Tenebroso

Ideally, I would like to meet my other half and get married. This is what I daydream about. However, I never got to have my wild phase and sow my wild oats, so that would be nice. To be desired SEXUALLY by many women.

Put yourself first unapologetically. Detach your self image from the opinion of others. That's basically it.

Fun fact. I attended the same high school as Assad's wife in London. Not at the same time but she would have been there at the same time as my much older cousins.

What I have noticed in myself is that I have a very strong reaction to any perceived self righteousness and moral superiority in others.

At the bolded. Women's biggest complaint across social media is the guys they DO find attractive don't seem to see them as people, don't offer commitment or get to know them. Women openly acknowledge that the men they find most attractive, are indifferent to them. So how true is this really? I have never observed in my personal experience or anecdotally, that genuinely getting to know a woman or enjoying her company leads to attraction. It seems to me that attraction comes first for men and women but women want to push a narrative that their attraction is more complicated and based on the whole person when in reality, raw physical attraction is just as important to women. The problem is that few men who trigger real raw attraction in women have no incentive to play the role women want because they have so many options. Basically seeing women as people, getting to know them is healthy and good but it will not make you more attractive, actually it can lead to the nice guy entitlement that women complain so much about.

I think social media has decreased the mystique of beautiful women

Women are not worth the effort

Women want to feel that the rich, attractive, globe trotting man of their dreams is their soul mate because they simply are that special. The so called female intuition stops working in these scenario's and is suppressed to feed the feminine ego.

I don't think we are meant to be perfectly compatible with our partners, there are trade offs in every partnership.

Suicide is a solution.

What I have learned is that nobody really knows anything and everyone is making it all up as they go, according to personal biases and desires, some innate and some conditioned.

I think it's reductive to say men's loneliness is strictly tied to getting laid. Actually my friends who have had the most sex, with the most women have struggled a lot with depression and mental health. Many famous who have slept with thousands of women don't necessarily feel good about it although I would like to be in their shoes.

You have to be attractive already for mystery to do it's magic. Mysteriousness in itself won't attract attention.

Men and Women are lonely for different reasons, why is it a competition.

Commit a crime and watch them flock. Sad but true. My criminal friends are always involved with a woman, the women come to them.

Red Pillers like most men talk a lot but will fold if a pretty woman gives them some attention, single woman or not. Most men don't have the options or clarity to have such specific requirements.

I can't post it. It's literally files of explicit clips of this one politician having sex with 400+ women being shared around the internet. It's made it's way to mainstream news, who knows maybe a documentary will be made. Google the name Baltasar Ebang Engonga.

Are we allowed to share that kind of content here?

Well the universe works in mysterious ways. My own personal sense of lack results in zero women and this politician's lack results in a wife, six children and 400 mistresses. If the 400 women and a wife are just props reflecting back to him what is going on inside, what is having zero women reflecting inside of me?

So he sleeps with that many women because of a sense of lack but why do so many women want to sleep with that one guy? He must have something that women want? If what you say is true, shouldn't women be less attracted to him, men are told that women can sense their desperation and insecurity. Imagine that you are probably right and he will say one day....."I did all these things because of lack and insecurity" or whatever. At least he is speaking from the perspective of experience not theory. It's like a billionaire telling everyone that money is not important, were they saying that when they were young and broke? The average person can't honestly believe that. How can you truly have a mature perspective on abundance and lack if you have never actually managed to experience your desire.

@Ajax Interesting post. However, judging by how women describe their experiences, it does not sound like being a 'giving man' is the x factor that attracts women. They seem to find players and bad boys, who never offer commitment or any kind of emotional closeness irresistible. So is 'giving' really the key?

Well I was thinking about that politician who's sex tapes with 400 women leaked all over social media. In one clip it's him and 4 other women. I can't fathom the confidence that comes from experiencing that level of abundance.

I want to sleep with hundreds of women and be a player. That would be success to me.

@Dauntment LOL accurate

Why do you assume stage green women would not be interested in one night stands and bad boys?