Spiritual Warrior

I admire this man's openness and honesty

Lmao^

Figure out how to get your women situation in order, this is the karma that you have to burn through. You're trying to figure out a way around the emotional labor that it will take to get good with women. From personal experience, this strategy will not work, you have to deal with this head on or it will nag you forever. Sorry to be so blunt but I think you need it. Stay hopeful, you can have all of the beautiful, amazing sex that you want right here in this life. P.s. I love the artwork

Starting at 26:35, the host asks Gordon an interesting question, "do you ever meditate on the idea of death?" Gordon says that hes too busy and that the host has too much time on his hands to be thinking about such things Welcome to planet Earth, where we distract ourselves from life's most profound questions

@nistake right, "Burn through the karma" as Leo puts it 🍻🕺👩‍❤️‍👨🏘️💍👨‍🍼

I really want to help 3 friends out with their dating lives. I intuit that they are struggling with attracting women, getting dates, putting themselves out there, etc. This is so near and dear to my heart because for YEARS I have struggled mightily with this area in my life. It has caused me much anxiety, pain, and confusion. But now, at age 28, through lots of hard work I am finally having success and I would like to share my insights with these 3 individuals. How am I going to do this? I'd first like to teach them how to dance. Dance is an amazing way to understand the masculine and feminine dynamic at play. For a man, it will teach you how to lead with confidence and assertiveness, while still giving the woman room to breathe. For the women, it will teach you how to surrender to a masculine's lead and also how to embrace your beauty and femininity. When will you teach them? I would like to get them into a dance studio so that they can get really good, but first I need to convince them that dance is a good way of getting good with women. This is going to be a slow process, they're not going to meet they're dream girl after one dance lesson. I think I have to market myself to them first, by showing them the beautiful women that I have attracted through dance. They have no reason to believe that I can get them there right now, I haven't shown them anything. That's what I must do for now.. just continue going out on dates. Eventually they will see me with all of these beautiful women, and they'll be like "Alright, how is this 5'5" average looking dude dating of these beautiful women..." That's when I'll have them and I'll teach them my ways. Let's keep grinding.

I had another date with a different girl last night. I have known her for a few years and she finally broke up with her boyfriend. We sit down at a restaurant for happy hour. At first I was a little passive, I had just jerked off the night before which was probably a bad idea my energy levels weren't as high as they usually are. I allow her to mostly talk for the first 10-15 minutes, I ask good questions to keep the conversation going. As the drinks start to roll in, we start to loosen up a little bit. She kept brushing my foot with her foot, I enjoyed this. The sexual tension was definitely there. It wasn't there at all with the first girl. Eventually, we cover topics such as what we like about each other, what we're looking for in terms of dating, and future date talk... Now things are moving along. Towards the end of the date, she was talking about the scar on her forehead, I lean in for a closer look and brush my hand on her hand, what a tasty, tension- filled moment. I didn't kiss her because I wasn't ready. The two hours absolutely flew by, at the end of it, I told her I had to go to pick up basketball. I walk her to her car, give her a hug and tell her that I'll text her. She's actually an inch or two taller than me, but she was wearing flats so we were at eye level. I hope she didn't do that on purpose so that I wouldn't feel bad, I really don't mind. I want you to wear whatever makes you feel good. This girl is truly beautiful; She can cook, is artistic, is introspective, conversation is easy, she's funny, everything about her seems perfect. Until next time...

Agreed, but that is in essence what spirituality is... The moving away from merely survival and into another realm.. a realm in which Absolute Truth can be seen by mortal eyes

I like to allow the substance to take me on it's own ride. Let go and see where it leads you. That's more my style. But if you really want to contemplate a specific topic, then go into it with that intention. Shrooms always finds a way to make me cry, whether it be from laughing or having an emotional meltdown. Embrace it all.

