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Some MAGA are drooling about these coins as we speak
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@Verdesbird Do not do day trading
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@Sandhu It’s hard in some of these developing countries to find a mate. The ratio between men and women is very skewed towards men I would focus on what you can control and build connection around being of service to the community
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@Davino It’s not to regulate sexual relations. The regulation should be on the gamification and monetisation algorithms Paying for it is not the problem. If we could pay £20 per month and get a pure uncorrupted experience without any nasty monetisation algorithms the experience would be much better for people
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I personally think they should be. Intimacy and connection is a deeply fundamental need for humans and rather than be of service to that, dating apps are creating a deep dissatisfaction for both men and women They exploit people’s insecurities and drive approval seeking rather than that deep connection that we all really want. If you really reflect on it, capitalistic society is so deeply sociopathic. You have to really find and create connection and community yourself
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My god I’ve been processing so much recently to do with career, business, relationships. I find I’ve got so much going on in my head that needs to properly process and to be made sense of Does anyone else find a similar process in their lives? Just having so much information because of life changes and needing to process that information. It’s like you are effectively understanding how reality actually works but you need time to process and filter it all out but I just keep getting new information added! Ive been making some radical life changes and embracing evolutionary growth in the exstrospective space
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Nobody knows lol
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@Actualising This is dependent on how conscious the woman is. Women who are low conscious and insecure will crave approval from a dickhead and get stuck in a vicious cycle
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Chadders replied to Princess Arabia's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Princess Arabia I had an insight on mushrooms that it’s actually not the situation I am afraid of. I’m afraid to feel I guess we only stopping running from them once we realise there’s nothing to be afraid of when we open up and feel deeply into pain -
@Javfly33 This is a new conscious perspective for me but having reflected and processed reality I can say that your role as a man in society is to serve the community. In this sense you are there for the woman if she needs you especially in the early attraction stage. This doesn’t mean you should not express your own needs to her but in the early stage do this selectively and consciously. You still need to make sure she can provide for you and she is not a toxic woman that will drain you as a man. Younger woman are more like this A woman does need to give the man something. Her role is to be vulnerable and help the man open up. That’s the role of a well developed feminine who is in tune with her body but not all women have this so sometimes you as the man basically have to do that for them Ive been dating a bit recently so I’m starting to see this a lot clearer now
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Typically I will do psychedelics alone albeit a low dose and don’t think that it’s right to do regular socialising when I’m on it even for a low dose However I’m not so sure now. For instance playing guitar on LSD improves my skills so perhaps it’ll improve them in the same way if I’m social while on it a lot quicker? It just feels like cheating to me because on lsd I’m in a naturally higher state and more energised but then if it potentially improves your skills like it does playing an instrument? This is why I don’t drink and never drink when hitting on women because I want to do it from a pure state but lsd in a low amount is obviously very different from toxic alcohol
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@shubhamsharma 30 days is long time. I am not so sure it is the right thing for you to be doing considering potential health considerations I would do a lot of research before hand
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Honestly as hard as it is sometimes you can only be yourself and be authentic with how you feel. Of course a woman will want you to be a man. To take the lead and excite her but you will not be able to do that effectively if you are fighting your own feelings. I’ve learnt that the hard way You’re a man but it doesn’t mean you’re not also a bag of feelings. We all are. There’s a deep truth and connection in that so don’t hide that from her
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@Jannes Lol it beggars belief. This guy is running for president and he peddles fucking NFTs
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I have also noticed this but when taking LSD. I do not take large doses and tbh I don’t need to as I have quite a low tolerance to psychedelics. I only have theories on why this is the case. One theory is that because I feel more connected with love on the LSD it brings shadow pain out of suppression and into depressive feelings. When depressed I feel heavier but it does give you then an opportunity to work through it and release by being vulnerable. A more straightforward theory is that it exposes a contrast between where my state could be and where it is now in my current situation I’ve done LSD three weekends on the trot so I’m taking a break now and will probably go back to mushrooms which might be better for healing shadow elements
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I think us guys can be tough on ourselves when it comes to women. Told not to not be needy but actually all you can do is own your neediness. You can’t switch it off and at least there’s an authenticity there. Like desire. Own it. Pitch your flag in the ground Something I need to integrate more in my life
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Spot on brother
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It’s an interesting analogy. I’m not so sure it’s directly comparable though
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We are all vulnerable. By the very fact you can die means you are vulnerable and have needs. If I had no needs at all I’d either be a fucking sociopath or would have completely awakened. Neither are the case. It’s like girl I like you. I don’t know why but you make me feel like jelly And just to clarify, by showing your needs and desires I do not mean fucking grovelling It’s just being honest in the end because the other choice is you suppress it out of sight which will ironically make you more unsure of yourself and awkward. Better to own it and if someone can’t appreciate that sensitivity then it’s often down to maturity @NoSelfSelf If having emotions means you’re weak then that’s a pretty screwed up perspective. This is exactly the kind of advice people do not need
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@Reciprocality If the neediness is there then what else can you do about it other than own it We all bullshit ourselves about how much we need each other. We need people in our lives more than we care to admit. It’s hardwired
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@r0ckyreed someone mentioned starting with 1gram. I’d personally advise for something smaller if you’ve never done them before. You don’t know your tolerance and 1g is a lot for the first time. Start with .5g or less. You need to become familiar with the experience. Generally it’s like driving for the first time. It’s better to be on the cautious side than taking risks I get my mushrooms grinded into a powder then I use one of those to the milligram sensitive scales. I don’t soak them in anything they’re ready to go. If you can get psilocybin drops even better. You don’t get the nausea so much!
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@Thought Art when I say old I mean ‘old age’ old. Your mental faculties will start to decline certainly past 70 Consciousness wise not necessarily so. IQ is basically how fast your mind can process information. Like a calculator in your head
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@Ramanujan I feel you man. it’s harder if you’re not living in the western world to make a success career wise
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Reflecting on my situation recently with my job and business. If by the end of the year we don’t get investment I will be selling my shares. Hopefully I’ll get between 50-60k Job wise I’ve had it with the corporate world. Corporate jobs are just fucking bullshit to me now. I’m at the end of the road and I’m not going back. Rather be a teacher All being well we will get investment but if not I want to go travelling. Get a fresh start and new outlook. Develop in areas of my life that I’ve neglected. I got sucked into the corporate machine Does anyone here have any advice for travelling? Considerations? Anything worth looking into? Bless
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@Davino Interesting, thanks