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I guess I'm trying to cope with someone suddenly leaving me that I was really hoping to becoming a girlfriend.

So similar to art you look at it and don't jerk off? I am confused, never heard someone say that before about porn.

I'm surprised too that Buddhism and monks that take vows of celibacy aren't considered in a spiritual forum: "Study of Buddhist monks suggests celibacy can have surprising evolutionary advantages" https://www.psypost.org/2022/09/study-of-buddhist-monks-suggests-celibacy-can-have-surprising-evolutionary-advantages-63921

Is it just jerking off you say this about or porn as well? I think it's an important distinction. I am pretty convince, considering I've read mountains of peer-reviews evidence that porn is negative for the brain. I'm sure you've been to this website and are familiar with Gary Wilson: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/research/

I guess you could say the same thing about other users of the forum who are starkly against weed and alcohol but say go hog wild with porn/masturbation, right?

I've noticed Leo say some stuff that seems pro-porn, which I just am not, but can't agree with everyone on everything. I just wondered his reasoning.

Why do you think that?

Thank you, but why do you mean avoid talking about it? Most people recommend having a community of like-minded people who are trying to quit.

If you're trying to put away porn usage for life and still slipping up sometimes, what would you recommend then?

The title is basically everything. I was born with a deformity that needed years of surgeries which caused me unexplainable amounts of physical and mental pain. My dad died when I was 5. I'm being asked to find a "positive lesson" in these instances and I'm honestly coming up with nothing - they were negative and life would have been surely better without them. Can anyone assist me? Thank you.

I posted this first in the Life Purpose forum but maybe that's a mistake - I posted it there because I'm working through Leo's course and I'm stuck on this part. But the title is basically everything. I was born with a deformity that needed years of surgeries which caused me unexplainable amounts of physical and mental pain. My dad died when I was 5. I'm being asked to find a "positive lesson" in these instances and I'm honestly coming up with nothing - they were negative and life would have been surely better without them. Can anyone assist me? Thank you.

Thank you so much Leo.

Thank you very much for these replies.

Ciao Leo, I am just responding to you here because I cannot seem to contact you in other ways, I have sent e-mails and I see you active on the forum, I am wondering when the life purpose videos will be back up because I have limited time to view them, and it was a big investment for me. I posted in the thread about it...