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I listened to the whole thing, it was better and more informative than I thought it would be and it aligns with what I have already observed myself. The Red Pill/Black Pill/Manosphere is not a cult it doesn't have to do anything to attract men, reality itself shows you the truth and now men are sharing notes. The way he describes female nature it's easy to see why they are so susceptible to sex cults. No incentive to be an honest, moral, kind gentleman in this world the things women respond to are in direct opposition to what they say they want. "Just be a kind, emotionally vulnerable, gentle, ambitious man you entitled creep"! "Men Are Trash"! "I don't do coffee dates" "You are not entitled to women"!........While they are being fucked in toilets and having orgies with rappers and athletes. There are two choices become a hermit and retreat from society and it's gaslighting of average men or throw morality aside and do what you need to do to become one of the guys living in sexual abundance. His point that men we think of as high value alphas are actually compensating is 100% true. CEO's, politicians, Bankers and even some entertainers reach the top thinking they will attract women but you can't fake true desire. There are low level drug dealers with zero savings having sex with models, lawyers and all kinds of women. Murderers and serial always have women. The less men are concerned with morality and doing the right thing the better they do with women but men are gaslighted by society into thinking it is the opposite. It is ALL women not some as the common response would have you believe.

Life isn't fair there is not someone for everyone. Some men will attract thousands of women without doing any inner work or anything, some men will attract nothing despite their efforts.

Lived in a western country my whole life, eat all the western junk. Yet I am very slender and lean, regardless of what I eat and I don't work out. Why?

@Princess Arabia Interesting post. I feel there is some truth in your post. However...... Why does the universe arrange for some people to be rejected constantly while others live in romantic and sexual abundance despite being overtly harmful, dishonest and abusive ? You can't expect men to be rejected constantly without building resentment. There is only so much resolve and 'inner love' you can fall back on. Regardless of one's spiritual development, the reality remains that we live in a physical world and constant reminder of your lack of worthiness chips away at your soul. So the universe is doing it's thing in telling me I am useless and unwanted. Why would the universe want me to come into physical form to experience such humiliation? I don't know how women and the virtue seeking men who seek a pat on the back for being one of the good ones think we are supposed to feel. Our feelings do not matter? My feeling is that deep down women wish all the undesirable men would just drop dead or silently retreat out of society somewhere, maybe that is the best option. The men who do attract a lot of women don't seem to be treating them right but what do I know, the universe is in charge.

It's not worth it for most men. Even for attractive men, women have lost their mystique and allure, we see them clearly now and you can't unsee their true nature once you see it. The cat is never going back into the bag.

Women don't want to be loved. If they did the whole dating arena would look differently. It is clear they .do not respond to being 'loved'. Society wants us to pretend to not see this.

You are in charging of making an effort to give yourself a chance. However, I agree it's not really in your hands. Many guys spend their whole trying and get nothing while objectively abusive, violent terrible drains on society live in sexual abundance. Life isn't fair. There is no formula do x,y,z to guarantee sexual and romantic success. Especially with the unprecedented freedom of choice women have now, we are seeing their true desires and most men don't make the cut regardless of how kind, gentle, funny, intelligent, clean and spiritually evolved they are.

It just reaffirms your failure to do what should be natural, which is attracting a mate. However, many men today regardless of what self-improvement they do will not attract anyone. There is not someone for everyone.

@SeaMonster That's because there are no 'girls' women into them. Can't develop that intuition if nobody is ever into you and get told your a bad toxic person even though you are not the ones traumatizing women in hook ups and relationships.

All the people talking down self righteously on the OP. He is actually right this 'this women are wonderful' narrative is silly and is actually more harmful to the women you claim to care about. Why is it so hard to acknowledge that women are for the most part a chore to deal with it, does not make you toxic or spiritually undeveloped to observe that. Plus abusers, toxic, violent men have no trouble attracting all kinds of women, what does that say about female nature that society is so scared to talk about it.

It's an innate part of female attraction that made sense during the pre-agricultural era but is nearly always a massive self own in modern life. Easiest way to attract women is to be a terrible person.

