Ramanujan

yeah . its full of NFs. spiritual paths are dominated by NFs . i got emotionally addicted. and once i got addicted , they start asking for my self improvment knoweldge. took 7 months to recover. need to read you book on cult and your videos. fucking hell spiritual paths are dominated by NFs. they are smooth talkers

i got scammed pretty badly by a discord cult. i got emotionally abused pretty badly . it took 7 months to recover didnt watch leos material on cult

look into stephen covey or david allen or bryan tracy. their teachings are practical

yup. we are weak. i only care about defending myself from others. i will learn martial art. other than that , i dont care much about Se

@Joseph Maynor INTJ

dont shitpost. also dont get addicted.

Leo is good on theoretical side of self improvment. for practical side of self improvment , other teachers are good

maybe because you are too noobie and people who give you advice are real pros

well said. i dont care much about Se. i only care about defending myself from others. i get exploited by higher Se types. i need to defend myself physically. i plan to do a martial art for 30 min a day . i dont care much beyond that. currently i do Se only once per week yup. well said i wanna defend myself. thats all i care about in Se. fuck Se.

@Joseph Maynor does life getter with age as an INFJ. are you now able to deal with poor Se

i live in a 3rd world. its a taboo to do dating. i tried to use friendship with other men to solve my loneliness. it worked for some time. but there are some problems. like some see me as a backup friend. some see me as a side friend , a side charecter in their life . it was managable. but once they got married , they started avoiding me. they choose a pussy they met one year ago over me so i am back to square 1. no friends. not enough social skills. the pain of loneliness is absolutely unbearable. i start crying some day will getting a girl friend cure my loneliness. i know game take a while to learn. i am a game noobie. although i am an arm chair pickup artist is getting a girlfriend different from having male friends for your loneliness. does it cure loneliness

fuck victor frankl. his story is too good to be true. he probably fabricated his story. fuck his book success is complicated there is one school of self improvment called law of attraction . it has its pros and cons. its own practitioners . with its pros and flaws then there is another school of self improvment called deliberate practice . by anders ericsoon. it has it pros and cons. like no one got successful from that school. many burned out there is another school of self improvment by stephen covey . another by david allen another by jack canfield some say to follow your passion. which has its pros and cons. like india only have IT Industry to provide job. i fucking hate this school of self improvment. succes is a complicated topic. many legends came up with many ideas. no one has it fully figured it out. there are a lot of things waiting to be discovered. its a new field. i would say self improvment is not even in a decent level most self improvment book , if you follow it in a wrong field , you will perform worse than those who do not use any self improvment book

@Rishabh R many things in the topic "how to be successful" has not been discovered yet Philosophy is different from "how to be successful" topic

@Ajay0 bro Dont be so idealistic. It will fuck you up Self help is a new field. Its not there yet on many things. Enough things are not discovered yet. A lot of things are not discovered yet

Yup He is

Andrew tate = ESTP but he has more social skills than an average ESFP Rollo tomassi = INTJ But he has more social skills than an average feeler Although its best to self actualize on your strengths, you can improve your weakness too to a decent degree

i read the redpill 8 years ago. i hated female nature. i didnt do the required things to get woman. didnt do much game and gym. i moved to MGTOW. but realised that i hate loneliness. i dont wanna be alone. but on the other hand , handling woman take astronomical amount of work these days. like they try to take your money on divorce , shit test , cheating , hypergamy , manipulation , mind games , etc etc is redpill holding me back. i do think redpill = timeless truth . redpill is not wrong. but i didnt do much . because i also became a mgtow. wasted 8 years instead of developing game and muscles

there is a book called "i am that" by nisargadatta maharaj

woman want 6feet tall guy with 6 pack and 6 inch di and 6 figure salary

that is a different story. in todays world , everything is fucked up . the girl will take half your money and kids after divorce , but if they stay up , they may or may not help. i mean at starting point , its like a business deal after spending some time together, things can get idealistic

you seem super posetive towards passion and purpose can you share your results

@Ajay0 what is your success like. did you achieve greate success in your passion and purpose

hoe phase

@Emerald yeah

i mean its how things are. i gotta get a good physique , get enough money , have good game . its a lot of work. i have to struggle daily to get a job . i gotta find time on top of that to all those things. i got a ton of things to do . like following my passion on the side . but there is no way around it. in order to get a good girl , i need money + muscles + game