Spiritual Warrior

I would love to visit your Qigong channel if you have one. If you feel comfortable, can you post the link to it? Thanks

It does not come naturally to most men, you have to work at it, push yourself out of your comfort zone as much as humanly possible. Keep you head up, stay hopeful. You can get there. Use the affirmations to spur you into taking baby steps towards your goals with women. Those baby steps will compound and compound and compound until you are taking massive action and attracting beautiful women. The massive action doesn't have to be putting yourself out there and getting rejected over and over again. Start off by working on developing yourself into an attractive, caring, considerate, confident man.. one that you would want your daughter to date.

It wouldn't be possible to create content like what you see on actualized.org without being a stage two thinker. The depth that the videos go into, the interconnectedness between video to video, the impact that it has on a large group of people, the willingness to go into the spiritual and mystical domain. I look forward to making an impact like this on humanity one day.

Yes. My dating life has significantly improved after dropping it.

Thank you for sharing!

Principle 3: Decide What you Want Exercise: Write down 30 things that you want to have, want to do, and want to be. Here goes: 30 things I want to have: A big house with a big lawn, long driveway, fireplace, lots of room for entertainment An inground pool with a diving board, outdoor bar, and hot tub $2,000,000 in my bank account A beautiful, smart, funny, highly concscious girlfriend 6 pack abs, a chiseled chest, defined back, large thighs and calves A job that gives me the freedom to do whatever I want A wine cellar filled with natural, organic wines from Europe My own wine farm in the backyard A king sized bed A Shiba Inu puppy A library full of lots of books and tables and comfortable seats A housecleaner and maintenance guy to take care of my yard Reverse Osmosis Water Filtration System A cool, colorful gaming computer with a comfortable chair and sick gaming room 8 really nice expensive tailored suits A Tesla A ski house in Vermont or New Hampshire A rolex watch A full head of hair until I'm 60 A long, full beard like Rhett from Good Mythical Morning An emotionally mature, highly conscious, fulfilling intimate relationship An organized and clutter free home / living space 20 / 20 vision An unwavering drive to help humanity evolve A complete understanding of spiral dynamics and how to raise other people to the next stage A physical copy of every book on Leo's book list A highly conscious, highly ethical, high impact job A consistent sleep schedule A fulfilling sexual life and high sex drive A highly attractive face and body 30 things that I want to do: Make love in Mexico Salsa dance in Spain Make pasta in Italy Drink wine in Austria Win an award at a dance competition Own a highly ethical, high conscious, stage yellow or stage turquoise business Make an impact on people's lives Skydive Read all of the 5 star books on Leo's book list Fly in a helicopter Meditate on a mountain top for 10 days Do a Vipassana retreat Understand what death is Ride a horse Hunt - shoot an animal Eat street food in Japan See the needle in Seattle, Washington Fly first class Fly to Hawaii Do karaoke 10 times Have a one night stand Have sex 10,000 times Go to Antarctica Go into outer space Access infinity Take 5 Meo DMT Write a book Speak in front of thousands of people Have a three way Race in a tough mudder Do a shirtless photoshoot and post it on my Instagram Have a samadhi experience Donate $100,000 to charity Make an impact on the world before I die See the northern lights Throw lots of parties at my impressive houe 30 things that I want to be: Mature Intelligent Wise Funny Witty Clever Strong A body-numbing lover A caring, loving, emotionally strong boyfriend A caring, loving, emotionally strong friend Loving Compassionate Confident Free flowing Emotionally mature Emotionally available An attentive listener A professional dancer Charming Spritually Enlightened A stage turquoise thinker Playful Happy Content Stable Stoic God-realized Focused Organized International Dance / Dating Coach An attentive, caring, fun host Fun-loving

