Past-Philosopher-562

Hello there I have actually contemplated this question and did a lot of work and wrote a lot of details and examples , but I really wish you would help me in this , I want a second opinion about Frame ? -- According to you , since you mentioned it in your dating topics , can you give me a definition when we say he has a strong Frame and how to develop a strong Frame ?

@Leo Gura Thank you I want to develop a personal framework for self-actualization, but I feel overwhelmed by the many mental models I’m trying to integrate. My main idea is the "Pillars of Frame," which includes four key pillars: physical, intellectual, emotional, and vision. However, I'm struggling to connect these pillars to broader, more established models like Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and Spiral Dynamics. This indecisiveness is making it difficult for me to progress. I want to have a strong frame—confident and assertive—while also addressing different needs [ Maslow's needs] and ultimately reaching the highest stage, which is Turquoise. But I'm having trouble seeing how to integrate all these concepts into a holistic framework . The only holistic framework seems to the Pillars of Frame , but I have no idea why I am resistant .

@mmKay Thank you very much for the work you have done for me . I really appreciiated . I have cop pasted your answers in a document ,and I will contemplate it . It's really good . Love it I have some questions on this , I have developed a mental model which guides me in how to develop frame , and I just sometimes don't know which to pick . I really want to work on maslow's hierarchy of needs , and then sometimes , I think I should work on Physical , intellectual and emotional Pillar of my frame and then develop vision and that would be how to create a frame . I have designed a lot of mental models , I don't know what to select any one of them given that I want to be self actualized working through multiple models in order to reach torqoise level embodimenet . Any help here

Wish you the best my friend . I hope you are well . I studied a bit type theory in analytical psychology and I think you have been typed as INTP -- This physical health problems like back pain which you have mentioned may have to do with Si - interverted Sensing being ignored . Could it be - the workaholism - ignoring physical needs and unability to Monitor the body for signs that you need rest/recharging so that you take enough time to prepare well for work periods or even bad sitting habits . Could this be the issue ? -- Just asking .

@koops Thank you very much for the work you do in helping us . This is good . Do you think blue would be done in the future ?

I hope conscious leadership is coming . Man we really need that

Hello Leo gura . I hope you are doing well . I have specific questions that I believe they are interesting . I hope you take some time to answer them . Since your deep work , as a leader , which stage of spiral dynamic you are going to use to accelerate change to transform a third world country ? -- This means we go to know which stages you not only embody but going to use to make changes . I think different videos you have shape different stages of spiral dynamic , would you mind telling us the videos that integrate Yellow and turquoise . Like If I want some radical change which videos I need to integrate to be more turquoise or yellow . Like it's not necessary to be one . I know it's a long journey but just have access to their super power . I have designed a mental model called Frame where I broke it down into three pillars , emotional , intellectual , and physical Pillar and last Pillar is vision . I borrowed it from an article that I forget . Part of working on this is using OODA Loop to navigate and change my life using mental models from your videos but I have no idea how to do it .I will leave it like this . What do you think ?- It feels like the concept of frame is yellow value system since it's about integration of pillars - Physical - Intellectual - Emotional - and vision .

@UnlovingGod This is a brilliant Answer . thank you .

@Leo Gura It's a hypothetical question to bring forward which Spiral dynamic you are going to use ? -- Would you mind just try answering othrs

@Leo Gura I hope I am not annoying you

@Nivsch I would have to look at why they take them as hostage . Last time we checked , Jewish zionist terror group supported by the west occupied their territory and commited a full scale human sacrfice . This what zionist survival strategy , slaughter and occupy and if you have response play a victim . It's a laughable by the way that you call yourself a yellew thinker . An Israeli and Yellow stage values . Funny .

Would you explain what you mean by this ? - Is I should not focus on achieving things untill my basic needs are being met , then I should persue higher goals ? -- The thing is I have worked hard and hard in my Life and sacrificed a lot for just education to graduate and get a job and then work on my Passion , I live in a small town . My father worked hard in his life and nothing he got in return and neither did I . The system is rigged in a way where It wouldn't allow me even a chance or a bit luck . I can't find a job and my physique is deteriating , so of course , the energy and the outlook I have toward life has become too depressing and soulless because nothing I get from working hard .

