Buck Edwards

C'mon. Men are more emotionally empathetic than women on average.

How can masculinity be guessed? I didn't quite understand it.

Specific - how to keep the mind clear, focused and detox from mental clutter and stress?

Why aren't petty conflicts a part of "work in progress?" It seems like you want to view yourself as a work in progress yet you want her to be perfect? You judge her as unsuitable if she starts a conflict with you. So you consider her immature and don't want to see her as a work in progress

It seems like you want to view yourself as a work in progress yet you want her to be perfect? You judge her as unsuitable if she starts a conflict with you. So you consider her immature and don't want to see her as a work in progress

No. I need mind specific stuff. This wasn't about body.

Find a woman who likes that too. You'll have to work on your communication for that. You can't have that magically happen in a day. Relationship is hard work. Bonding, spending quality time, learning the other persons needs etc. You'll have to learn not only how to communicate your own needs but also listen to their needs as well. If someone starts a conflict that's not such a bad thing. Level up your threshold for conflict. Don't look at conflict negatively. Personally I feel she should be able to conflict with you. You can take it either way. But learning how to handle conflict will smooth out your relationship curve faster. You need to tell me what this growth means? What growth? Can't this growth be achieved on your own? What part of this growth needs to be shared? What sort of growth are you visualizing in your mind? Getting to know her or getting to know life with her? What is this growth you're talking about? Be Clear. What do you mean? Broke is not an easy state. I was broke a few months ago. It was pure hell. Shared labor looks fine to me. This is hard. People bank on their careers. You're being idealistic. A relationship is not just all cuddly coo. You make it sound like a formula. Don't test so hard. Let it evolve organically. The problem with logical dudes like you is that they get too nerdy about relationships. You have a ton of self work before you expect your partner to wise up.

@Ima Freeman detox body is already on my list. But I wanna know how to detox mind.

What does a loving relationship look like to you?

Are you like that?

I don't know if this is true. There's a difference between neat problem solving versus just worrying. Taking the bull by the horns and considering what is causing the stress can go a long way in permanently blocking it for good.

Are you too stressed out?

Define nice guy

Peace of Mind. Big time.

Experimenting with psychedelic substances.

@Schizophonia I hereby declare there is no masculinity in me. I need to develop some.

I like to create tulpa

What do you want a woman to offer (that she ain't offering you)?

Anything for Cringe!

@Cosmic-Resplendence I mean any advice is always tailored to what a person is, at what stage they are in life. The priorities of an 18 year old will be significantly different from a 28 year old. There is no mention of your age, gender or location on your profile. It's like talking to a pixel. You didn't give any background or context of what event caused the trauma or what's this trauma about? For example sexual trauma is very different from the trauma of bullying in school, so on and on. Most people come online seeking a perfect answer without giving proper context and frame of the problem they are alluding to. It generates curiosity and questions in the mind of the reader who want to know a proper picture of the whole situation and some contemplation on what can be done to remedy it. I this is how a problem solving mind works. You have given such little background that sorry I can't help.

What's your age if you don't mind me asking?

@Cosmic-Resplendence I have sent you pm. If I have to share any resources, I will do there because I don't prefer excessive commenting. You can do the same there, please check pm from time to time, thanks.

A psychopath can have emotional empathy.

Quick learner

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