Getting Ready for the Leap Perfect that the last post is the first one on the second page. Okay, where do I go from here? That is the question of the day. Am I really ready to make the quantum leap or am I fooling myself? Also, does it have to be this transcendent experience? Maybe it just happens gradually... Thats no fun though, I want to make this symbolic and memorable. This to me is what makes life juicy, when you have milestones and pivotal moments that change the trajectory of your life forever. I'd like to share with you what I mean by being ready for the quantum leap, what changes have I seen in my own psyche that tells me that I'm ready for this? Ive been looking at my intimate relationships in terms of how can I assist you in your development as a woman. What role can I play that will help you. The selfishness in these relationships is still there, I have intimacy wants and needs, but they are not running the show anymore. I want to have a positive influence on you. I am not attached to you, you are free to leave if you'd like. Theres the door. I have seen the limitations of thinking selfishly about things, such as getting a lot of followers, being popular, showing off the beautiful women that I'm dating, these desires are all so shallow, I've tried them and they did not satisfy me. I want something bigger, something more. Much more interest in meditation. I am finally seeing the benefits that come with just sitting there and being. This is what it takes to make the quantum leap, to be able to let go and observe reality for what it is. Getting better at letting go of things, such as negative emotions or negative thought patterns. Starting to look at my life more strategically, how can I set my life up so that I can make the greatest impact on the world Starting to look at where I would like my life to be in 5, 10, 20 years. Long time horizons It is still rare for me, but I am sometimes able to sit into the flow of the universe, so that I do not overthink my actions, I allow the universe to carry me towards where I am meant to go. This is really a stage turquoise quality of being an effortless human, it requires you to be able to let go of the thinking mind.

The Quantum Leap into Stage Two Thinking I'm back with more spiral dynamics talk. In general, I've been focusing on stage orange type things, working a lot, getting really good at dancing, getting really good at talking and seducing women, and becoming more charming and charismatic. A month ago, I was talking to an impressive man within the dance community. I asked him what hes been up to lately, and to my amazement, he said that he is trying to look at things in terms of systems. "Wow," I thought, "Could this man really be a tier two thinker?" I had yet to meet one. This man also has this calm, chill demeanor to him, as if he knows something that no one else does. As if hes experienced something other worldy, that mere humans can't access, as if hes looked death in the face. He is in touch with energy fields. This is how he leads a dance. His energy is leading the woman into the moves that he wants her to do. He is a masterful lead. Now you might think that I just have a massive boner for this dude (which I do), but this meeting was a turning point for me. He inspired me to take a look at what I'm doing right now with my life. I started to contemplate where I'm heading and what kind of impact I would like to have on the world. And yesterday, I had a breakthrough. I was out in the woods smoking a joint and walking around as I like to do. I started to realize that I am preparing myself to take the quantum leap into stage two thinking. I can see very clearly the limitations of ALL of the tier one stages. Now this did not happen over night, I've been studying Spiral Dynamics casually for 3 years and seriously for about one. At first, it helped me to realize that all of my selfishness in this human body are natural and I just need to work through them before I can move onto something greater. This was comforting to realize. But now, things are getting serious. And I'm scared of what I will be losing in my life if I make this quantum leap. Of course, after my realization yesterday about being ready to make the jump, I went through an ego backlash, eating candy, jerking off, and binge watching instagram stories and TV shows. This is the next morning and I would like to gain some clarity as to what happened yesterday and where I'm going to be heading. Of course I'm excited, but I'm also scared. The transcendence into tier two requires you to give up many of the selfish behaviors and desires that have been running your life. A quote for each stage of the spiral: Stage Beige: "I am alive!" Stage Purple: "Nature is mysterious and magical" Stage Red: "I want to conquer and dominate you all" Stage Blue: "I devote myself to you, my dear Lord" Stage Orange: "I have money and cars and women and status" Stage Green: "Peace and love for all, we are all equal." Stage Yellow: "I want to make an impact on a large group of people" Stage Turquoise: "I'm an effortless human."

Lol I relate to this so much. I've also come a long way in this regard but this video reminds me that I still have a long way to go to be truly independent of others views of me. Best of luck to you.

Great question. A truly emotionally mature person is able to detach themselves or their ego from their emotions. A tall order. An emotionally mature partner is able to see things from your perspective, doesn't get too attached to you, and doesn't attempt to manipulate your emotions.

