Whitney Edwards
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Whitney Edwards replied to Miguel1's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
What I meant is Grande work is pure gold standard. JP is a delusional fool who thinks too much of himself, he is good at milking opportunities. I mainly see him as an opportunist. He used to have a few good lectures like 5 years ago. He is good with the academic part. He is callous when it comes to psychology and does a lot of pseudo-intellectualism. And with politics, he is just full of shit, he has so many biases, granted he can be quite articulate with his opinion and I don't entirely deny certain conservative positions, he is not as lunatic as other extreme conservatives, yet his content is still depressing and is usually nihilistic and superficial. -
Whitney Edwards replied to Miguel1's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Then you haven't explored him. -
Whitney Edwards replied to Miguel1's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Use YouTube and find out for yourself! -
Whitney Edwards replied to Leo Gura's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
All 3 choices are bad. The first one is a gimmick. He looks like a guy who will break under pressure. Pence, we already know. Chris Christie is like a pastor. Running only to have free lunches, dinners, hotels, drinks, security, and the usual trappings of a candidate who haven't a chance. On defeat, he will push a book, hit the tv and find his next grift. -
Whitney Edwards replied to Leo Gura's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
What do we got - Someone like Trump. Ok Trump nevermind. Someone like DeSantis. Someone like Tucker Carlson. .... At this point (insert meme). -
Whitney Edwards replied to Leo Gura's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Some of the judges are like Trump aides. -
Whitney Edwards replied to Leo Gura's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
And he will milk it. -
Whitney Edwards replied to Leo Gura's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
The real solution to a problem is uprooting the mentality. Trump is the mouthpiece for it. -
Whitney Edwards replied to Leo Gura's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
But....he is running. -
Whitney Edwards replied to Hardkill's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
You mean Ron DeSantis? -
Whitney Edwards replied to Miguel1's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Comparing Grande to JP is like comparing gold to dirt. -
Way too hypothetical.
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Whitney Edwards replied to Hardkill's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Leo Gura btw trump has a lot of support. -
Whitney Edwards replied to Hardkill's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Manifestation of power is actually a stage red trait. -
Self reflection.
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Whitney Edwards replied to Hardkill's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Why not stage red if it's all about power? -
Whitney Edwards replied to Hardkill's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
What if they got successful in imposing their worldview? -
Do you think all girls are that way?
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Whitney Edwards replied to Leo Gura's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
It's sad that Pete never joined Actualized org. -
Set boundaries in your family.
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https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2022/09/22/incels-rape-murder-study/
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Whitney Edwards replied to Someone here's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
It's like solipsism needs to start a topic titled "someone here syndrome, " to address the mayhem around it. -
@mr_engineer keep going with your pointless game. Nobody can help you. Goodluck.
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Can I kindly say that you're the one who is emasculating himself. If anything, most people are trying to trigger your masculine energy to show you that you need to wake up and take responsibility. The irony. You aren't seeking help. You're seeking validation for your neurosis. If you struggle with something for more than a few weeks, it's time to see a therapist. All you're doing is whining on a forum week after week. What are you achieving throwing your problems at strangers? What action have you taken? What kind of help are you looking for? Like I said earlier, talking about your problems seems legit. But there's a time period after which you have to fix those problems than just keep rambling about it. It's not the talking that makes you weak. It's the non stop rambling and looking for pity. You're using people as a crutch. And most people will support you but to what extent? Once you make it a regular habit to seek support, most people will see it as a form of inaction. Inaction indicates weakness, unreliability, irresponsibility and not wanting to outgrow your problems. Just stuck in a rut. It can be tiring for others to keep serving as your sponge or online therapist lol. Her compassion won't solve your weaknesses. How will you support her if you can't do that for yourself? She is not gonna be your mommy. She will find it repulsive if you keep running to her with your problems. Even your parents won't put up with it for too long. You suffer a mental pattern where you constantly want to be sympathized or stroked, probably your trauma, I have no clue, but you have to it solve it on your own, sympathy from strangers or even a compassionate partner can only last for some time, it's selfish to keep expecting more since it drains them to keep attending to your needs. Simply impossible in a practical context. You're having grand delusions that someone will always act like a hands-on therapist for you. Well, real life will be a rude awakening then. People have stuff to do than just be nice to each other. You take everything for granted. Now you're playing the game of hypothesis. Nobody said that you're worthless. You make shit up. Nobody said you shouldn't have emotions either. But if emotions is all you got, then you don't have much to offer, nobody would want to stick around that for too long, it's incredibly draining, immature and most people will hop out. There's a shit load of problems to deal with than just sulking in a corner about emotions. You can't post on a public forum and expect people to go away. They're going to respond to what they see. I thought you complained about emasculation. And now you seem to be having a problem with "strong men." I hate to break it to you, but strong men aren't emasculated, something I expect you to be looking up to, especially when you don't want to be emasculated, it's quite twisted and ironic. Your problem is you have very low self esteem. You cannot handle a strong position. Your low self esteem doesn't let you be empowering in a situation so you relegate yourself to victimhood to justify inaction. Fix your low self esteem instead of blaming others.
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@mr_engineer you live in victimhood. Most of your posts begin with absolutely zero self reflection or self awareness. When someone tries to say something to you, you end up with back and forth argument with them in an endless loop and assume that everyone here is trying to subjugate you. Most are just trying to help you. Regarding your concern, if a man is told to man up, that's not a bad thing at all. I'm estimating that 17 is the time where most men want to leave boyhood and slowly enter manhood and adulthood and this is the transition where they don't want to feel like a baby being told what to do. There's a rebellious need to push that away and be able to handle problems independently. In fact the opposite is true. What you're trying to do in this thread is an example of emasculation. You are trying to make men look weak and incapable and expecting them to keep bickering about their problems. This reason being why men admire Andrew Tate and the likes. They want the opposite of what you're looking for. You're expecting to be spoon-fed and Molly coddled. Coddling you is not letting you take personal responsibility for your issues. You stated in some of your posts that your problems are deeper and so they should be shown compassion to. But compassion doesn't solve problems. What you're looking for is validation for your state of misery. If your problems are deep, then they should be solved by counseling and therapy. That's where you get validation and comfort and assistance too. Not in public. You can't expect the entire world to cry with you. Seek therapy for your problems. That's called problem solving rather than just sitting with the problems and endlessly whining about it till eternity expecting compassion. Maybe you'll find some compassion with a female but that won't solve your problems because they go deeper than just having some compassion sprinkled on it. In fact it will further delay the resolution process. It will be a disservice to you. Your ego simply cannot bear that society is not designed to your expectations. The job of the masculine is not to molly coddle you. So don't expect other men to just keep patting you meanwhile you don't show any progress with your problems. You have problems that need addressal in therapy. Masculine wants to set a precedent and an order and wants to move on to higher goals. You don't seem to want that. In fact even your own dad will tell you to man up because he doesn't want to find his son just struggling and not doing much about it. Most masculine gurus will give you the tough love treatment. And it's not unhealthy, neither it is ignoring your problems. You're simply looking for someone to be your emotional sponge that soaks up all your issues. Most people will be willing to do that to a certain point, post which they will be tired of constantly coddling you and will tell you to move on. Most people can't live by your code or level of timidity. They don't have time to babysit you, that's why therapy. You have two options - either you choose to keep complaining till the point of validation and even after that. Or you build yourself from scratch and actually get to be doing something productive about it.