Hey Leo . I hope you take some time to answer the following question . 1. What do you say to someone who lost faith in life ever working for him who happend to be in a thirld world country and who lives in a mountain small town where it has been economically not as equal as the big cities but also lost all the money in a college education that didn't pay off and now has lost faith , become apathic , and doesn't seem to feel encouraged to do anything because of every investment he invested didn't pay off . So he feels defeated . I am speaking about myself here . I feel like I lost the will to change . I think I wish I can system reboot my brain and mind with some mystical experience and embody a state of consciousnessnes that would make me passionate .

@Princess Arabia Can I ask which culture you and how old are ?

As a member of the actualized.org forum and community, I'm curious about your personal experiences with phenomena that are largely influenced by fulfilling basic needs and being needs . Have you encountered any significant changes or insights in your life after satisfying your needs? Additionally, I'm interested in hearing about any mystical experiences you may have had, considering Abraham Maslow's suggestion that such experiences can emerge after self-actualization. Have you personally experienced any mystical or transcendent moments that you attribute to fulfilling your needs and progressing towards self-actualization? I would greatly appreciate hearing about your firsthand experiences and insights on these matters. Thank you for sharing.

@Abe27 Explain to us what basic needs have you fullfilled . like do you have a job , have your finances well and a house of your own and feel safe and secure as an experience . I just feel this is the question to explore more with you .

Low Quality response . The Idea that you believe Zionism can take many forms and some form can be moderate and peaceful is laughable in a cheerleading way . If it happens , first , it is motivated using the more extreme hate toward Palestinians and Arabs and then as the full scale human sacrifice resumes and finishes as it has been done to former Palestinians who had the same experiences , Israel would call itself democratic just because they wiped out half populations across all timeline . Their survival strategies of existence entails annihilation of another race.

@Leo Gura lol fair . thank you . that was cool . It's true my thinking is definetly killing me .

They literally do . How is that something that seems to be when there is statistics behind it and women writing about the bad boy they still miss from their former years ? . You spoke about this in your videos two , How what you discovered in the field is that players get the girl , nice guys behaviors don't .

Good video . One thing clarified about nice guys .

@Leo Gura What do you think of the dark triad ? Are their traits really dark ? Women seem to respond and crave such men if we judge what they do rather than what they say , this men have strong frame and some charismatic . I mean I get the psychopathy , narcissism , and psychopathy is truely toxic but if we consider them spectrums and going too far using them is bad so is their opposite ? --

@Leo Gura Thank you very much . much appreciation for what you do .

You have spoken about how we need to find a way to love ourselves because we are love , it's in our nature and you described how this far better than forcing yourself to do stuff . So my questions for this is : How would I know I have found the way to love myself effectively ? - I am speaking about the method that would be done repeatedly that would produce some effect . What to expect exactly from loving myself ? - Can you share from your experience when you started loving yourself and how this changed your life . How would self-love make me socially attractive if physically I would be out of shape and not high value , my speech is clumsy and tone is weak but just love myself ? - How change could happen because loving myself while I am this fearful timid coward person that I am with all the faults I have . I can't sit still and contemplate because I don't trust anything good would come out .

@Leo Gura The awakening that you had is due to pschedelics or are you also speaking about the outcome of contemplation and inquiry ? - I hope this isn't silly to ask . So , i am going to schedule a self love meditation where I meditate , breath and put my attention upon myself and experience this love embodying expeience and see how this is going to lead me . is there any questions I should ask myself when I contemplate this ? - You are good at asking questions that provide a break through ?

@koops I know this would sound like an egoic selfish question , but if you experience enlightment or what ever that experience is , then that should provide some benefit in the real of human daily life ,like joy and easy from which goals are accomplish that of course are built to enlighten the world on some means , can you share what potentiall outcomes would be ?