One of the couples from last week didn't show up to their lesson. During the previous lesson, we struggled to make much progress on any of the moves I was trying to teach them. I fear that because of how poorly the last lesson went, they felt like they are incapable of learning to dance. This is a dance instructors worst nightmare. I strongly believe that ANYONE can learn how to dance. If they don't think that they can dance, then it is MY FAULT. Whether they believe in themselves or not falls on my shoulders. I have to get them to feel like they can do it. That is the most important thing early on in their dance journey, just get them to believe in themselves.

Hi, I am a dance instructor. I will be journaling about insights that I have gotten in my dance instructor journey. My goal in life is to master the dynamic between the masculine and the feminine, I just so happen to dance.

Principle 2: What is your Life Purpose: My life purpose is to master the dynamic between the masculine and the feminine and to master the art of bodily movements through dance.

They're all great, especially videos from past 2-3 years, but this one I come back to most often:

This is perfect, just be yourself man. If you're sad, be true and authentic to that. And he's right, the date may lift your mood. Don't bail on her.

Couple #2 (Tall Canadian) Lesson #3 They are actually pretty good and can move around the dance floor. Here is my lesson plan: Merengue - play music, get them moving (Danza Kaduro) Hustle - Teach them the hustle and then rotate it, play music (Girls just want to have fun) Waltz - Review Waltz, then do underarm turn, play music (American Waltz mix on Youtube) Rumba - Teach them all of the crossover variations - Crossover, Continuous Crossovers , have them dance, play Ring My Bells

What am I going to focus on with each couple that I am teaching tomorrow? Couple #1 (Guy from New York) lesson #3 They asked me last time if they could focus on just Foxtrot and Waltz. As their instructor, I knew that this is not a good idea but I allowed them to dictate what we did for the lesson. Tonight, I would like to share with them that I feel like we should do more dances in a single lesson. "I want you to learn the hussle and the bachata today because I can tell by your personalities that you'll enjoy it. I think it will make our lessons flow a little cohesively because I want this to be fun for you guys."

I can't tell if you're joking

It doesn't matter, meet more girls, approach more girls. You will find women that think youre hot shit and they will want to date you.

2.27.24 I Had three lessons yesterday, and the bulk of my insights came from a young couple that I taught at the end of my day. A young couple came in at 7:45 last night. We started off with the waltz, but they were struggling with the footwork in the underarm turn. We then moved onto their favorite dance, the swing; we hammer home two new moves in about 30 minutes and they are able to dance around to some music. Here are my insights: Insight #1: Let the man cook! The man in the couple is a young guy, 18 years old, very energetic, confident, ambitious, wants to learn, wants to lead. At times as their instructor, I would stop their dance because the footwork was off, what I could have done more of is allow this guy to lead his lady out of the footwork mishaps. It's not always going to be pretty, but it is the mans role at times to brutely lead the two of us out of a pickle. Let the man cook! Give him the reins to figure it out for himself! Trust that he can do it. Insight #2: Fight for their progress! At the end of the lesson, I didn't push for them to come in the following week. I said that they can come in whenever they want. I am not being a good instructor here because I am not fighting for their dance progress. If I were fighting for their dance progress, then I would have tried to get them in as quickly as possible... Because the longer you wait to come back in, the more momentum that you lose as a dancer. Insight #3: Get out of your head! One more, I had a 19 year old girl early on, and I feel like I was again correcting her too much. I want to help get her out of her head, she is thinking too much about the steps. I can do this by talking to her while we're dancing or making her close her eyes.

Wise

Do it over and over and over and over and over and over again.. That's it

What a beautiful journal 🏞️🌊

Nope The more years go by the easier and easier it'll be to get those blazing hot 20 year olds... A man gets more and more attractive as he masters the ways of life.

I have had success using these positive affirmation videos as a complementary exercise. Its not an end-all-be-all, you still need to put in the hard work and emotional labor of interacting with women. But its a great place to start, you will start to become more hopeful about your current situation.