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@LRyan yeah haha I kinda resolved the struggle the moment I put it into words on the screen. But its still interesting to hear peoples advice. However they only affirm me in more and more trusting me and my intuition.

@Nic dont take this the wrong way but if I were this slow in ny PD I wouldnt even consider coaching haha. because it is joy and beauty and exciting. Healing doesnt imply "wrong" healing implies room to grow.

@Toby hah shame im in scotland rn

@Prabhaker Yeah that is what I meant with becoming unbiased. I think I will wait a little and see. I am not entirely sure how far I have gone since I have made some major clearings recently. So I will see what arises. Thank you for your answer. It showed me the obvious that I was blind to :-)

Also one factor is that I consider myself still fairly young, Im turning 22 in a month. But that doesn't really seem to be an issue anymore... I thought I needed more life experience. What I found out is that once you truly understand your mind, it is worth all the experience in the world... not saying I understood truly, but I got a fair amount =D.

@LRyan beautiful. Best of luck brother.

@Shin doesn't everything help you realize more od who you are? Since you are all there is?

@Magic What exactly are you looking for?

@LRyan There's a simple rule to go by. Just whatever seems relevant to you, learn from that. Put on your own bullshit filter. Great thing is it doesn't have to be accurate, it just needs to fit your stage of development. In ex. when I first joined to forum, some of the people who were telling some very interesting things that were later helpful to me, I approached it with "ok you are genuinely retarded and that is fine but I am not buying into your bullshit" Best strategy I ever had. Still use it, although now I it is more and more accurate =D.

@ctro And I dont know how about you, but now, as I am slowly approaching the finishline of my healing journey, I can with fair confidence say that literally seducing a girl is so easy for me, but only if I truly wish for that. Often times the girl has just an off-puting vibe that you become much more sensitive to. In a sense, girls have now very little to give me besides the joy of connecting with another human and sharing my being with another reflection of myself. It is very different from where most pick up guys come from. So seduction becomes something entirely different. It is more like knowing, that if she gets with me, she will benefit a lot in terms of energy releases and healing, and coming from that space, and that being the whole reward for me, the joy of serving another human. + u get laid. haha.

@ctro Yes that is true. However if youve developed yourself to a certain point the whole idea of being a PUA just becomes silly. Also if you achieve a high level of so called "emotional emptying" or "transcending personal bias" you literally won't care about yourself almost at all. Therefor ideas like pick up become really funny haha, it just loses all its former flashiness. On the other hand, you become so in love with serving others, with healing them just through your words and actions. You get such a giving attitude, that it cannot be replaced by any amount of "success with girls" (whatever that is)

@ctro That's actually one of their biggest flaws as of now. Taking action in dating as in going out and talking to girls, literally MELTS in terms of productivity compared to deep inner work, that is eomtional healing. Because let's face it. All you need to do in terms of bitches is emotional helaing, sine relationships and interactions with the opposite sex of romantic nature are always us giving them our repressed shadow self and being like "here, you love it, I don't want it. That is the source of all relationship/sex/dating issues, like it or not. And you might actually notice, more and more Tyler and Julien especially, are realizing this, they are kinda slowly... toning down on that "go out and crush it". But they gotta do it real slow Because they are a business first and foremost. But their whole business mentality from the past 10 years that was building up to this moment, was "go out and crush it". And they just can't literally say like "ok guys, everything we have EVER taught you is meaningless and wrong compared to what you can do sitting on your coach and working with your inner child through imagination and self-love" But they are getting there Slowly but surely, wait 5 years and RSD will be hosting meditation retreats!

This. Although Im turning 22 in a month so not sure who im talking to ?

@Epiphany_Inspired you gotta go through a period of loneliness through which you cultivate love and your interactions with "dysfunctional people" will become healing sessions, and will be joyful and honorable since you will be of service.

Basically different approaches towards the same journey of growth.

@ChimpBrain Your inner experience will always mirror the outside circumstances so you can learn from them in the fastest way possible and climb the ladder from desperation to bliss.

@electroBeam Yeah I tbh I really frown uppon teachings that imply self-torture. You can, if you have a really really solid foundation of self-love and self-trust. Otherwise you're literally drowning yourself on purpose whilst still figuring out how to swim.

@electroBeam Why would you try to force something that doesn't feel good to you yo.

@Elton Self acceptance is the realization that everything about you is perfect at all times. There are merely preferences. The beginning of self-acceptance has to begin with "meta- acceptance", the realization that even the fact that you aren't accepting yourself is perfect and infinitely appreciated approved of and accepted. Thuss you break the chain of self-denial and resistance and step into the journey of self-acceptance.

Has anyone experienced healing himself with light? And if so, what quality dis the light have? I used to bathe myself in white-ish shining love-light, was great. Today I spontaneously upgraded to violet light. Feels so much more intense, as if my whole being is upgrading.

@LRyan however it is not your job to make him realize that. Your job is to act on what feels best for you. He will grow only as fast as he decides to according to his free will.

@LRyan one thing that occured to me is that he is there to serve you, you are not there to validate him.

@dice my personal opinion is that its fucking awesome. Never tried it. Hyppocricy lets go lolo

@jse Ashram

@Orange I STRONGLY DISAGREE!