davidpuralocura

can you work on not working if you care about nothing you care that you care about nothing the only thing you have to do to be happy is nothing

Chile

i think a big thing that you sayed is "those who are unhappy with their single relationship status and looking for somebody" i have a friend that si single and thinks the same way and i think that if you are not happy single you will not be if you are with somebody because you will always fear being single again and thats a need for a partner if we see it in another way, its much better if you love being single and if you get in a relationship you dont fear going back a good thing here is having more posibilities on your partner imagine someone who everyone want to have as a partner, he would never fear going single for some time because he knows that he can easly get a better person, but hes comited to the ralationship that he has while it lasts last thing i would recomend doing cold aproch to anyone soo when you see that person you like you dont fear and are use to talking to people i think this would help on the point too thats all good luck and have fun on life

the best job is no job

i live with a mother that is toxic some times and abusive too but i dont think you shoud cut her totaly out of your life let go of the hate to her and learn to accept and learn about her i know she may not change but i know you can and that can do much

@Annie thank you for your responce i agree to stay away from toxic people i live with one but i try to get away as much posible

first i dont think the ultimatum you have you husband was a good idea because it shows you isecurities that you have and proyects them to him feeling him insecure and thinking kinda trapes. second you shoud tell your kids about this "bad influences" in a positive way(how?),well all influence is a good on in the core if you look at that kid doing a bad thing you can learn about it and then not do it, in this sence your kid shoud know thet this bad influence shoud be not avoided but learned about and not always imitate, he shoud know what of this "bad influence"is good for hes own person and the ones that he dosent like, teach him to not follow blindly but to be aware of what is happenning and him decide if he wants to really be friends and numero 3 try to accept the personality of this person you hate and lose the sence of atachment to your owen ego and hate hope everything goes well LOVE from chile

tell her how you feel but not saying "dont go" or "i dont want you to go" and talk about it i dont know why soo many relashions they hide feeling over each other thinking they will gurt them or look bad

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