Whitney Edwards

This is a highly personal and subjective area.The potential benefits and risks of psychedelic use vary greatly from person to person. Regular self-reflection and journaling can deepen your understanding of your experiences, both during and after psychedelic use.

Women were socially conditioned from historic times to be with one man.

I want to get rid of my neurotic tendencies and addictions. My addiction to internet in general. So I'll keep a goal to minimize that. I want a regular exercise habit and clean eating. I want to do proper time management too. I'm planning to jack up my productivity in 2025. For that I will need a modicum of discipline. Other baby steps are doing my own therapy, consolidation of my goals, reduction in distractions and more focus on contemplative spirituality.

To be frank, we don't carry a laundry list when we go on dates. A woman's attraction pattern is whimsical although there's still some survival logic woven into it. But we don't put a lot of thought when we want a man, it's mostly spontaneous, we like a guy, it can be anything from his looks, his personality, his mannerisms, it doesn't really matter to us if we're attracted to him, there's no fixed definition to it, if you asked random women why they are attracted to their boyfriends or husbands they won't be able to come up with a definite answer because we don't plan ahead, we are opposite of the masculine, we dwell in the moment and experience spontaneous attraction and the man is lucky if many women like him or even if one does. The thought process usually happens later. We observe everything about the man we're interested in, women have a hawk eye for this. Women don't experience attraction rationally, but rather intuitively. So much of our mental operation in attraction happens subconsciously and without any calculation. One thing that most women calculate is resources. If the guy is not resourceful, most women are turned off whether they're independent financially is irrelevant.

Haha. What do you not like about the software? Just curious. Do you think women have been toxic to you in the past? I'm curious to know because a lot of men don't open up.

I also have the anxiety of the new year. But I also feel like the new year will bring something good for me.

Baby steps are small steps towards your goal.

You're consciousness.

People are probably still celebrating new year..

Always take the advice that resonates with your personal experience. In fact advice is not even necessary. What's more important is to go out and get your own field experience and gradually learn from that.

Women will always have their agenda one way or another. Yet I don't like it when men don't want to hear a woman's perspective at all. That confuses me.

Women (based off my previous dating experience) are attracted to charisma and sexuality in men in the beginning. But his values, integrity and character matter a lot within the context of a relationship. His initial mannerisms matter the most. So first impressions matter a lot. Next is his behavior and the dynamic he sets in the relationship. If he is abusive, unkind, unfriendly, unsupportive and or being a jerk, she will eventually leave and choose a better man for herself. A woman's intuition is strong in relationships. She can sense the type of man she wants to date. Often this can get muddled by her childhood upbringing and her own worldview of romance and sexuality but it will stay muddled if she doesn't put in proactive growth to consciously clear out her toxic patterns and reconnects healthily to her own sexuality to secure the man who treats her well. We tend to attract what we already are. So even if you attract someone way out of your league, you won't be able to keep them for long if you don't put in effort to match their standards. This is just how survival works. If you want something really good, you have to put in the effort to attract that as well. General dynamics of attraction exists just like Leo describes and a lot of this textual knowledge is true. However... Real life dating is an experience in itself. Attraction varies from person to person and is highly contingent on personality traits, worldview, personal values and biological chemistry. You can't simulate these things into some theoretical package.

I like bdsm type of relationships. Probably it's connected with my childhood trauma, I really don't know. But I like the interplay of submission of dominance in relationships.

I command () you to make a thread in the dating section on how men can be more charismatic to get women. Make a huge list of what men can do. C'mon you should do it.

Thats a good idea.

What benefit are you looking for?

Happy new year

I had similar experiences around sex where I used to guilt myself but it made my masturbation just more frequent and it created a guilt cycle. Then I broke my sexual repression and didn't feel the need to masturbate as frequently as I used to and I felt freer and better around the subject of sex. It's just social conditioning that reinforces shame and guilt around sex. So kudos to your development.

I'm spending my 31st December night with my husband. Wow so lucky.

Yea those visas are why America exists.

Yea understandable.

Thats sad because she doesn't deserve that.

I mean if she is not beautiful in your eyes, why are you having sex with her? It doesn't make sense.

I don't consider this to be some kind of super power though. Different people can react very differently to LSD. I'll only believe that someone has a super power if they can accurately predict my future looking straight into my eyes.

I don't.