Whitney Edwards

Happy to know that you are safe.

Everything depends on the woman you're dating. If she is a woman with attitude, she will reject a man for absolutely no reason. Probably reject him to just let him down. I have known women like that, where the man has the perfect personality and average looks and he treats her like a princess and she treats him like dirt. Whereas she runs after a man who doesn't give a damn about her and might even mistreat her but she finds him adventurous because he conquers her ego and she wants to win him at all costs to prove her own self worth, such women are deeply insecure and they will reject the best guys simply to reject and feel superior about themselves. So men get confused on how to treat women and that's understandable. If you show respect to a woman and she doesn't play games and gives a decent response, that's a healthy woman. Some men however like unhealthy women particularly, it's like a fetish for them. This was the case with my ex. He dumped me for another girl because she was treating him badly and he found that hot. As per his assumption (which he later told me), that if a woman mistreats a man, then she must be really hot and that's why she doesn't care to lose men, and he found that very seductive, that there must be something special about her if she is showing attitude. She eventually cheated on him. That was karma for him. A healthy man will choose a healthy woman and vice versa. But unfortunately sometimes even healthy men get confused because they end up with the wrong woman who reciprocates their respect with disrespect and disdain so they get confused and assume that being a bad boy will attract women. Which is not the case.

You might think it's gaslighting but I observed it in real life. Men of the marrying kind are simple honest men and they just try to connect with a girl of their liking and settle down with her. They don't feel so threatened by women and get along with women just fine and immediately surrender their masculinity to her, flow with her and understand her in the process. Whereas men who are too much up their asses, don't surrender easily and keep overanalyzing women because they feel so insecure that they constantly worry too much about surrendering to a wrong woman. So eventually they get so picky that no woman can ever satisfy them because they have to find a fault in every woman.

I have noticed this about men that the ones who try to over analyze women are the ones who tend to dislike women. They come up with a variety of assumptions. Their fundamental motivation is not understanding women, but something else they try to cover up. It's mostly confirmation bias kind of a thing. The men who tend to like women don't need any understanding of women, they simply surrender to them.

I think I like more feminine men too. I used to be like that where I only liked masculine men until I met a more feminine guy a few years ago. Someone even called him gay. But he felt alright to me. In fact he was very emotional and sentimental. I was able to connect better with him. I didn't know until then that about feminine men. Some feminine men can be demanding and bitchy, I mean you get what I'm saying. But he was the emotional lovey dovey sweet cute kind of feminine man and I liked that because he didn't expect me to be super strong. So yea it's the entire spectrum. Looks don't define it. I learned to focus more on character after that. Sometimes I am scared of the overtly masculine men because they can get aggressive and hostile rather quickly. So it has to be a careful balance.

The last one does look feminine because he doesn't have a beard, so he looks more like a boy rather than a man, that's why some men like to rock a beard. Just slightly to look masculine. But the second one is definitely attractive in comparison to the first.

My exact point.

@Princess Arabia I mean just trying to be honest. My problem is that I am not attracted to the less attractive men because I won't enjoy sex with them. He might pay my bills but I won't feel romantic with him so I won't feel like loving him. Just being honest about my feelings. He can't turn me on. But I get turned on by handsome men and I'm naturally drawn to them. So even if he can't pay my bills, at least I can have a baby with him and I can enjoy sex with him. That's how I look at it. I mean I want the romantic candle light dinners and I want to feel romantic around him but I won't feel turned on if he is ugly, sorry.

Lmao I just focus on looks if the discussion is about looks. You can say I'm a bit look biased.

I get that some women prefer older men. But a lot of women prefer handsome men. Hollywood wouldn't be full of handsome hunks. And what about boy bands and all the girls throwing their shirts and bras at them. Like Leo said don't go for clickbait Instagram content Women on the street will prefer the second guy. I myself would prefer the second guy too. He looks handsome. Just a bit feminine because he has no beard, but that's okay. He looks fine and cute and girls like cute guys, at least I do.

