jacknine119

I ask this because i don't have high quality life yet, it's said that "date yourself first". I ofc work on myself on my finances, my spiritual and social skills. But also i have desire to successful relationship with woman. Sometimes i really think that it's very early for me to develop this skill. But i also have huge desire of intimacy. What's your recommendation? Can i do all of these together or prioritize more myself on this moment?

@Schizophonia 🫤

I heard it from many sources that you have to be mystery woman to maintain her attraction. And i interest can i balance what to tell her about me? And also what if i have a shitty job where everyone can work there? Is it okay for woman?

@Princess Arabia Thanks, leadership is really main

@Schizophonia Of course i am working on these qualities of myself but before i will solve, should not i try to fascinate them?

@dddddddddd33 i will try it will be great for passive income.

But i don't care at all. Until salary it's 2weeks, but i am going to ask people buy me some food and i think this will be great also for my social skills. But if you know any online money making site to earn some dollars i'll be glad<3

@Yimpa I made same decision when I avoid family business. We are on the right path i believe

Thank you guys for supporting🫶. I am okay now. 2weeks was little bit hard period.

I am sad as fuck. My parents live unconscious life. Junk food bad habits negative mood and thoughts. But compare to other parents they are angels. So i want to be grateful to them but i can't but I can't forgive them their unconscious life because it impacted on me too. They really love me. But with them i lose my mood also i don't want conversation with them because they irritate me. What do you advice me here? My brain says that i must keep my distance with them and don't communicate much. But my heart doesn't want to hurt them:)

It's like a drug. I have attachment that when i am bored i have desire to listen to music and have childish fantasies for example: How i impress girls in my job or how i play well any sport and woman look at me in that moments. And after ending this process i feel worse than i was before starting. I waste so much time sometimes i listen to musics about1 hour. Just avoid music will be good problem solving??

@Jayson G Thanks bro🫶

Thanks man. I am an introvert, too and its valuable advice. I always try to impress others in the conversation with my "smart" talk but i know it s doesn't matter.

I mean with relatives or traditional people. During partying they talk about very diferrent values than i appreciate like: Family, traditions, unconscious politics and i really can't enjoy with them. What do i do in this situation?

@Schizophonia Okay you are right that i am not making enought actions in life. But that's another topic. Parents are not hostile to me of course, but that's not enought reason to have good and constant relationship with them. They unconsciously hurt me and i said that.

@Sugarcoat Thanks. Its interesting sources. And you are right. Its surface of the another problem.

@Rigel Good point!!

@Yimpa They will laught ironically i know. No matter if i talk or not they don't change opinion.

Its also way of procrastination and it's very tricky. I dont know what to do

@Buck Edwards Yeah now i realized that diplomatic distance is the best option)

@Raze @YimpaThanks man, i watched it.

@Yimpa yeah maybe that's better. When i am far from them i love them and when i am with them i don't 😅

And today i complained with them for some my problems and this is reason why i feel sad. I lost myself

@SchizophoniaYeah, they don't care that much as i think maybe

I have policeman neighbour. We had little conflict about parking place. But this doesn't matter now. Honestly i have fear of such people because they also have power. What do you think how can i deal with such people?