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@Basman No . You know and im sure you know anything can be cool , you make it so , the same as when you respect you others respect you . Its not what you say or do . One person can speak aboutt salad and be accepted while other can try so hard and fail . Explain that to me . Its all about self worth and you know it . Call it confidence feeling good enough whatever . Either you set the frame whats good enough or you are people pleaser trying to adapt to me and i am pimping you out . Either way its you judging yourself nobody or nothing can give you shame if you dont let it .

@gettoefl i solved this a year ago and that it was me hating parts of myself (images of myself) like lets say you are scared of lets say getting rejected its you getting scared of your super ego thats giving you the sense that you are bad . Even when you look at it i think nobody can give you shame except you even when other people judge you i think its you judging that self image and thats why . Also i sensed that when you feel worthy , good enough how ever you are gonna call it and dont need others validation its like other people are obligated to react good . Idk i am kinda confused with all of my learning till now and wanted to see peoples opinion or someone who really understands it . I think shame is coming from your super ego and fear (if not connected to death ) is also you fearing shame and that inner parent not loving you . Hope to hear more opinions thanks tho .

Is it true that the smaller our shadow becomes the more bliss we feel ? Or the more accepting and loving (not feeling shame around that thing ) of the whole universe we are the more our mind is simmilar to gods mind and that is bliss ?Or as would you say unconditional love .