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@Leo Gura LEO! Ive been meaning to ask you a super important question! How are you doing? How is life/path treating you these days? How are you handeling your position of a teacher who is projected on so often? Is there anything you would tell us as users and your grateful friends/students to improve your experience on this forum? Love you you crazy Gur(a)U! hahaha

@pedro23 https://youtu.be/k8SmlRDzIRM also Matts book would be perfect. (Whatever arises love that)

@cetus56 I dont doubt that. But it is a masculine attitude, IsnT it? sadghuru arrives, drops the mic badumtsss enlighetened over 9000

@cetus56 im sorry but i strongly disagree with this hyper masculine attitude. Kindness love and compassion cannot be emphasized enough especially on this forum.

@Natasha Compliment them on how beautiful they look. Thank them for caring and their amazing lovely invitation, and congratulate them on how brightly their light shines. And then say" I love you very much. Let me allow you to be as much "you" as I can, whilst pursuing passions of mine. Only then will I be truly respectful towards your innocent amazing goodness. Thank you."

What if the practice youve been doing so far is only enforcing the seeker within you. What if the whole point of the path is for the seekers hunger to be extinguished. There is an attainment and there is in a sense "something to get". The seeker is just not gonna get it. The seeker is to die in the process. There are several mechanisms at work that 99% of the time keep the seeker alive. 1. Youre not clear in what you want. You create a concept of englitenment and project many qualities onto it such as worthiness/being lovable/status... Get clear on what you want and resolve rhat first. Otherwise what you want is not self-realization and you will never get there. 2. Your practice is run by the seekers hunger and not aimed at the seeker/hunger to be extinguished. Every time you wanna "get enlightened" realize that the pattern youre enforcing is "im not there yet". Find the place where its coming from and bring loving kind emotional healing into it. https://youtu.be/4fUzXQS3M-s 3. If youve read my SW guide then you are familiar with the concept of "lack doesnt exist". Well! Do you feel like you are lacking enlightenment? Love you homie. May you come to extinguishing your hunger in the most joyful lovely way.

Youre a wise man my dude. Shining your light brightened my whole being. Thank you thank you thank you.

@Dan Arnautu whats in one phase a growing situation is a stagnation in another and vice versa. I am in a similar situation. I had a very monk-like existence last year at uni, next year moving into a flat with 4 roomates. Probably will slip into some relationships as well. Oftentimes the situations you find yourself in negate the previous ones so you can explore both sides of the same coin (socialization-solitude) as quickly as possible and extract all the benefit you can, so you can integrate the whole exprience, and become flexible to serve the wellbeing of all in each moment empy of personal neediness/needs.

The words I suggested are more than enough. Dont try to understand it, just speak the words and let them do the magic. It has to be honest.

@Dan Arnautu there is something youre not paying attention to, hense the questions

@Dan Arnautu you treat the emotions as something to be overcome and negative. Treat your emotions as if they were little children in pain key words to say to them to shift the energy: How may I serve you? I love you thank you for protecting me thank you for teaching me I am so sorry I will never leave you again I am completely here with you now Devour me. I am yours to be eaten. Do onto me as you will.

Dont lots of awakened people report diminished libido? ed: cuz the thing with sex is that it is primarily ego-driven, symbolizing shit like power, worthiness, connection, loneliness cure.. that shits gone after awakening

He thinks of his thinking roo much. That is his setback. He is brilliant and he knows it. That is his biggest strenght and weakness.

Yes. How could I do it any other way hehe.

@Leo Gura sorry but thats false

As far as social interactions and pick-up goes, I went from - being socially awkward to - being able to talk to anyone and push my/their comfort zone by bringing up uncomfortable topics, saying random shit whilst keeping myself still amused not relying on their reactions and keeping the conversation flowing - to being extra-anxious, not awkward, I could still behave and control my behaviour, but it all started feeling like I was just pretending and lying at all times, as my ego started to fall apart bit by bit. After some time that went away, at least the most uncomfortable part of anxiety, and now one of the challenges I face with interactions is to hold my own vibration whilst triggering awkwardness in others, as my energy has shifted a lot into effortlessly triggering in people what is unresolved in them, realizing that it is actually my brilliant beautiful light shinining on their darkness, not their negative reaction to me. Another challenge is awkward pauses. I am very content being silent with a person even when I dont know them very well just holding eye contact. And again the challenging part comes in when that triggers discomfort within them.

@Barna I will be trippin next week some day. I am hyped what its gonna be like with a new degree of energetical openness. Not sure if I will increase the dose, though the idea is tempting :-) 4g isnt a babythose tho. What is the dosing you are experienced with if I may ask?

Yeah tbh I dont really need psychadelics to be on an energetical rollercoaster but I loved shrooms, I will for sure do them again in the near future. It still does act like a catalyst for me, and quite a magical one at that. :-) Psychadelics are awesome in opening up your energy. Remarkable. I can only dream of what 5meo would do to me... I dont wanna say I dont have balls for that, but I probably dont Whilst it doesnt really seem relevant just yet. But I am just too intrigued not to do it ever in the future. Once I achieve a certain degree of awakeness and emotional emptiness... im for sure gonna use it for some ass-kicking push to drown myself in infinite freedom :-)

@Barna doesnt 5meo blow you into the infinite lovelight of creation, yet not into the infinite non-existence itself? Ag least thats what it sounds like to me from trip reports but idkk i have no direct experiences... i might do 5meo when I awaken

@faith if you wanna kick in the butt consider psychadelics (be careful though, caution and readiness)

@Shin Enlightenment isn´t the end of all limiting belifs either tho yo but nevermind it is not important you shining little beacon of light. May you reach an unspeakable reputation:posts ratio.

If we assume the concept of a subconscious, then this statement is a little bold. I would even dare to say inevitably false. You cannot live being conscious of everything, including your base functions such ad digestion etc. Your likes and dislikes will remain. Parts of your conditioning will for sure remain.

@Barna oh my gosh hands down this is the best compliment Ive ever received. I think Im liberated now :3 haha thanks you kind love.