That was actually really sweet

You're right.. a human with an inflated ego couldn't be open enough to the idea of death

You're right, most people don't. I just think that society distracts us from these deeper questions. I am trying to exit this group think mentality and think about these things for myself. Of course everyone is free to do what they want with their lives, distract yourself with everything you can get your hands on, I know I do. But I'm trying to transition away from this and I think some of the beautiful people in this forum will resonate with this.

I find marriage beautiful, it's a symbolic merging of two souls that want to be near each other Till death do you part

Congratulations, you've achieved snail consciousness 😏

We are lacking the kindness and caringness of the feminine It would keep us more in check I only feel the presence of @Princess Arabia

I had a date yesterday with a girl that I met at a speed dating event. I was definitely nervous. I told her to park in the back, but she wanted to park in the front. Duly noted, women want to feel comfortable, they want to feel as though they are safe to leave if they want. Front is better than back. She is a very cute girl, the way she does her eyelashes really makes her eyes pop. She was very passionate about her coffee drinking decision and talked to the barista for a few minutes before making up her mind lmao. This made me giggle. I got us a table in the front of the place, she was very intrigued by me, asking me lots of questions. I am leaned back, answering her questions with confidence and smiling when I find something amusing. Eventually, I get tired of talking and shift the conversation towards her, asking her about her travel desires, how passionate she is about her work, her living situation, etc. She is very sweet. After about an hour, I say that there's this pottery making place across the street that I've always wanted to bring a date to, she is interested, and we walk over to it. There is a 4 way stop sign with a cross walk in the middle. She is nervous about crossing the street, but I just start walking and she follows. I am the man, I will protect you. When we get to the pottery place, its packed with mostly kids and their parents. We take a walk around the outside of the room so that we can take a look at all of the pottery pieces that you can paint. The whole time, I am in the front, leading her around the room at my own pace. She really likes a painted margarita glass that she sees. I love how into this she is. Once we finish, she says that she'd rather come back another time so that she can have time to plan out what she wants to paint LMAO. I love this so much, that is adorable. And boom, the second date has been implanted into her head, I just need to text her and set it up. As we are walking back to our cars, she says that I have a really nice personality. This warms my heart, thank you.

Women are attracted to men that know their worth and love themselves. Your friend thinks he's the man and I'm assuming you do not think that you are the man. The frame in this situation needs to be "I'm doing this cool think for me, not for the girls." You can come along if you want, but I don't care either way. You cared about what the women thought of you, he did not. Getting good with women requires investment over a long period of time you're not going to get good by listening to one positive affirmation video. Situations like this are painful, I empathize and have been there. Take this one on the chin and continue swinging. The truth is that you will need to endure 1000s of more difficult encounters with women like the one you described. But you're doing great by putting yourself out there, keep doing that. You will get there.

Personally, I'm 28 I'd guess most people here are between the ages of 20-35

I am the man of the place I will keep everyone safe That is my role I'll take your life in the same respect as my own I will plant my seed into your belly Thus planting it into the earth

Working hard is required in order to build yourself up into a space where you are able to surrender, or at least this is what I've found in my life. Everything is leading to surrender. Surrendering is the ultimate goal Death is surrender Death is truth

Haha nice, I'll go to one of those some day. Best of luck

I relate to what you are saying. I was very weary about telling my friends that I meditate back in the day, but eventually I just did it. I think that you will find your way of being more open when you are ready. You have a good head on your shoulders, just continue doing your personal development work for you. If you're not ready to share it with the world, then that's okay. My next obstacle is to start talking about enlightenment and God with my peers, this scares me because I'm afraid that they'll think I'm crazy. Let go, don't think too much about this topic, things will fall into place.

Amen

Yoga class - many stage green people there Meditation class There's this tantra speed dating thing that is all over the U.S. - https://www.tantrany.com/date/ Dance class - lots of growth opportunities and you get to dance with beautiful women Join a Toast Masters club - meet motivated people and improve your public speaking Look for clubs at your school that you are interested in

Yes, I agree. And I will work on that. I'd rather provide something constructive.