Spiritual Warrior

I like to listen to my body. I'll only put the earplugs in when my mind is asking for it. I never put them in out of boredom and this makes for a good balance of receiving content vs experiencing my own thoughts.

For me, mastery was a book that opened my eyes to how much effort and hard work it takes to master something. As a matter of fact, the mastery process is infinite, it is never done. It also introduced me to the concept of "plateauing." This is when you are training a skill and it feels like you're not getting any better. But in reality, in the midst of a "plateau" there will soon be a breakthrough. These breakthrough moments are incredibly fulfilling.

Tier two sex: A multi orgasmic man has complete control over his arousal and whether or not he ejaculates. He ejaculates if and when he wants to. He can go as long as he wants to during sex. He is in control of his sexuality. He loves deeply but is keenly aware of the edge. He teeter totters around the edge, playing with its delicious sensitivity. Adrenaline is rushing now. The young man breathes the energy up his spine inch by inch. Eventually the energy reaches his head and bursts open like a balloon It feels to him like fireworks shooting out of his head.

Tier two sex: A multi orgasmic man has complete control over his arousal and whether or not he ejaculates. He ejaculates if and when he wants to. He can go as long as he wants to during sex. He is in control of his sexuality. He loves deeply but is keenly aware of the edge. He teeter totters around the edge, playing with its delicious sensitivity. Adrenaline is rushing now. The young man breathes the energy up his spine inch by inch. Eventually the energy reaches his head and bursts open like a balloon It feels to him like fireworks shooting out of his head.

What do you want to get out of the YouTube channel?

"Is it wrong to get into relationship simply for survival reasons?" No, men and women get into relationships in order to survive. None of us are above this.

I've cried three times in front my girl. She loves the openness and vulnerability.

https://youtu.be/AksH-JEgpeM?feature=shared

There's an evolution to the work. Finding out that you're wrong is a key part of the evolutionary process.

How many books in a year is a good amount for me? I have 60 5-star books left on Leo's book list. My goal is to finish 60 within 5 years. That means by August 9th, 2029, this is exactly 1 book per month. That's totally doable for me. Find a realistic goal and start working towards it. If you want to go for one a week, hell yeah do it!

For a man, sex at tier two is not about busting a nut, it is about circulating the sexual energy throughout your body for optimal health. This requires training and an awareness of the circulation of energy within your own body. If you're interested, read the Multi Orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia.

Consistently hitting on random women is extremely challenging. This habit will not stick without serious persistence.

You are experiencing a relapse into more comfortable states of not pushing yourself out of your comfort zone ( for you it is hitting on girls). This will happen again and again for any serious change that you are trying to integrate into your life. Put awareness on it and keep trying to integrate change into your life. Be hopeful that no matter how many times you fail, you will figure it out. Good luck.

My boy Don Juan was absolutely in stage turquoise, called a "sorcerer," he was able to "see" energy flowing throughout the universe. Here are some quotes from the Carlos Castaneda books about him.

For me, I used to smoke too much weed because I didn't have anything big that I was working on. My job was training based at the time and I felt that I could smoke in the mornings and still be good for the trainings. Now that I am actually teaching lessons, (I'm a dance instructor) I know that if I smoke in the morning then I will be way too groggy to teach a good lesson. Once I realized this, weed became easy to give up. Morale of this story, I wouldn't focus your attention on not smoking weed, I would focus your attention on the rest of your life; you should have a life that is engaging enough so that you don't need a high from a drug, you should be getting this high from life itself. Ask yourself, why isn't your life structured for this sort of engagement.

At the end of the day, you are going to have to pave your own path, we can't tell you what to do here. I'll share with you what happened to me though, maybe it'll help. At the beginning of this year, I started to go out to salsa dancing clubs every week, started hitting on random girls at bars, and went to speed dating events. I started to get dates and eventually, I was dating two girls at once and continuing to go out and meet new girls. I had thought that this is exactly what I wanted, I had two girls fighting over me and I was being completely honest about what I was doing. Eventually, I grew so attached to one of the girls that it made me not want to pursue anyone else, and that is where I'm at right now, I'm very happy being committed to one girl. I think you'll know in your heart when you find the right person and want to commit all of your time and attention to her. And until then, just have fun, there are no rules that you have to follow, you are constructed them in your own head.