I have a preference for large, soft even saggy milky tits but I have met women with plain average bodies who are sexy because of the way they carry themselves.

So genuine non-attachment, giving and interacting without expectation but out of appreciation?

Just say hello bro, women love polite men trust me bro.

If you get out of bed congrats you are masculine. You don't need to be a protector, provider, become master of the world etc... or any of that stuff if you don't want. Simply, listening to the guidance of your inner voice and intuition regardless of external influence makes you masculine. All the other stuff is manipulation and conditioning. Anytime someone says "real man" to you the do not have your best interest at heart only you will.

@Pav You said a lot of what I wanted to say. I live in a major world city. Women are dating the most attractive or the most high status wealthy. If a man is the rare combination of very attractive and wealthy, he has no incentive to settle down and women basically then exist in harems or what women now call a situationships. The women who can't get into the orbit of these kinds of men would rather be alone. Men are pragmatic we follow what works, looksmaxxing/glow up videos have exploded on youtube because it is clear physically attractive men live in a different world romantically. Also women are now admitting they ignore direct messages from men on instagram unless he has a blue tick. I went to a school connected to a professional sports team. At age 16 promising athletes who were trialling to win a professional contract for the sports team would attend my school for the yea. I remember this as being the moment where I witnessed how women behave when they have real desire for a man, suddenly all the walls and stiffness they have disappears and they can't contain themselves. I always remember the looks on the girls faces whenever these guys walked past. Later in the year some of the athletes were having sex parties with my peers, women I had known since I was 11 became these playthings and of course none of these situations produced a relationship but I bet their views of men were formed by the experiences they had with these men who live in a different world. I read a story today about hotels being frustrated by athletes organizing sex parties with lines of women waiting in the lobby for their turn. Modern dating has created a vast gap between the have's and have nots, it's feast or famine. Often men are given the advice "you only need to find one" but life does not work that way if you can't attract many you probably can't attract any and if you did somehow attract someone you are compatible with you would screw up since you are so inexperienced and lacking in sexual confidence. There is a really difficult loop that is hard to get out of as an unattractive man. I do believe there is a relationship between the mind, self-perception and external reality but it is far more nuanced than become a kind, good, enlightened person and you will be attractive. Even the high conscious women are still attracted to the most physically attractive men. Society also refuses to accept that dark triad traits trigger real desire in women. I have never heard a dangerous, actually terrible man having issues attracting women. If morality and consciousness is so important then why is this the case. I think modern life and technology has taken the masks of human dynamics and ironically and we are seeing each other in our most naked form as we did in a primitive past.

@Princess Arabia I nearly always disagree with you but I actually found your post here insightful.

Is this trolling?

@strika These silly just fallacy myths, I can't stand. Life is way more nuanced and fluid than this. High vibrational women are not necessarily attracted to high vibrational men. It is a myth that only immature, low vibrational women are the only ones to date terrible men. Society does not want to face the true amorality of female desire. You can tell these comforting stories if you want to but the world would look very different if it was actually true.

It's not about being good with women, it's about whether or not women are naturally attracted to you. There are a small percentage of men women naturally gravitate to, they are not gentle, kind, enlightened, virtuous trauma free angels that men are told to become. Then the rest of us either totally invisible or needing some kind of hook whether that be status, wealth etc for women to tolerate us. Since women have had an unprecedented increase in financial and social freedom they no longer need to deal with the undesirables, so we see this growing chasm between the have's and the have nots among men.

@BlessedLion I'm sure the the murderers and abusers who have an abundance of women are god realized.

@something_else Your comprehension is lacking.

@something_else Did you not read the post? I clearly said life is not fair but you should try anyway. Are you trying to be obtuse?

Life isn't fair, there is not someone for everyone. Does not mean one should not try but all the wonderful things in life are not handed out evenly.

Murderers, abusers, losers, bums, drug dealers, thieves have no issues attracting women yet the average struggling guy is struggling because women can see into his soul and feel that he is toxic and inauthentic. Give me a break, women have no special intuition for sensing the true nature of a man. They preemptively vilify the men they find unattractive and make excuses for the men they find attractive, only to play victim when it all goes wrong.