Eskilon

Since you were a pua guy for a lot of time, it's interesting that you say demi. Were you always like that or is something that you developed? I ask because most people who are into pickup are hornydogs who dont care too much about connections before sex lmao.

That's pretty stage blue ngl Like a good russian would say.

Lmao, good chart. It still bogs my mind how someone can like scat. God's love is truly insane

I might have a case that fit into this: Once, a friend of mine started venting to me. She talked about all her problems and mental anguishes, while I listened carefully. Then, I consoled her a little but not too much, my approach was more on giving advice and giving her possible solutions to her problems. But then, guess? She didnt want that, she didnt want me trying to fix her problem, trying to actually understand it or give any advice; she only wanted me to confort her and give solace. She got upset with me and kind of regret venting to me. Some people don`t want solutions, they want solace and to people to affirm their existence like you said above. It`s crazy to think people are like this from my perspective lmao. Consoling makes no sense and solves nothing for me, if I were in a bad situation I wouldnt want that, I want solutions and paths to explore to solve the problem at hand.

Good insights, keep up with your posts!

I can relate to this. No matter how feminine and beautiful she is If she doesnt have a curious and a bit of an intelectual mind i am not relating long-term . I get bored to death lmao, some substance is needed.

Not on this planet lmao. Sexy alien girlfriend never been so in demand

Yes, you are superficial and your love is probably skin-deep, but how do you deal with it? I am contemplating the transactional, ugly and conditional side of love and relationships, so here goes some things: Don't you find it ugly that a girl/guy needs to look a certain way for you to be interested? Hell, for you to even look at them and not to dismiss them entirely? It needs to have a certain kind of appearance, a certain kind of personality, a certain kind of goals. Isnt this a bunch of BS and ugliness? Why so conditional? And even when the person do meet your extensive criteria, do you even meet them really? Do you have meet her/his self? Or do you only ever really touch its personality -- the constructed self. How do you manage the long list of if statements that a person needs to pass for you to want to relate with intimacy or even to interact with? Also, for people that are into spirituality and have found deeper levels of love, why do you keep searching for conditional and not so true love?

It happens automatically after you know what you like and what not, after you know your biases. It superficial because you often look at their appeareance and then proceed accordingly, you are not looking "under the hood/real self" and then acting; its the other way around. Your eyes only goes skin-deep at best.

@CARDOZZO

Yes, this is what development means. Seeing the ugliness and recognizing the beauty of it. It's so challenging because it's all around you and so prevalent. But still, even if you recognize and accept it, you are still partial and people will look at you through partiality. Can't escape conditions in this 3d world. We need telepathy so we can start to make love through the true self, something like metaphysical love lol

I bet you would fuck the devil if you got the opportunity Joking, its interesting to know your perspective, I know what is like to have that drive, I just dont have it all the time. It is crazy, that drive can indeed overwrite any kind of personal taste or preference . I wish women could experience that for a day to get an insight in how it is to be a man wanting to get sex

Oh, I see, interesting, yeah I've been pondering this for some time. I not a cynic or anything like that, but the partiality of human love is astonishing. I think this topic is deep and I will get more insights as I have more experience, agree with you there

Yeah love is not only conditional. But, most of the time when humans are in the mix, it is.

Bro fucks anything that moves lmao

@Davino I think this is a nuanced and dangerous point. In the east traditions(the most high quality ones) transcending was never about denying oneself or restraining oneself. It was about doing stuff with Awareness and to understand deeply all your most fervent human desires. The traditions didnt say for you to abandon or restrain lust or power. But to do this stuff with awareness, see its illusory and transient nature. The Ego wont last Death's visit, so the wise one goes for Death. The traditions was trying to point to people that, while sex, power and money is good, it is not the ultimate gold. They were trying to get people to understand Death -- essentialy. Transcending sex, power and money might be self-deception, but not understanding Death is an even deeper one in my view(And I say this while still not grasping what Death is, but I see the importance of it because its the only certainty one have in life). I think balance is key, you need to deeply enjoy the ego, but at the same time trying to understand it and go beyond it.

I see.

So the next step before AGI is a smartwatch type device? Which device will the next step be on?

Cant imagine a condition like that, GOD is GOOD

@Leo Gura Does absolute sex exist? Is there sex realms where theres infinite beautiful feminine forms for men to take pleasure in?😳

Say you will trip on the weekend like Saturday. But then you got invited to a party on friday and there will be girls there. You mess around and hit on girls and maybe even manage to have sex with them on that day and goof around. WIll this have an impact on your trip on the following day? Have you done something similar？ Whats your trip experience after messing around in "non-consciousness work activities"?

@UnbornTao You put too much faith in Ramana... You dont even know if he is real or not. He could just be your hallucination. Dont put too much authority on people, discover for yourself whats true.

it is, and you cannot prove otherwise. Those hierarchies are relative things and from a certain point of view. ---- If you been doing this work for some time it does seem that there are higher and lower forms of aesthetics, but for me thats just your ego leaking lol

Good video for peeking into the psychology of the achiever archetype.

@Nemra Why you got an angry photo of my cat?