Ramanujan

i live in a 3rd world. its a taboo to do dating. i tried to use friendship with other men to solve my loneliness. it worked for some time. but there are some problems. like some see me as a backup friend. some see me as a side friend , a side charecter in their life . it was managable. but once they got married , they started avoiding me. they choose a pussy they met one year ago over me so i am back to square 1. no friends. not enough social skills. the pain of loneliness is absolutely unbearable. i start crying some day will getting a girl friend cure my loneliness. i know game take a while to learn. i am a game noobie. although i am an arm chair pickup artist is getting a girlfriend different from having male friends for your loneliness. does it cure loneliness

being financially free , having maslow's heirarchy of needs met , enlightment , being world class in a skill

the higher stage you get , the more humble you become

@Joshedid game worked for you as an INTJ

Nice to see old mature people here

I am 30

Age 18-27 was a nightmare for me

@Someone here did you land any job

Leo is about theoretical side of self improvment. practical side of self improvment is different

for carrear success , best source = 7 habit of highly effective people + first things first + greate work greate carrear all by stephen covey , or getting things done by david allen also cal newport is a good source to learn for carrear and life success.

is IQ just a test . is it a test where it only measure things that are unique to that test. or is it a real theory of intelligence. can a 100 IQ guy win nobel prize for physics.

@StaraX forget life purpose course. look into getting things done by david allen and grind your way through life or 7 habits of highly effective people + first thing first and use that book to find a place in the world. those 2 systems are far better than anything that is produced

difficulty setting boundaries and defending boundaries. people push me for their agenda , for their needs i plan to learn a martial art soon , to deal with low Se

@Natasha Tori Maru what is life like in 40 as an INTJ can you now deal with low Se low Se is a nightmare. can you deal with it now

@Joseph Maynor does life get better with age as an INFJ . or does it get worse

Book shelf gurus , lmao Getting taught by a teacher from a time tested path is infinetly better that being on your own and reinventing the wheel

Better get an insurance Hospital bill will fuck you up badly

i mean you gotta follow a teacher or some school to reach enlightment.

@Natasha Tori Maru what is his achievment

@Natasha Tori Maru ok so did he got enlightened what meditation path did he follow yup. i am busy . will read his book one day. his book is at the top of enlightment section

@Natasha Tori Maru Why is peter raltson considered highly by people here

He is a con artist. He made a lot of claims like "before 2025 we will make a colony in mars, will make mars inhabitable" in 2010. And many other bold claims in the past

Fuck that shit Go to stephen covey or david allen for practical self improvment

What is so special about it. Why advantage does it have over other greate books. It is made by observing akido. What we do is knowledge work. Akido and knowledge work are 2 totally different things. In order to excel in knowledge work , you need a book that is made by observing knowledge work and not based on observing sports like Akido . Mastery by george leonard is not optimal for knowledge work Share your thoughts below

its not the norm. very few does this . the research on how this happens is not knows for example 99% of those who are into coding , hate coding and there are lucky few like linus torvaldus who love coding the research on this mechanism is not there yet. it is still in infant stage george leonard wrote mastery when he was into akido for 20 years. when a noobie enters a martial art , everything is painful. advice like " love it" , " enjoy the training" are horseshit advice