Buck Edwards

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  1. Yes. Stoicism definitely helps. Do you recommend a proper book?
  2. Cool. Lately I've been into lofi mixes too.
  3. So here's the link to the post by @Carl-Richard
  4. First look for someone who you simply get along with, that alone is a tough job as it is. Don't start with fantasies. You'll be attracting some wrong kind of people that way. Our fantasies are not always in line with what's best for us. You can fulfill those fantasies during role play. But the very first requirement is always safety. Look for safe people and that will be the greatest advice anybody will give you. After your most basic needs of emotions and security are fulfilled, you will automatically fall in the right gear, I can tell you that even these fantasies won't matter at the time because once you find that cherished person, you'll gaze at them with absolute joy and thunder, the spark that is inextinguishable and spending time with that special person alone will be your greatest fantasy. When you start with a checklist of stuff you want in people, it usually alchemically attracts the kind of people who are weird and who are hiding parts of themselves you don't wanna know. Start with the fundamentals first and then move upwards. Any person who looks perfect to you as per your checklist of desires would be the farthest from perfect and you would end up in a mess. It's not what we desire, it's what blends with us. And that means hardcore values like commitment, someone ready to be there when you need them. Even if you find someone the way you desire, it will be gimmicky and they will fly away before you wake up. Look for character, not charm. Charm is intoxicating, yet misleading.
  5. Maybe he likes someone else.
  6. Looks like a personality recipe found in bdsm dungeons.
  7. Me looking at this meme and an oft recurring theme of this forum is also an imagination and perhaps it's time to get over it.
  8. @Schizophonia well most mental illnesses start that way. Either genetically or because of brutal parenting that brings permanent changes in neural connections, pathways and overall worldview. Mental illness is a complex brain process. I like what Carl Richard said the other day about people's struggles the other day. He was on point. Will link his post later.
  9. Meds usually prescribed for bipolar disorder - Anti-psychotics Mood stabilizers Mood enhancers(natural) Anti-depressants
  10. @Princess Arabia Will do once I return home.
  11. Van Gogh style photo editing
  12. @Princess Arabia this forum is ridiculously great. Awesome.
  13. I think what you need is a trusted friend you can share things with. It will offer a different perspective to life. Find someone who can sit with you and get to know you.
  14. Canned food can contain too much acid. Not good for gut.
  15. Have you tried seeking help with a relationship counselor before?
  16. Seems more of a food addiction than money addiction.
  17. Sometimes what we think of others is a reflection of ourselves too.
  18. There are a ton of troubles other than broke and homeless
  19. I've only heard good things about it.
  20. @Princess Arabia it's nice to have you.
  21. Yea some tattoos are dope.