Whitney Edwards

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  1. I'm stealing this from you for my journal. (of course with your permission )
  2. A biological construction is not a human mind construct though because it's tangible and we can touch it like a chair.
  3. Maybe she wants to test you. Like she wants to see your next move. Girls test guys subconsciously to see the level of interest or how funky you are. Girls don't like if you take things too seriously. They want you to play around and act humorous and give a jokey reply. They are basically giving hints that you should initiate flirting. And if you don't respond to their hinting, they get bored quickly. They see it as "not so interesting." So just flirt a bit. She doesn't need to be seated next to you for you to flirt. Women are a lot about emotions. We like banter. We don't like quick sexual or physical escalation. The biggest thought going through a woman's mind while going to a first date is "I don't wanna date a fuck boy" this is actually our biggest fear. Our bodies get tensed up if we detect the fuckboy vibe and no woman wants to fall for that trap. So we test for signs on the first date and right away we try to smell the fuckboy vibe. Quick sexual escalation (if she is not into casual sex) on the first date might backfire badly and she might not appreciate it. So if it's a first date, keep it light and flirt a bit. And give her space and don't make too many assumptions. Also @Hojo is right. We tend to detect moods and vibes from a man. It's like our sixth sense. If we think you're upset, we will catch that and reflect it back to you. A woman more than anything likes a happy man. Any negative vibe from a man drives us away. So focus on the vibe you create on your dates, it will play a big role in how you are perceived.
  4. What about your physical body and the water you drink and the oxygen you breathe? Is that a construct too?
  5. Wisdom left the chat.
  6. I don't even know where to begin. Is it all my fault?
  7. You're cracking me up now. C'mon.
  8. https://clagett-law.com/blog/10-leading-causes-of-divorce-in-the-united-states/ 10 leading causes of divorce in the United States. Marital Infidelity Financial Disagreements Weight Gain Lack of Intimacy Lack of Equality Lack of Preparation Poor Communication Addiction Abuse Difference in Religion There are major reasons for divorce. It's not as simple as little Disagreements over restaurants and theatres. Do your research.
  9. This X thing reminds me of gab if anyone remembers it. I used to be on it until a terrorist attack happened and I left that terrible radicallized place. I remember being right wing radicalized in those days and I still get emails from them. It's such insane rubbish, it gave me a lifetime of guilt and it shows how easy right wing radicalization is. The FBI got involved and it was temporarily suspended.
  10. What should be an appropriate reaction/action to October 7? Is there a perfect answer to it?
  11. Well it's just a guess. My guess is that it could turn into a cult of right wing radical echo chamber leading to something big like the January 6 incident. And Musk wouldn't even take responsibility for it as usual.
  12. The whole situation ultimately boils down to only one question, "what's the ultimate solution for terrorism?"
  13. What if it devolves into "ala China/Russia" the way Trump administration devolved into January 6 attack on democracy. You want people to wait till then?
  14. Maybe show him a video of all the bad stuff Trump has done. I saw a video a year ago which showed all of his con-artistry in great detail. You can look it up. I don't know if it's deleted.
  15. I often see motivational quotes on social media and inspiring stories of people.. So I don't think social media is that bad. And advanced forms of social media also have filters and sorting options to tailor your feed only to the content you want in your feed so that's a great way of gathering related information. So that's a great benefit. For example if I want information on the human spine structure, the whole social media feed will be filled with images and videos of spine structures. You don't need to delete social media, you simply have to stop random browsing and tailor your browsing and feed to suit your needs as per the information you want.
  16. Lmao x banned. Lol. Didn't see that coming.Musk's prediction went wrong I guess.
  17. I honestly find this guy million times more attractive than Chico. I'm not kidding. Look at his sauve features.
  18. https://youtu.be/EfJaCj4of6Y?si=xkLbyNr0PmZYR-0I If the soul is eternal......
  19. Happy to know that you are safe.
  20. Everything depends on the woman you're dating. If she is a woman with attitude, she will reject a man for absolutely no reason. Probably reject him to just let him down. I have known women like that, where the man has the perfect personality and average looks and he treats her like a princess and she treats him like dirt. Whereas she runs after a man who doesn't give a damn about her and might even mistreat her but she finds him adventurous because he conquers her ego and she wants to win him at all costs to prove her own self worth, such women are deeply insecure and they will reject the best guys simply to reject and feel superior about themselves. So men get confused on how to treat women and that's understandable. If you show respect to a woman and she doesn't play games and gives a decent response, that's a healthy woman. Some men however like unhealthy women particularly, it's like a fetish for them. This was the case with my ex. He dumped me for another girl because she was treating him badly and he found that hot. As per his assumption (which he later told me), that if a woman mistreats a man, then she must be really hot and that's why she doesn't care to lose men, and he found that very seductive, that there must be something special about her if she is showing attitude. She eventually cheated on him. That was karma for him. A healthy man will choose a healthy woman and vice versa. But unfortunately sometimes even healthy men get confused because they end up with the wrong woman who reciprocates their respect with disrespect and disdain so they get confused and assume that being a bad boy will attract women. Which is not the case.