Women are attracted to the less attractive guy so that they can appear attractive. And nobody can detect the irony in this. You already admitted he is less attractive. Thank god I'm normal and attracted to a normal masculine guy. I'm not afraid to be attracted to the guy I find attractive. I don't have to pretend to be a saint or angel. And if guys can't handle it, sorry harsh truth. Obviously those women don't even realize they are lying.

You're right. I thought the same.

That should have been the Amazon guy. and where's the 666?

And what If the boyfriend's attention is not enough despite the joy in the relationship?

Even if a woman is seeking attention, what's wrong with it really?

Its not strange at all. It's normal. I don't know why you find it strange. I post pics of myself in my social media too. All my female friends do all the time.

If someone drains your energy, just cut them off. If someone adds value to your life, keep them. You will learn through experience.

@Schizophonia you got my and Keryo Koffa's gender mixed up. But I'm glad you'll stay in that delusion.

Impressive. Lmfao. Thank you for your uninformed analysis lol. I can't control my laughter.

The most important video of my life.

Women don't like listening. Some women listen especially if it's a very very high value man. I remember I used to listen to my ex because I put him on a pedestal and I used to imagine him as a very very high value man. He was very deep into spirituality. He had a command in the way he treated himself, the no-bullshit kind of a man. He told me that he will break up with me if I didn't do psychedelics with him. He also made another rule that I should always travel with him wherever he went. I mean I had to sort of obey his rules because I was desperate for him, i didn't wanna lose such a spiritually gifted guy. So I said yes to everything, all his demands. Later we broke up over career reasons. I can listen to a man, only if he is that that desirable in my eyes. Men also do this, they get ready to bend on their knees if they met an Angelina Jolie kind of hot girl. I mean everyone subconsciously calculates what value they are getting when meeting a potential partner. They will compromise to the extent they think the relationship is valuable. It also depends on options. A young hot man will quickly dump a woman because he knows he has sexual abundance aka he has a lot of other girls. Same with a hot girl. If she is willing to lose her guy, then she won't compromise much. Relationships are more complicated than you realize. You make it sound like a purity chastity thing. However in real life a lot of relationships Hinge on Sexual Market Value or SMV. So the same hot guy at the age of 40 will lower his standard and expectations of a woman because his SMV has reduced significantly. Very few relationships are totally "till death do us part" Kinda pure. Most rely on attraction. And romantic attraction is like a game between a man and a woman. It only works if both are equally attracted and both don't wanna lose each other. So all this boundaries and stuff doesn't matter in the big picture. In the big picture only desirability, attraction and commitment matters. People can post pics online and still be loyal to each other. Even porn stars have committed relationships. What about actors and actresses. They have kissing scenes in every movie and sex scenes. Yet they have stable marriages and girlfriends, boyfriends etc.

I'm not upset at all even with this thread. Because real world matters, not all this fussy online talk. In the real world real men focus on the women they want and settle with them, they don't go around looking and wondering what other women are doing with their lives. I guess you watch this video before making threads on women lmfao. Men who live in their illusory bubble only want reality to be different and they will keep wishing it.

Like you I won't engage in personal attacks. If you don't respect what women do that's a you problem. Well I'm glad that there are men out there who don't share this mindset and adore their women. Women need that kind of men. And with society rapidly evolving men are catching up so whatever your pov is will eventually dissolve just like your thread of "women should know their place." lmfao. Have fun. Who cares. My last reply to you.

Yes it seems nonsense to you because unfortunately you don't understand women's mindset. You are thinking from a very selfish pov. But you can find a doormat kind of a girl if that's what you mean by a loyal girl. Also this is another woman whose Instagram you're creeping on. Why does it bother you what she is doing. Shouldn't it be her boyfriend's business and not yours? She is not asking your attention at least. I mean she isn't knocking on your door and asking for your attention. It seems like you are the one overly interested in her affairs. You can of course choose not to see those pics. That tells me maybe it's you who wants her attention rather than the other way around. I mean it's not like you didn't start sexist threads before.