience and embody a state of consciousnessnes that would make me passionate .

@Princess Arabia Can I ask which culture you and how old are ?

As a member of the actualized.org forum and community, I'm curious about your personal experiences with phenomena that are largely influenced by fulfilling basic needs and being needs . Have you encountered any significant changes or insights in your life after satisfying your needs? Additionally, I'm interested in hearing about any mystical experiences you may have had, considering Abraham Maslow's suggestion that such experiences can emerge after self-actualization. Have you personally experienced any mystical or transcendent moments that you attribute to fulfilling your needs and progressing towards self-actualization? I would greatly appreciate hearing about your firsthand experiences and insights on these matters. Thank you for sharing.

@Abe27 Explain to us what basic needs have you fullfilled . like do you have a job , have your finances well and a house of your own and feel safe and secure as an experience . I just feel this is the question to explore more with you .

Low Quality response . The Idea that you believe Zionism can take many forms and some form can be moderate and peaceful is laughable in a cheerleading way . If it happens , first , it is motivated using the more extreme hate toward Palestinians and Arabs and then as the full scale human sacrifice resumes and finishes as it has been done to former Palestinians who had the same experiences , Israel would call itself democratic just because they wiped out half populations across all timeline . Their survival strategies of existence entails annihilation of another race.

@Leo Gura lol fair . thank you . that was cool . It's true my thinking is definetly killing me .

They literally do . How is that something that seems to be when there is statistics behind it and women writing about the bad boy they still miss from their former years ? . You spoke about this in your videos two , How what you discovered in the field is that players get the girl , nice guys behaviors don't .

Good video . One thing clarified about nice guys .

@Leo Gura What do you think of the dark triad ? Are their traits really dark ? Women seem to respond and crave such men if we judge what they do rather than what they say , this men have strong frame and some charismatic . I mean I get the psychopathy , narcissism , and psychopathy is truely toxic but if we consider them spectrums and going too far using them is bad so is their opposite ? --

@Leo Gura Thank you very much . much appreciation for what you do .

You have spoken about how we need to find a way to love ourselves because we are love , it's in our nature and you described how this far better than forcing yourself to do stuff . So my questions for this is : How would I know I have found the way to love myself effectively ? - I am speaking about the method that would be done repeatedly that would produce some effect . What to expect exactly from loving myself ? - Can you share from your experience when you started loving yourself and how this changed your life . How would self-love make me socially attractive if physically I would be out of shape and not high value , my speech is clumsy and tone is weak but just love myself ? - How change could happen because loving myself while I am this fearful timid coward person that I am with all the faults I have . I can't sit still and contemplate because I don't trust anything good would come out .

@Leo Gura The awakening that you had is due to pschedelics or are you also speaking about the outcome of contemplation and inquiry ? - I hope this isn't silly to ask . So , i am going to schedule a self love meditation where I meditate , breath and put my attention upon myself and experience this love embodying expeience and see how this is going to lead me . is there any questions I should ask myself when I contemplate this ? - You are good at asking questions that provide a break through ?

@koops I know this would sound like an egoic selfish question , but if you experience enlightment or what ever that experience is , then that should provide some benefit in the real of human daily life ,like joy and easy from which goals are accomplish that of course are built to enlighten the world on some means , can you share what potentiall outcomes would be ?

Thank you very much . One thing i feel I should ask . There was a keyword that you mentioned a lot in your youtube lectures called conscious leadership which somehow is different than the unconscious leadership . Is this something that can be developed by self awareness , contemplation , evolving our consciousness from different spiral dynamic stages and ego stages and being conscious of people stages and our shadow and the crowd shadow . I mean . I am in the right field energy , judging by the keywords I am pointing to .

Yeah . I get what you are saying . I feel like I have sacrficided my social life for too long in the past precisely because I believed if i worked hard enough in school , I could graduate and then get a job and finance different lifestyle goals as I develop myself and have basic needs met and then life didn't go as it should . So now I just feel like I am back squere zero and feel doubtful . This is why I use this label pointless and I want to be effective and stuff like that . I will work on this . Thank you for your time .

It originated from pick up artists as a concept they call frame control. They understood that in every interaction between a man and a woman, someone will frame the interaction. Are you the creepy guy at the bar making women uncomfortable, or are you the cocky and funny dudewho she would love to sleep with? Well, that’s a matter of frame. It’s partially the agreed upon perception of your environment, partially the narratives that make up everyone's decision making process, and partially how you perceive yourself and how they perceive themselves. The frame is the underlying meaning. It's the context, the implication—the unspoken assumption in everything you say. When I said I have quantified it , it means , I have made it practical and categorize to physical Frame to work . And Emotional Frame and intellectual and create goals in each category to supply my frame . How I am percevied and I perceive reality with right mental models that would allow me feel confident and be seen confident .

I mean I just feel like what is the point . I know this sounds weird . But what is the point of developing myself for the next 5 to 10 years and then I will achieve the outcomes that I seek . I mean what a pointless life . Why Can't I spend time and investment on shorter timeline like 6 months - 12 months , why 5 years till 10 years . It seems too much . I have already spend more than 12 years learning in academia and everything turned out to be pointless and here I am broke and with low self esteem and not self actualized . Can I say I want to be effective ?- Like to do the right thing , not just do things right . I want to do the right thing . I am not convinced that 5 to 12 YEARS OF developing myself could create the outcome I seek specificially when this seem goals i have workd my entire life to accomplish them from more than that and nothing happened . So how can I make sense of this ?

28 years old . Limited skills . Lack of money , feel like I won't be able to accomplish them . Thirld world country in a small mountain .don't trust myself . interevert with bad social skills .

Live a good life that I couldn't live before . I want to have a strong frame > I have quantified this mental model and made it practical . I want to be self-actualized I want to have the means to travel and be location free If I am to live longer , at least I want to have a home for myself I want to be loved and cared for So much to say ………

Hello there How much do you think a person can Accomplish in 6 months of deep work actualizing using Leo Gura 's concepts and videos . Like if Leo , could explain , how much being needs and survival needs can be met by just working on 6 Months' timeline of work on his concepts trying to embody them . It would be preferable if Leo can tell us how much outcome and results he creates in 6 months if he has a memory distinction .