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@Yimpa listen to podcasts, read and just sit quietly being mindful

@Ishanga I say that because the transcendent dimension goes beyond the limitation of form. When you are stuck in form you suffer. This is my direct experience of it To be human is a concept

To accept suffering completely is to ultimately transcend the limitations of your human form. You will suffer as long as you stay human

@Buck Edwards they’re based on a very narrow form of intelligence based on our scientific and rationalistic orientation. There’s a deep bias. It’s why STEM subjects are often valued more than creative or emotional roles I don’t think these IQ tests account for emotional or creative intelligence so I wouldn’t read too much into it

@Butters If by mystical you mean a profound moment in time I would say yes they are For me these can be moments of deep connectedness with reality. They can also be challenging moments in time that lead to deep insights

@rd5555 I think some are stage red given the kind of partners they seek. The kind of women that would seek guys like Andrew Tate are stage red because it’s just so low down in terms of connection. Very status driven Though it is unfair and a bit arrogant to assume they are all stage red. I would say many are definitely stage orange. Very materialistic but then the majority of people are actually

@Davino I think you’ll do well I can feel that. Maturity and vulnerability in your question I find nature is the best way to feel grounded or just feeling deeply into the body. Changing perspective as well to recognise the inner turmoil is there for a reason. It is asking you to look deeper Infinite blessings to you 🙏

@matoriii It’s a tricky one. Check to see if there are any yoga groups around. They’re pretty spiritual

@Actualising Check out Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. It’s the first step into the eastern wisdom that’s wrapped within a therapeutic treatment model Bottom line is you are not your thoughts. If my mind wants to think of a purple elephant it just does. Hell I’m not in control of that, so who the hell am I? Awareness

Tbf I get what Leo is saying though I get it. I’d personally actually rather not have a load of stock footage rolling constantly. It’s like with those inspiring speeches that have the dramatic music in the background. It’s just annoying. The person’s words are enough I do not need background music. I am not a child I most commonly consume Leo’s content on podcast anyway. I don’t see much value in watching Leo himself when I can just hear the words and take it in that way

@matoriii Do what I do. Leave your phone at home and go for a walk or bike ride also remove news and social media apps

@James123 Very interesting actually. I like it

I am starting to lean into pick up more recently. General chatting and flirting with women in the day time. Mostly in coffee houses. I am new to pick up just dabbling in it It’s clear to me that if you are detached then you will be more successful. I reckon a lot of people in pick up are in fact high on the sociopathic scale making you less inhibited by emotions. There’s this pick up artist I came across recently called Richard LaRuina and he has obvious sociopathic traits - he’s very charming and very detached. But if you’re a regular emotional guy like me it is harder so it begs the question what is a healthy way to develop detachment? Obviously suppressing emotions is a bad thing. Guys get the wrong idea about that and think they need to be logical and all that crap In recent years I have become a lot more detached and I put it down to these reasons: 1. Being more connected with consciousness so you do not need things so much including women 2. Understanding that power is in being vulnerable and fully embracing it 3. knowing that it is not up to you how the situation ultimately unfolds but the universe I still need to develop my detachment in a healthy way so wondering if people have any ideas

I think this is an important topic actually to get right. A lot of guys think to be detached means to suppress which of course leads to dysfunction It takes years of development

@mr_engineer for the detachment this is advantageous in the attraction stage so I don’t mean in an actual relationship So for sociopaths yeh they have an easy time hitting on women because they do not have the same emotional connectivity though in relationships I can only assume they cannot connect at that deeper more spiritual level I say to detach not by numbing myself but by being more connected with the divine so I do not need though I may only want the material goodies of life, the experiences etc

@lizz_luna some good stuff there yeh I’m definitely on the way to becoming a more attractive man. I actually thought to myself that this is what my personal development in my 30s is going to be. I have just turned 30 I still have insecurities though and it’s fully embracing that. I actually felt on reflection that my lingering anxiety around it is not because of the fear of rejection per se but actually because hitting on women in this flirtatious and direct way is unfamiliar to me. I never had a role model into this so I’m feeling into it as I go and embracing that identity The light of consciousness and divine spirit helps on the journey Bless you

I need to listen to this when I’m high

Just as an FYI he posts videos like how to make money or passive income because he is trying to attract the hordes of people on the internet looking to get rich. He’s trying to cut through by saying look the game is rigged, the rich have all the assets etc and the only way is to take back the assets from the rich and distribute back into society. Points to a bigger concern that we have been sold the idea that if you work hard you will make it but when you like at the data points this is not the case Do we continue to pursue the dream of being wealthy or do we accept that the game is rigged and try to change things politically rather than get stuck in the rat race Obvs not that you can’t still make it and become wealthy but it is becoming more out of reach for the average person. Meritocracy only works marginally but very very few actually make significant jumps up the wealth ladder unless you have rich parents and the right connects

very good

@jimwell As traders go he made himself a hell of a lot of money. He’s just a working class guy that just happened to win a competition that parachuted him in to trading. He discovered that it’s basically just rich kids that have family connects and go to the best universities that get into it He was primarily successful because he made trading decisions based on the premise that economic inequality will get worse. He’s been betting on that for awhile and made a lot of money on it. He understood the economy better than his colleagues because he was very mathematically savvy, but also because he wasn’t in the fantasy bubble of the rich in terms of the workings of the economy and the impact on inequality He has an autobiography about it. I like his style because he is telling people how it actually is in the real world of economics and why the system is ultimately pitted against you. You are up against the rich and their rich kids who buy up all the assets and have all the key connects with the best private education and lifestyle This guy deserves a blog post Leo! Kinda related to your post about Scott Galloway and looking after your kids as a very wealthy person vs collectively considering children as a whole because the rich can just get their kids to outcompete yours@Leo Gura

@bebotalk Big time. Have you watched it?

Curious to know how spirituality in the political realm would manifest - policies, programmes etc I see this as profoundly important. We hear all the time about the symptoms of a dysfunctional system but never the actual causes For example child poverty is a symptom and very well intentioned politicians will look at addressing the symptom only rather than the cause by providing something like free school meals or higher welfare payments These are great but there is never the mention of the actual cause - this being ultimately that society is deeply unspiritual and is still driven by material pursuits. This means that any good that is done by addressing the symptoms can be undone by the next government because there has been no focus on the spiritual dimension to elevate society’s consciousness How I see spirituality manifesting in politics would be these kind of programmes - legalisation of psychedelics and tripping centres - spirituality is an explored area in schools - spirituality concepts are part of mental health and wellbeing treatment plans - identifying spiritually gifted people and giving them proper channels to connect with the public

@MsNobody I do personally think that Only Fans is a shallow way to create value in the world. Like anyone can just do that really for guy/girls to get their kicks off of if you’re attractive enough Aside from that it’s a good way to explore your sexuality. Don’t feel bad about that. Just experience it. Good way to generate extra income to support your YT channel and other interests so make the most of it

@Javfly33 were you high when you wrote that

@Ramanujan I know it’s tough in India. The job market for youngsters is very competitive. A lot of broken promises by Modi Firstly don’t beat yourself up about it. It’s harder in India than where I live so I am fortunate about that. This does not mean you can’t get anywhere. One good thing about India is that it has spiritual traditions. Personal development should also involve the spiritual dimension so go deeper into that. When you are being spiritual get into that spacious awareness. Go deep into that and provided you give yourself time to connect without forcing anything insights will come. It is in this spaciousness that new ideas and actions will enter your thoughts to hopefully guide you I can’t provide the practical advice on game/software development though but others here can mention that to do alongside