Ramanujan

i live in a 3rd world. its a taboo to do dating. i tried to use friendship with other men to solve my loneliness. it worked for some time. but there are some problems. like some see me as a backup friend. some see me as a side friend , a side charecter in their life . it was managable. but once they got married , they started avoiding me. they choose a pussy they met one year ago over me so i am back to square 1. no friends. not enough social skills. the pain of loneliness is absolutely unbearable. i start crying some day will getting a girl friend cure my loneliness. i know game take a while to learn. i am a game noobie. although i am an arm chair pickup artist is getting a girlfriend different from having male friends for your loneliness. does it cure loneliness

@Natasha Tori Marudo you have chinese ancestory

wow how do you deal with higher Se types

@LordFall yeah . nice to see INTPs getting success in dating. ig i will learn some game and get a girl

ooo man loneliness is a pain in the ass. i basically call my 2 frineds 3-4 times before they pickup my phone. and i have to take 10 days break between each call. i have a few discord groups in a topic i am intrested in. but their time zone works differently . i will be working when they do their VCs i want loneliness to end. ig there is no other choice. i need to learn game and make a gf so this loneliness can end. its an uphill battle. i am autistic and very low energy. probably neurodivergent. i absoulutely hate small talk. i can only open my mouth when it comes to sharing some knowledge that i am intrested in its an absolute pain.

love the fact that leo moved his teachings from how to be successful to how to make a girl squirt to how to take a drug and get high. its so fun to watch leo moving from success coach to pickup coach to meditation coach to yoga coach to drug pusher and psychidelic coach

pro gamer move although it wont work for me @LordFall whats your type wow cool keep it up bro

how much trauma do you have , because of dating higher Se types

yeah. but sensors are majority . intuitives exist too. but i am INXX. there are only 3 types are lower than me in Se. all 12 types have higher Se than me

from psychology pov i am so fucked . i dont have energy to keep higher Se woman in their place. there is hope too. like rollo tomassi is my type . look at his game. but it will astronomic amount of work. its an uphill battle

@Leo Gura As an INTJ, is dating above my paygrade Dating require a lot of Se and a lot of Fe Mostly Se As an intuitive, i dont have enough Se to keep woman in their place. INTP have 2nd lowest Se. INTJ have 4th lowest Se Should intuitives stay away from Dating Majority of woman have higher Se than me. And its a pain

Use game on your girlfriend She will be more happy

the attractiveness of a man can be summed into money + muscles + game face and looks also matters too but they are not in your control to improve more attractiveness work on money + muscles + game easier said than done.

manipulate the manipulator

@Leo Gura what is the topic of your book about

there exist dream interpretation. like some masters can interpret dreams

nah . i live in a place where the stage is orange. i reached yellow when i was 24 years old. if you get exposed to self improvment and work on yourself, you can reach any stage keep in mind that there exist sages who are in turqoise 1000s of years ago . like budhism can get you to stage coral in 500 BC

learn some game

i am about to enter IT jobs. will AI wipe out programming jobs . are we fucked

also one need to stop putting spiral dynamics on a pedastal. these stages should happen to you naturally. dont chase higher stages. let it come naturally. i am yellow and i am struggling to learn enough coding to get into IT industry. you will face the same amount of challenges when you are in yellow. challenges in life in constant

i like being yellow. no idea about turqoise. yellow is amazing . i am happy with yellow.

green - yellow i exhausted green . i didnt work for 4 years. i did a lot of green things for 4 years. i realized that i had enough of green. now i need to get back to work and be more productive. and after 2 years i watched leos video on yellow before that i used to do systems thinking without anyone telling me or teaching me or knowing about it. on my own

you will be better able to deal with emotions

meditation gives you a better high than alcohol

alcohol is a silent killer people think its cool becuase its heavily advertised thorugh movies