Hi, I lost my virginity at 29 years old, you are not alone brother. The thing that helped me the most was taking dance classes, you will gain hands on experience talking and leading women around a dance floor. This does wonders for your confidence, don't give up. Ask for what you want and keep fighting for it. Suicide is a coward's path.

Use the Sedona method: Feel into the raw sensation of the emotion Release your grasp on the emotion as if you are unclenching your fist Allow the emotion to float away. Your emotions do not control you.

You are aware of it now, that's the important thing.

I had the exact same issue, I was attracted to a woman's beauty and energy, but I never had a raw desire to fuck women. Whenever I would make out with a girl or go down on her or feel her up, I couldn't get a boner. I felt like an outcast and deeply frustrated that I never got laid. I lied about my sexual experiences to my friends because I couldn't handle the social consequences of being labeled a virgin. There are many factors that lead to this deficiency in my life, but I mainly blame my addiction to masturbation. Finally, at 28 years old I started to get into social dancing and started working at restaurants where I'd interact with women. I started to feel sexual energy coursing through my body while talking to females and dancing with them. This had literally never happened before up until this point. I finally had sex for the first time a few weeks ago and I have no issue getting it up anymore. And I've mostly dealt with my masturbation addiction at this point.

Back in November of last year, I journaled that all I wanted was to feel loved by a woman for my true self. That is what I asked God for. I have achieved this, my girlfriend loves me for who I am, I don't feel like I have to put on an act or be somebody that I'm not for her. I can be my cute, quirky, sometimes lazy, introverted self and she will still love me, no matter what. To feel the love from someone, true love, is such an amazing and fulfilling feeling. When I first got into this pickup journey, I thought that I wanted to have sex with multiple people over the span of an entire year. Now that I am in love with someone and the sex is getting deeper and deeper, I don't see how sleeping around can be any more fulfilling and enjoyable than this.

@NoSelfSelf I like the post and I agree. You're describing not a nice guy, but a chivalrous man. This kind of man will win out in the end.

Sex I'm 29 years old and I had sex for the first time 6 weeks ago. Ive had opportunities to have sex throughout my life, but everytime I would make out with a girl or kiss other parts of her body, I wouldn't feel any sort of sexual energy coursing through my body. This made me incredibly frustrated and added to my lack of confidence when attempting to attract women into my life. Eventually I felt like enough was enough, I started a job as a dance instructor, started going out to salsa dancing clubs, went to speed dating events, and stopped watching porn (my porn is a fetish that I've had since I was a kid, it's not that weird but I don't feel like sharing what it is.) After months of pushing myself, I managed to get a girlfriend. The first two times that I had sex with her I didn't think that I'd be able to get it up so I took Viagra. It was very effective, I got a boner very easily, but it desensitized my dick and I wasn't able to get any pleasure out of it. But hey, I finally had sex so I was happy. Next, I had to find a way to do it without medication. The third time we had a sex, we were in my bedroom so I was super comfortable, I didn't take any Viagra and I took a couple of Maca pills the day before, which is a natural supplement that boosts your libido. The sex felt amazing, we had sex three times that night. I'm now at a point where Im able to get a boner with just a hug from her. It's the love that I feel that she has for me that gets my dick hard, I can feel it and it makes me want to be as close to her as possible. I am honestly really proud of how far that I've come. I put in the work and I'm now reaping the benefits. Thank you God / the universe for giving me this. This goes to show you, no matter how far behind you think that you are, continue to push yourself, stay hopeful, you will make things better for yourself. Work hard, be strategic, put yourself in uncomfortable situations.